Preface:
49-year-old sister said that the pain of an old couple and a young wife was a pain, and she also had a lot of endless regrets. What happened? Let’s take a look together!
49-year-old sister Huang said:
I am really a very miserable woman. When I was young, I married a man I didn’t love. The reason why I married him was because I was forced by my parents. My parents thought that his family was rich and could give a lot of brides. At that time, my brother happened to get married. My parents wanted to get the brides for my brother to get married, so they forced me to marry my husband.
My husband is very weak and has no opinion. His parents are very strong. His parents like to interfere in our lives very much. They have to care about almost everything. She even cares about any quilt. Moreover, my mother-in-law is very jealous. If my husband is kind to me, she will not be able to bear it. Then she keeps calling me scheming and saying that I am a bad woman. I really feel speechless. He is my husband. Isn’t it okay for my husband to be good to his wife? Why can't she accept it?
After I married my husband, I did all the housework, because in the eyes of my parents-in-law, the daughter-in-law should do housework, and I had no objection to doing housework, but my parents-in-law always felt that I was not doing it well. Once when I was washing dishes, my hands slipped and broke a bowl. My mother-in-law was very angry. She took a stick to hit me. I was beaten several times by her. My husband was right next to me. He watched me be beaten silently, indifferently. I really felt desperate. I didn't expect my marriage to be like this.
At the beginning, I also thought about divorce, but in that era, divorce would be laughed at by others, and I didn’t know what I could do after the divorce. My parents couldn’t go back to my parents. My parents were so arrogant that my brother got married again. If I went back, they would definitely kick me out. In the eyes of my parents, divorced women are inauspicious.
My marriage with my husband lasted for 18 years, and I finally couldn't bear it anymore. At that time, people's ideas and concepts changed, and divorce became a very common thing. Several women around me divorced, so I divorced my husband later. I don't care so much, just be happy.
After divorce, I went to work in the factory. The treatment in the factory was pretty good. Later, I had a boyfriend. We had been together for several years. He was a man with a family, but he was really nice to me. We were very happy together. Later, his wife knew about our affairs, and then his wife came to me. His wife wanted me to leave him, but I didn't want to. I even asked his wife to divorce him. He told his wife that he no longer loved you, why do you still have to be with him? Our marriage is meaningless.
At that time, many people scolded me, saying that I was a bad woman, but I really didn't care so much. I finally met a man I loved, and he was so kind to me, why should I leave him?
A few years later, he took the initiative to break up with me because he fell in love with other women. He told me that relationships would change. He also loved his wife at the beginning, but after getting married, he fell in love with me later. After being with me for a few years, his relationships for me also changed, so he fell in love with other women. He is really a scumbag. Even if he cheated, he still said so righteously.
I was hurt by my feelings and felt discouraged. Later I met a man who was 26 years older than me. He was very rich and willing to spend money for me. Later I married him. I think I have experienced a lot. I no longer longed for love or something. As long as there is a man who is willing to spend money for me, I want to live the life of a rich woman.
When I first got married, my life was indeed very free and easy. He gave me 20,000 or 30,000 pocket money every month. I can often do beauty treatments, and I can often buy clothes and cosmetics, so that I can live the life I want.There was a problem with his company behind
, and then he owed a lot of money. He couldn't stand the blow and fell ill. At that time, I wanted to divorce him, but the money was owed during the period of our relationship. If we divorced, I would also have to bear a certain amount of debt, so I dare not divorce.
He is also older and basically no chance of making a comeback. I am really desperate. I have tasted the pain of an old husband and young wife. Now I can only express endless regrets. I really regret marrying him. I am only 49 years old now. I don’t know what to do. There are still so many years to come, and I don’t know how to face the future life.
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