text丨Tao Xiaojing
The spring breeze is not as good as you, Xiaojing is here, waiting for you!
No.1
Many people are looking forward to being able to love each other vigorously. Even if they cannot stay together in the end, they want to use exaggerated plots to prove how deep their love is.
The vigorous love can indeed reflect the degree of love, but this is just the initial level of love. It seems passionate, but in fact it is vulnerable.
The years are like water, too hurrying, no matter how passionate love is, it cannot withstand the wasted time.
How can such passionate but fleeting love reach the highest level of love?
The highest realm of love is not how passionate love is, nor how sticky the two people are, but is reflected in the two words.
Many people may be curious about what two words can actually carry all the affection?
Research has found that the highest level of love is actually just two words: selflessness.
No.2
literally understands, self-forgetful means forgetting yourself. In love, it represents a person's commitment to feelings.
When a person's love has reached the level of selflessness, it means that this feeling has become a part of his life, even more important than his own life.
Such love may not be so vigorous, but it is the highest level of love.
After hearing this explanation, I believe many people hope that they can get such love. But on the surface, how should you determine whether a person has reached this level of love?
In fact, when a person's love reaches the highest level, even if he doesn't say it, it can be seen from his performance.
When a person loves to the highest level, his heart can no longer tolerate others
The deepest love will make a person completely forget himself. The only thing he can remember is his lover and his mission.
From the moment his love reaches the highest level, his heart is already filled with the people he loves. Even if someone squeezes his head and wants to enter his heart, he will have no place to stand.
There was nothing unnecessary in his heart, and he couldn't even let it go. There is only one person he cares about, and everything he does is for this person.
In front of the beloved, he is selfless and can give up everything for this person, even himself.
Such a state of love is not something that ordinary people can achieve. The person who can get it must be the happiest person in the world.
When a person loves to the highest level, he only has the person he loves
Love will not only make a person forget himself, but also make him forget the surrounding environment. There is only one person left in his world, and there is only one person in his eyes.
For him, his lover is his whole world. Even if the outside world is deserted, as long as there is a lover, what he sees is the singing of birds and the fragrance of flowers.
The outside world has become like this and has nothing to do with him. He only cares about the person he loves. No matter where his lover is, he can find him in the shortest time.
His eyes seemed to be stuck to his lover, following him all the time, unwilling to move away for a second.
When he reaches this state, he only has the person he loves. No matter whenever he sees his lover, he can feel the warmth and beauty as if he is bathed in the spring breeze.
A person can love this state, which means that he really regards love as his whole. How can such deep affection be let down?
When a person reaches the highest level of love, he is willing to give up everything for love
For those who have desires, giving up is a very difficult thing. Everyone in this world has desires, so few people can give up.
But people who love to the highest level are different because they are selfless, so they are willing to give up everything for love, including himself.
In order to bring the best life to his lover, he can give up his dream. In order to be with his lover at all times, he can give up his career. In order to make his lover truly happy, he can even give up this love.
He will not let his love become a bondage. As long as it is his lover's expectations, he will do everything possible to satisfy it.
He doesn't care whether he will be wronged or whether he will be successful in the end. He just hopes that the person he loves will be happy.
Although he did not emphasize his love all the time, it can be seen from his willingness to give up everything that his love has long reached the highest level.
No.3
After many people fall in love, they either possess or pay regardless of their efforts.
Although these manifestations represent love, their realm is really too low. The highest level of love is actually just two words: selflessness.
Looking at the whole world, how many people can love me so much that they forget themselves?
People are selfish, and the purpose of doing anything is to satisfy themselves. Based on this premise, there are too few people who can love themselves to the point of losing themselves.
But it is precisely because there are too few that really highlight the value of selflessness. The deepest love in this world is the realm of being selfless.
No matter who you are, as long as you receive such love, you should try your best to protect it. Because only by striving to protect can we not let it go.
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