Introduction:
The arrival of an aging society has put huge pressure on society and also put a lot of pressure on children. The times are progressing, the medical level is constantly improving, and people's life expectancy is also extending. Many people have entered the old age stage without white hair. The elderly are very lonely inside. Whether they are widowed or divorced, they are lonely and empty inside and are usually bored.
Most elderly people still hope to have a love affair at dusk. If there is one, it is best. If there is one, it is second best. Then many elderly people will find nannies to support their elderly care when they are in the elderly. 53-year-old Aunt Feng said that most single elderly people do not hire nannies to find someone to serve them. What's going on? Let’s take a look together!
53-year-old Aunt Feng said:
In a blink of an eye, I also worked as a nanny for eight years. I came out to be a nanny when I was 45 years old. I remember when I first came out to be a nanny, I didn’t know how to communicate with my employer. At that time, I was a nanny in the house and lived under the same roof as my employer. The atmosphere was really awkward. After
, I have been working as a nanny for a long time, and I know how to communicate with my employer and how to make my employer happy. So I gradually like the job of a nanny. I think it’s good to be a nanny. The job is not very tiring, and the income is very high. It is very suitable for older women like us.
In recent years, I have served two single elderly people. The first employer was a university professor before. Later, he divorced his wife. After the divorce, he invited me to be his nanny. At the beginning, I thought it was quite strange because he was only in his 60s and was not old, and could take care of himself. Why did he ask me to be his nanny? After serving him for a while, I realized that he was asking me for the purpose of his invitation. He was not to get my care. He just wanted someone to accompany him because he was too lonely. At that time, he often went to the park to practice , Tai Chi . Every time he went to practice Tai Chi, he would bring me with him. I took a water cup next to him. If he was thirsty, I would hand him the water cup. He said that he felt very safe when he saw me next to him.
At night, he would ask me to chat with him when he had insomnia. The employer told me that he was very lonely before he hired a nanny. After I became his nanny, he didn't feel lonely because he had me around him.
I worked at that employer's house for three years. The employer fell ill. After he fell ill, his children came back to take care of him. He didn't need a nanny anymore, so I left his house. After leaving the employer's house, I found a new employer. The new employer was also a single old man. The new employer said that the reason he asked me to be his nanny was because he thought I was very suitable for square dance. He liked square dance very much, but he didn't have a good dance partner, so he wanted to find a nanny who could dance square dance. I happened to be able to dance square dance again, so he offered me a salary of 6,000. The salary was really high, and the old man only asked me to do some regular housework, and I didn't need to do anything else, and the workload was really small.
After I became the nanny of that old man, I often accompanied him to dance square dance. Sometimes we would also dance ballroom dance . He is my employer and my dance partner. We got along very well.
After serving two employers, I found that many single elderly people hired nannies not to find someone to serve them. Most of them wanted to invite someone to accompany them, because many of them were very lonely. They lived alone and didn’t even want to find someone to talk to them. After having a nanny, someone would talk to them, and then they would not be lonely.
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