1. The reason why
writes this topic, I feel a little heavy.
originally thought of class as a typical case to tell the children and establish the correct employment concept, but considering personal privacy, I would just forget it.
The origin of the matter is the professional experience of two students.
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After graduation, a student enrolled in a state grid city branch. He was in a provincial capital and was employed in another place, but his income was relatively high. The prefecture-level cities in central provinces earned 10,000 yuan per month and belonged to the high-income group in the local area. The student has a stable job and high income, and he is still the envy of his classmates when he graduates.
suddenly called me a few days ago, preparing to resign and interview for the professional staff of colleges and universities. When asked why, he said he wanted to return to the provincial capital. I patiently persuaded me, and I failed to succeed in the exam for the public sector, so I finally chose to stay in this central enterprise, but I was not in a high mood and I was worried that I would affect the future development of the student.
Another student recruited a well-known bus listed company after graduation. He was employed in the provincial capital city, with generous salary and benefits, a monthly income of about 10,000 yuan, and there is a lot of room for growth in the future, but his work intensity is high. The bus company is a leader in the industry and is more familiar with and understandable to students due to internships and employment reasons. Half a month after the report of
, the company will sign an labor contract, , give up, and go home to prepare for the civil service exam. According to students, the company recruits 800 people in the school and has left more than 100 people. Most of them want to change to a more relaxed and stable job because they dare not challenge the company's work intensity. Both students of
are excellent, and both are first-class universities, with outstanding academic performance and good scientific research results. I went to a university that most children envied, studied majors that most children envied, and entered a unit that most children envied! Both children are not very satisfied with such a good job opportunity in
. I really don’t know what unit can meet the requirements of these children! As a teacher, I really don’t understand the children’s choices. The opportunity is right in front of me, but I don’t know how to cherish it!
has been affected by the epidemic and the employment situation has been severe in the past two years. Those who can enter these large units are the best and lucky ones! How many children are eager to enter! Typical cases of
do not represent all college students, but also expose some problems in employment of modern college students.
2. The university
, which was placed in the ivory tower, is called the ivory tower by some people.
What does it mean to live in an ivory tower? It means that children live under the protection of people around them, such as the protection of parents and teachers, carefree, live in beautiful dreams, and stay away from social reality!
Starting from kindergarten, in elementary and middle schools, children are protected by layers of parents and teachers. As a minor, this protection is necessary. But after entering university, the child is usually eighteen years old and is already an adult. When you graduate from undergraduate degree, the average age is 22 years old and the master's degree is 24-25 years old.
According to this age, parents should be relaxed when children grow up and don’t have to worry about labor! Is this really the case? I'm afraid everyone knows the answer, and a considerable proportion of adult college students are still protected by their parents!
There is nothing wrong with protecting children's healthy growth. In modern society, there is a clear trend of family birth reduction, and parents can invest more energy and material things in their children. As the family income level gradually increases, it is necessary to provide better care for children, but this kind of care cannot be excessive, as excessive will turn into spoiling! What is wrong with
is not protection, but unprincipled consentment and excessive protection. People are lazy and have parents who work hard on their behalf. The children are willing to lie flat and are put into the ivory tower by their parents.
In school, students' thoughts, learning, safety and other issues are very important. The school and teachers invisibly provide college students with safety protection.
Nowadays college students cannot say or scold, and even more so, they cannot beat them. Some college students have a flamboyant personality, do not obey school management, have a strong sense of self-rights, and overreact if they suffer a little "wronged", even if this grievance is just a teacher's discipline behavior.
Some college students make mistakes in school. For the purpose of protection, most schools will choose to give them the opportunity to correct their mistakes.As parents, most people understand this behavior. The most common saying is that the child is still young (already grown up), so give him a chance! Little do they know that this further encourages some students' bad behavior.
3. Only by walking out of the ivory tower can we truly enter society
Education is phased, and college students must eventually enter society and enter their jobs. However, are college students who are overprotected in the ivory tower really ready?
In the family, parents serve you, and some children become the center of the family. In school, teachers serve you and teach you the ability to settle down. After you arrive in society, you have to serve others. This transformation process requires hard work to adapt!
The employment unit is not satisfactory. Do you choose to create conditions and strive for better opportunities, or choose to give up and continue to rely on your parents?
income does not meet expectations. Do you choose to persist and continuously improve yourself and ultimately increase your income, or do you choose to blame others and not be enterprising?
has no hope of promotion. Do you choose to rationally analyze your own shortcomings and continue to fight for opportunities, or choose to give up and be discouraged in the middle, and the career advancement channel has come to an abrupt end?
The temptation of interests is ahead. Do you choose to do whatever you want, even if you pay the price for it, or choose to obtain rationally and only take what you deserve?
is responsible. Do you choose to be brave, work hard, and not be afraid of losing, or do you choose to avoid it as much as possible and not be willing to give?
and so on, there are many things.
Only by walking out of the ivory tower and making rational choices can we achieve a gorgeous turn and become a truly independent social person!
