Spielberg When he was young, his family environment was average, living in the suburbs with his parents. Life was simple and there was no place for entertainment. In order to make life more interesting, he became obsessed with photography.
When he was 12 years old, he became a family photographer. He started shooting his family drama with an 8 cm camera. Mom, Dad and three younger sisters have all become his most faithful actors.
In order to help her son realize his colorful dreams, his mother would even cook 30 cans of cherries in a pressure cooker, and then let them explode, spraying the entire kitchen all over, just to take a terrifying and bloody picture .
Later, Spielberg was not satisfied with just shooting. He began to play various peculiar effects, such as late night light, such as the effect of train collision, and even began to rehearse the plot, and started editing and dubbing.
Through his own design of stories and continuous shooting, he likes photography more and more, and he also began to have the dream of a director. Photography makes his life colorful.
Photography has also made his life a remarkable achievement. As an internationally renowned director, Spielberg’s " great white shark", "Jurassic Park" and other films are full Imagination is both applauded and popular.
This is a story in "The Second Lesson of Youth". In this book, the author Wang Yijia records the youth stories of 108 celebrities. They have their own differences in their youth, and each has its own characteristics. Their special experience or characteristics, and their subsequent outstanding achievements, have established a special connection.
What youth needs is not admonition, but a model. The most important lesson in life is to discover, pursue, and realize the unique meaning of life that belongs to oneself. Adolescence is precisely the yearning for the future, starting to weave dreams, and set out to pursue it. time.
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The treason of adolescence is something that many parents worry about.In fact, many celebrities are no exception. For example, our space hero Yang Liwei was a rebellious boy.
Yang Liwei has liked to be heroic since he was a child. When he was in kindergarten, he rushed to be the leader of the class to protect his classmates from being bullied by others.
After studying, he was also very naughty, but his grades have always been excellent. After the age of thirteen or fourteen, Yang Liwei became more rebellious and his grades became very unstable.
Once in class, he played around with the pen, and the teacher confiscated the pen. This made Yang Liwei very unhappy. He felt that playing with the pen did not affect the classroom Discipline, so he picked up a pen and started turning. In this way, 4 pens were confiscated by the teacher for a lesson.
When his parents learned of this, they were very angry and beat him severely. This was the last time he was beaten by his father, because in addition to beating him, his father also told him something: You are free , You can be naughty, but you must follow tangible or intangible rules. Within a certain limit, teachers, parents or society can tolerate it. If you exceed this limit, you will have to pay the price. This price may be everyone’s disappointment in you, and you must be alone Bear all the consequences and accept the punishment that is due.
Although Yang Liwei was rebellious, he was not unreasonable. After listening to his father's enlightenment, he began to change a lot.
In real life, there are often disobedient and naughty students. If they don’t know that the family has family precepts, the school has school rules, and state-owned national laws, they will definitely suffer in the future, and following these rules is to maintain interpersonal relationships , Required by social order.
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Reality can destroy dreams, so why can't dreams destroy reality?
There is a poor boy in rural Hunan. He learned to be a carpenter from his master since he was a child. When he was 16 years old, he went home with his master after finishing work.On the road, I saw three carpenters walking on the opposite side, who also carried carpenters' tools.
The master saw them hurriedly standing by the roadside, turned sideways, and greeted them respectfully. The three carpenters were very arrogant and walked away indifferently. The boy was surprised. He asked the master: We are carpenters and they are also master carpenters. Why should we treat them so respectfully?
The master told him: children don’t understand the rules, we are big carpenters, and we do rough work. They are small carpenters and they do fine work. Only smart people can learn this kind of fine work. How can we? Can you sit on an equal footing with them?
I didn't want to say these words, but it aroused the young man's unwillingness to admit defeat. He thought to himself: Wouldn't it be possible for them to learn from me? So he decided to learn a little carpenter, and later wanted to become a painter with a pen, copying "Mustard Seed Garden Painting Book" every night, in order to be able to inscribe poems on the painting, he began to learn "Hundred Schools of Poems".
In this way, this peasant boy who refused to admit defeat, relied on his dream to break the barriers of reality, and realized the counterattack time and time again. He is the famous Chinese painting master Qi Baishi .
From the little carpenter to the master of Chinese painting , this is an unimaginable legend, but Qi Baishi did it. Never underestimate the power of a teenager who is desperate for his dream.
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Adolescence is beautiful, but it is also full of troubles. In puberty, the body begins to develop. There are various changes in human appearance, appearance and body shape, and various troubles such as acne come one after another.
Many girls will not be satisfied with their appearance, always feel that they are not beautiful enough, not beautiful enough, they regard their appearance as the most important thing in the world, and even do plastic surgery for their own beauty. .
But many years ago, there was an Italian girl who gave a positive and perfect answer to the problem that her appearance was not beautiful enough. I believe it will definitely give the teenagers who worry about their appearance a revelation.
The girl's family is not rich. At the age of 14, she participated in the beauty pageant, but did not win. Later, she started to participate in actor training classes.
During an audition, the photographer felt that her appearance and posture were flawed. She said that her lips were too thick, her nose was too protruding, and her buttocks were a little weird. She suggested she go for nose and buttocks plastic surgery.
But this girl has a different view of beauty: Although I am not beautiful, I am very distinctive. So she resolutely refused plastic surgery. Later, it happened to be her unique natural beauty that showed her style in the movie.
This Italian girl is the internationally renowned movie star Sophia Loren . She was also rated as one of the most beautiful women of this century. So beauty is not a standard. A bigger nose and longer buttocks can also exude unique beauty.
Beauty is not a concrete thing, but an inner feeling, reflected in your eyes.
Written at the end
Adolescence is a time to look forward to the future and weave dreams and set out to find it, but it is also a period of extreme chaos that makes people feel confused and frustrated, even without a sense of direction.
"The Second Lesson of Youth" is just like a beacon on the road to youth, a book that can give young friends a correct guide.
From these 108 representative characters, we can see their story experiences and thoughts in their youth. Everyone is unique, and their growth trajectory is also different. We don't need to copy it all, or follow it completely.
We need to see that these celebrities also have various distresses during their youth, and their growth paths are not similar. We can find suitable or easy-to-operate methods from the stories of these celebrities, and use their stories to enlighten our lives and illuminate our youth.
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