[Submission from netizens] I am forty years old this year and I am the company's finance department. I ended my first marriage last spring. In the past decade, I have had a peaceful life. Although it may be a life without any highlights, you can also find a lot of happiness in yo

[Netizen’s Submission]

I am forty years old this year and am the company’s finance department.

ended his first marriage last spring.

In the past ten years, I have had a peaceful life.

Although it may be a life without highlights, it can also help you find a lot of happiness in your ordinary life.

My ex-husband runs a company.

Although it is the boss, I know it is just a small business.

I don't know anything except this because he never lets me ask.

"Just take good care of your family, don't worry about business."

sometimes even tell me like this, making me look like a godfather.

Actually, I don’t care. He said don’t ask, then forget it.

Although I am also worried that he will be unpretentious outside and look for other women, after thinking about it, I think it is better to live an open-minded life.

After all, random thoughts are useless, and I have no evidence.

As long as you can make money... I comfort myself so much.

Although I say that, I don’t know how much money he makes, but I just give me living expenses every month.

The ex-husband has not given me less money in the past few years, so I also assumed that he is doing a good business.

However, before the Chinese New Year last year, he went home and said he wanted to go on a business trip abroad.

left without saying a few more words.

Later, some calls came to me, saying that I couldn’t find my husband and asked me for money.

There are more and more calls like this, and there are people who come to me to block my children to school. I can only be glad that they at least did not act too aggressively.

I only realized that he lacked at least the total number of village leaders was about 20 million.

I couldn’t contact him at all in half a year, and I didn’t even know which country he went to and whether he had come back.

Those people didn't believe me and said they must have discussed it with me and went out to hide... Oh, this is not a fact at all.

They tangled me many times, and then gradually gave up.

It took another half a year before I received a text message from my ex-husband.

It turned out that he had not gone abroad, but had just hid in a small town where no one could find him.

After he contacted me, he first asked the child how he was, and then he got to the point: selling shops.

is not to pay back the 20 million, because the amount is not enough.

He wants to "make a comeback" and start a business!

I asked "What exactly should I do?" He glared at me, "Women, don't ask so much!"

OK, I won't ask anymore.

Because my heart has long been cold.

He came back this time without apologizing, no compensation, and no questions asked me what treatment I received during these times.

just wants to sell our only home, so I don’t allow me to ask about it.

I immediately asked my ex-husband to leave the girl and fainted.

He was suddenly angry and said he absolutely did not agree.

also called me a snobbish woman, fell into the eyes of money, and wanted to run away when I had no money.

That's it, he talks to himself from beginning to end.

The one who is wrong is always someone else, and the one who is right is always him.

But I have made up my mind and insisted on leaving.

Later, in order to maintain custody, he also sued his ex-husband.

Finally, two years after breaking up, I finally regained my freedom.

About the future, I am very confused.

For life and children, first of all, I have to solve the problem of making money;

Then I also have to think carefully about whether to re-establish a new family.

But no matter what, the old ones don't go to the new ones don't come.

My second life has begun.

(the above content is edited and compiled by netizens)

discussion

The second-married couple, the man uses his career outside to do his job as a cover, and always breaks off contact with his wife for no reason.

In this case, should the wife file for divorce or continue to trust?

If it is you, what do you do?

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