There is such a word among the people - Wolf in sheep's clothing.
A wolf, if you want to eat a sheep, what should it do? There are only two options. either run over and fight the sheep and eat it smoothly, or dress up as a sheep and look for more sheep.
A smart wolf generally does not act rashly or expose its identity for a sheep in order to maximize its own interests. On the contrary, they will put on sheepskins and plan and then move.
You should know that it is not worth giving up a forest for a tree. And for the sake of a forest, it is the wisest way to give up a tree first.
In the matter of "wearing in sheepskin", people are actually more "smart" than wolves. Everyone thinks the wolf pack is powerful, but they don’t know that the “people” around us are ultimately more terrifying than jackals.
Especially in the workplace, we will find that there are more villains who are extremely hypocritical, and fewer gentlemen who treat each other sincerely. There are more people who are good at calculating, and fewer people who are honest and sincere. Slowly, the world becomes complicated.
people are in the world. No matter when, they need to do the "prevention" matter.
You should know that human face and wolf heart are outstanding. If he takes up these three points, he is a very cunning hypocrite.
1. Stay calm and do things viciously.
An old man once said that has an open villain, there is no need to be too concerned about them, basically you can defeat the enemy with one move. Only those who are quiet and quiet, you need to pay attention to it. You can basically not play with them.
The "still-moving" wolf is actually more terrifying than the bright lion. Physical fighting is ultimately not as good as the "psychological" game suppression.
During the Three Kingdoms period, the Cao clan relative of Wei State , Cao Shuang , had the power of the whole country's military power and could basically walk sideways in the court. When he looked at the elderly Sima Yi , he looked down on him and thought Sima Yi could not beat him.
At that time, the strategist told Cao Shuang, General, you have to be careful, Sima Yi is not so easy to deal with.
Who knows Cao Shuang responded, just a dying person, what can I be afraid of?
The result is that Sima Yi took advantage of Cao Shuang's outing to launch the Gaopingling Incident, directly seizing the power of Wei State. Cao Shuang's family was beheaded by Sima Yi, leaving no room for anything.
A truly vicious villain will not talk too much to you. He will only cut his throat with one sword when you are not paying attention and truly achieve "Wait for your illness and kill you" .
2. Emotions are free to be retracted and eyes are as quiet as stagnant water.
In " Romance of the Three Kingdoms ", Chen Shou commented on Liu Bei : "Happiness and anger are not reflected in colors, they are good at making friends with heroes, and they are young and compete to follow them."
A person who is as cunning as an abyss can achieve "Happiness and anger are not reflected in colors, and they are not expressed in words." His words, deeds, emotions, and thoughts can be hidden and not allowed to others to know.
Some people will say that by looking directly at this person’s “eyes”, can’t you tell whether he is hypocritical?
The method of looking at "eyes" is indeed effective. However, this method is only effective for people who are cunning, but has no effect on people who are extremely cunning.
Cao Cao and Liu Bei "Cooking Green Plums to Discuss Heroes", who knew that Liu Bei's eyes were as calm as stagnant , When thundering, he immediately pretended to be frightened and deceived Cao Cao.
Just imagine, Cao Cao knew countless people but could not even understand Liu Bei's heart. How deep should Liu Bei's cunning be?
Working hard in the world, we must be wary of those who are free to keep their emotions free. A person can even control his emotions, so he basically understands "human nature". Ordinary people are really no match.
3. Check and balance each other and sit firmly on the Diaoyutai.
Anyone who has been a boss understands that if you want to be invincible, you have to let employees check and balance each other. The more vigorous the employees fight, the happier the boss will be. Why ? Because the boss is safe.
Office battles usually occur in these three situations. First, the boss manipulates behind the scenes; second, employees make plans for a little benefit; third, each circle checks and balances each other.
Speaking of this, we have to talk about a question: Why are many people unable to get promoted and raise their salary, and have worked in private enterprises for many years, but still the same? The main reason is that the boss has no intention of promoting employees and paying a salary increase.
Since he does not want to be promoted and raise, then he only needs to draw a few big pie and give some small benefits to prevent employees from uniting, so that his goals can be achieved.
Just imagine, if a group of people are fighting to the death for hundreds of dollars, then who will target the boss?
A truly powerful person will never end up in person, but will only sit firmly on the Diaoyutai and watch others compete, just like the audience, and they are so happy.
Write to the end
Why do ordinary people not understand what people who are "very cunning" are thinking? Because they do not see through human nature.
The essence of human nature is from truth to hypocrisy, from affection to affection, from valuing others to valuing interests. In the end, hypocrisy became the norm, and honest people were gradually eliminated.
Whether we accept this reality or not, we need to recognize who is a true gentleman and who is a true villain. Only in this way can we protect ourselves and not become someone else's meal.
text/Shushan Youlu
