I believe everyone knows a popular saying, "Your mother and I fell into the water at the same time, who will you save first?" Such a proposition made it difficult for many men to answer. In the end, they had to be silent. But in fact, such a proposition of sending is not only in today's society, in fact, such a “proposition of sending” has appeared in ancient times. The story we are going to tell today is about husband and father. Let’s take a look.
Historically in during the Spring and Autumn Period and Warring States Period, the thoughts of various countries came and went one after another. During this period, there appeared a famous politician to sacrifice the foot , whose surname was Ji. At that time, the minister of the government of Zheng State had great powers. After the death of the Lord of Zheng State, Zheng Zhuanggong, he was ordered to assist several heirs and worked hard to assist dozens of Zheng State regimes. In 2015, it also established a deep prestige in the country.
Many people have commented that Jizu has foresight, and at the same time the intelligence of his children is also recognized, and this is mainly reflected in his daughter Yong Ji. Yong Ji was very beautiful, but when he grew up, he married a man named Yong Jiu. This Yong Jiu was not very human. He had something to do with Zheng Ligong 's mother, and could be regarded as a relative of the emperor. Zheng Ligong's superiority actually had a lot to do with Jizu, but when he was in the position, Jizu began to fear him, so he ordered his son-in-law, Yongjiao, to kill him.
Yong Jiu didn't dare not listen to what the old man said, but he was indecisive by nature. After returning home, he told his wife Yong Ji about the incident. He didn't expect that Yong Ji would not be able to give a good solution. So she went back to her natal home and asked her mother what to do. How could she expect her mother to solve it in one sentence, and she asked, "There is only one father, so how can it be compared?"Later, when Yong Ji was full of sadness, she told her father Jizu about the incident, but Jizu cruelly killed Yongjiu.
Later, as the power of sacrificing the feet became more and more powerful, to the point of controlling the government, Zheng Li also consciously left, and then the idiom "everyone can do everything" appeared. In fact, this idiom in ancient times The original meaning mainly refers to the fact that there is only one father, and that all women can become their husbands. The two are incomparable. However, at this stage, the meaning of such idioms has been misunderstood, and it mostly refers to women with bad life styles.
In fact, many people should not understand Yong Ji’s approach, but in feudal society, everyone still values filial piety very much. That’s why Yong Ji had such a choice, but in fact, let’s look at it now. This question and "Your mother and I fell into the water at the same time, who will you save first?" are both fallacies. Our parents gave birth to us and raised us and gave us life. We should honor them as we should, and the husband is us. People who may walk the rest of their lives hand in hand also need to be cared for, so these two types of people are very important. What do you think?
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