"This is another Faye Wong."
The famous musician Xu Changde and Xu Meijing blurted out this high evaluation after the first collaboration. He created countless classic songs for many queens such as Jacky Cheung , Zhou Huajian , Lin Yilian , etc. He has seen the talented people in the entire Chinese music scene and is still amazed by Xu Meijing's talent and voice.
Maybe you have never heard of her "Repentance" and "All Returning to the Night", but you must have heard of her "Monthly Light in the City " and "Hidden Sunshine in the Storm ", representing Xu Meijing, a memory of a music era, uses her singing to make everyone remember it in their hearts.
was born in an ordinary family in Singapore. At the age of 18, she entered the entertainment industry through beauty pageants, and by chance she turned into a singer, like a dark horse, and at the age of 22, she was promoted to the "Queen Killer" with her phenomenal songs.
However, when her music career reached its peak, she suddenly chose to retire, disappeared from the public's eyes, and turned her attention to public welfare, leaving only a "sad" voice.
Because of her voice "sad but not hurt", Xu Meijing has always been known as "the queen of healing songs", but her life is full of scars added after her confused behavior. Not only did she fail to heal herself, the truth of her retirement is also related to this. The lover behind
Almost every successful singer has a noble person who has done his best to help, just like Lee Jong-shen to Lin Yilian, Xu Meijing is no exception. The noble person behind her is the musical talent genius Chen Jiaming , who is known as "Singapore Lee Jong-shen".
The encounter between them is full of dramatic sense of destiny.
At that time, Xu Meijing was about to go on stage to participate in a talent show. Chen Jiaming, who was invited, accidentally walked into the wrong dressing room in the background. He was moved by Xu Meijing's humming and pushed open the door of the dressing room. He was immediately embarrassed by the girl changing clothes.
Xu Meijing was both shocked and afraid. When asked about the identity of this strange man, Chen Jiaming calmly handed over his business card, then left a compliment, turned around and left, "Your voice is beautiful, we will see you again. Singapore can never find a voice as beautiful as you."
became a masterpiece. After the competition, Xu Meijing was successfully signed by the record company and immediately started a long-term cooperation with Chen Jiaming.
Chen Jiaming personally created her first album "Ming Knows", in which the word "Ming" is taken from his name. He also left a comment on the title page, "Innate neuroticism, which teaches people to love and pity. Her voice is like a pair of hands, gently grabs your heart, making people want to cry."
such a talented and understands herself by her side, which makes it difficult for Xu Meijing, who is not well-informed in the world, to escape from the love network, but Chen Jiaming is 10 years older than her and has a family. His wife is the editor-in-chief of a well-known magazine, and the couple is very famous.
Xu Meijing sang this unspeakable love into the song. If she had never received a response, she would probably have left her heart in vain.
However, Chen Jiaming was not a good man who was dedicated and responsible. He quickly realized Xu Meijing's affection. In order to make Xu Meijing put down her psychological burdens, she did not hesitate to make a divorce promise. The two naturally got together.
Xu Meijing is working hard to sing while working hard in her career, while looking forward to Chen Jiaming fulfilling her promise. After waiting for six or seven years, she still has not waited for her open identity as a lover.
Whenever she tried to force Chen Jiaming to ask about marriage, Chen Jiaming avoided talking. Gradually, news of the relationship between the two was not simple spread, and Chen Jiaming's wife did not pay attention to it, which made Chen Jiaming feel that his wife was more wise and generous. The red flags at home did not fall, and the colorful flags were flying outside. He insisted on not divorce.
Faced with the criticism of the "miss three", Xu Meijing couldn't defend herself. She felt very painful and had to confide in her assistant Huang Fengyi. Unexpectedly, her assistant was also involved in this emotional vortex.
The country is easy to change, but the nature is difficult to change. This sentence is fully revealed in Chen Jiaming. It may be because he is tired of the entangled Xu Meijing, and he actually falls in love with Huang Fengyi. After the incident was revealed, Xu Meijing fell into the blow of being betrayed by both the people around her. Unexpectedly, Huang Fengyi could not bear the moral and psychological torture and directly bid farewell to the world by committing suicide.
Xu Meijing completely collapsed. Chen Jiaming's other escape made her feel discouraged by this relationship. She had no intention of singing and decided to retire from the music scene and began to wander around the world, focusing her main energy on public welfare, and using this to talk to comfort her.
The second boyfriend
In 2002, Xu Meijing, who no longer sings, occasionally films some films and TV series. When filming the TV series "Goodbye Fireflies" in Taiwan, she met Yuan Yaofa, who was 8 years younger than her.
This man, known by the media as "Jay Chou's successor" has always been by her side. He will find Xu Meijing's sadness from time to time, so she tells jokes and deliberately makes her happy, and will take her out for fun and relax.
Xu Meijing gained unprecedented relaxation and pleasure from the considerate Yuan Yaofa. This sense of security cannot be given by Chen Jiaming, who is secretly in love. She devoted herself to this new relationship without hesitation.
They spent a happy love period, stopped working together to share the world of the two, and went abroad to relax. Xu Meijing completely let go of her mind and was about to stabilize with Yuan Yaofa, but the incident happened again.
In 2005, Yuan Yaofa, who had just released his first album, was tragically hiding because of offending the senior executives of the company. His career fell into a stagnation. He became irritable and irritable, and often got angry at Xu Meijing because of trivial matters.
Xu Meijing understands the difficulty of her boyfriend and whispers to comfort her from time to time. However, as the conflicts over time accumulate, her already suppressed and sensitive personality has become more anxious and depressed.
The two people failed to save each other, but fell towards the abyss together. Yuan Yaofa gradually felt tired of this state and took the initiative to break up, trying to change his mood. However, Xu Meijing firmly disagreed.
has lost a lover. She is persistent and doesn't want to experience failure anymore. She thought of a bad idea - to use pregnancy to retain feelings.
As a result, Yuan Yaofa was furious at her self-righteous acts and coldly asked her to abort the child. Xu Meijing was puzzled and collapsed. She felt helpless and wanted to escape, and the two began to have a cold war.
Just at this moment, Chen Jiaming, who is far away in Singapore, called and said he wanted to divorce and asked her to live in Singapore, so that they could get back together. Xu Meijing seemed to have grabbed the life-saving straw and rushed there immediately with her big belly.
When she returned to Singapore, she was in a futile situation. She was arranged by Chen Jiaming to stay in a hotel. When she met, she told her that she was not divorced. "Sorry, I can't find any reason to divorce my wife."
Xu Meijing, who was in despair, turned to contact Yuan Yaofa. Yuan Yaofa regarded her meeting with her old lover as a breakup, and immediately announced that she would cut off relations with her, saying that she would never want to see her again. The two turned against each other and he entered the mainland alone to develop. Now he has changed his name to Yuan Zihao .
Now there is no trace of the whereabouts of the child. I guess he had been knocked out at that time and was abandoned by his boyfriend one after another. Xu Meijing, who was greatly hit, began to have problems in her spirit.
transformed into "Crazy"
In 2006, Xu Meijing, who had disappeared from the public for a long time, appeared again, but her way was extremely embarrassing.
She followed a strange guest into the hotel at the door of a hotel. When the guest entered the room, she suddenly knocked on the door, asked the guest to come out, pointed at the other party and shouted, "Call me god". After that, she ordered the other party to kneel down and kowtow.
This guest and the hotel immediately called the police. She was arrested for "mental disorder". After the hospital check, she did suffer from schizophrenia and depression.
As soon as the news came out, another saying spread: Xu Meijing, who was waiting for her friend in a hotel, was mistaken for a "maid", so she had a fierce conflict with the tenant, but Xu Meijing herself admitted to mental disorders and said she was actively receiving treatment.
Since then, she has been trying to make a comeback, but apart from participating in some evening performances and singing old songs, she has not had much splash. In 2014, she was invited by Stefanie Sun and You Hongming and after attending two concerts, she disappeared from the public eye again.
In August 2019, Xu Meijing made a rare appearance and appeared on the streets of Singapore to "sing" and a generation of queens fell to this point, and the scene was miserable.
Soon after, netizens discovered that she was not singing, but "seeking help". She carried a big-character poster with her, which read: "Xu Meijing's family dragged Meijing to Banqiao Hospital (mental hospital) to seize the property. Meijing cut off all relationships with the corrupt Xu family and agent Chen Jiaming!"
Xu Meijing was sobbing in a panic, "Because I don't know how to use social media, I can only email it simply, but my family is aggressive, so I have to go to the street to rescue me!"
After the reporter intervened in the mediation, she inexplicably reconciled with her family and told everyone happily for their concern.
I don’t know whether the birth is taken away, but Xu Meijing’s mental state is indeed worth worrying. She is only 46 years old and still has a long life. I just hope that she can sing like her song in the next song: "The sun always comes after the wind and rain, please believe there is a rainbow."
#Xu Meijing#, #Chen Jiaming#
Author: Seven Dreams
Editor: zeriah
