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I am a divorced girl. The boy I dated after the divorce is a child who listens to my mother. Although I want to try to keep going in the way of hiding my family, the boy was afraid that the truth was discovered and his family could not accept my past, so he broke up.
We have been together for two years as good friends, and because neither of them has dated a partner yet, the relationship has been ambiguous and alienated. He dominated this relationship because he was also anxious to get married, so there were girls who wanted to pursue them.
I don’t know what’s wrong with me, I have been following his Facebook . As long as his conversation with other girls is something I don’t understand, I will be angry, lost, and painful, so a few months ago, I was so sad that I deleted him on Facebook. He didn't dare to ask me directly why, but he continued to care about me with his cell phone and LINE.
A few weeks ago, we missed each other and met again. I couldn't help but add back to Facebook and continued to play jealous scenes. I was wondering if I should cut off the relationship at once?
In addition, before he fell in love with him, he told me that I had a girlfriend who had been in love for a long time and went abroad to recuperate, and the two of them had never met again. Later, she passed away and he revealed his reluctance and love on Facebook. I realized that he had let go of so many feelings. I really don’t know how to adjust my mood…
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“Reluctance to give up” is a packaging word for “unwilling”, and “eating taste” is a symptom of “short mind”. The contradictions and pains that you love him are all caused by random thoughts.
If you learn that your ex-boyfriend has passed away, even if the breakup was painful, I believe it would be a little sad. If your current boyfriend is jealous of this, do you think this boyfriend does not understand human nature or does not respect human nature?
Don’t understand the mood of the person you love, and just worry about whether your lover will be shared. At this time, your performance happened to be zero, making your love very domineering.
When his family opposes your relationship, when he is forced to go on a date by a marriageable age, you are just angry and jealous. Doesn’t this make him want to leave you more? Because he told you that he was powerless to put pressure on his family.
To forget someone, it is better to learn to treat someone. If you forget hard, you will only remember more. It is better to focus on loving the part that you can love him. Since reality has a lot of power of exclusion, as long as you concentrate on enjoying the time you have been together, the rest of him is not yours, so let him go back to his forest.
You have been married, you should know that "exclusive possession" is a trap, and that is the hallucination paradise given to you by the addiction of love. Only if you are not greedy can you have the ability to taste happiness in many small days. If you still can't let go, please pack up the detector and tell him that you just love him who still loves you, don't need everything, just love him well when you love him. If
doesn't work, leave him quickly because you are not suitable for falling in love at this time.
[Book title: Book of Thanks]
[Author Profile: Xu Changde]
If there is no introduction, maybe there are many possibilities for your and my encounter. The more you know, the more you know, especially those who are together because of love. Unlimited understanding is not necessary. Only by occasionally empathy can you go deep into the heart.
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