Today I want to talk to you about the first grade and the more important things behind the first grade.
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My junior high school was in a very poor middle school. At that time, the classmates in the class basically did not study, but I just did the most basic and serious study, and I could maintain the first place in the grade for three years.
Speaking of what kind of experience was the first place in the grade, what impressed me the most was probably an award ceremony. The school leaders were the first place in each subject. When we were in our grade, I was the first place in seven or eight subjects in the nine courses. So at the end of the reading, when the leader finished saying " first place ", the students below had learned to answer the moment when they read out my name. The grand occasion of
is indeed very charming, but in addition to the scenery, there are also many worries. I remember the thing I was most worried about at the beginning was that I was afraid of getting second place in one exam.
At that time, my parents told me that I might as well take the second place as soon as I find that it is no big deal. I couldn't accept it at that time.
Now looking back, I realized that the usual exams are indeed not that important. Compared with the time of competing for the first place, if I occasionally fail to get the first place, it may give me a deeper understanding of life.
Have you passed the first grade exam?
#What kind of experience was the first in the grade? #
01
Classmate relationship: Become more popular
@Li Hong: I am no longer mocked
high school first and second grade, first in the college entrance examination, and top scorer in the city. For me, the first ranking is my protective umbrella, so that I will not be treated like any alternative due to my disability.
I was ridiculed when I started my high school life. I will start with seven days of military training when I enter the school, and the instructor ordered me to come out and take two steps. At that time, my legs were becoming more and more inconvenient, so I naturally felt twisted and twisted as soon as I walked away, and then the audience burst into laughter.
After military training, the school conducted a survey test for all freshmen. I won the first place in the class, and no one laughed at me anymore.
@Yunhai will meet: the roommate's eyes are different
When I go back to the dormitory when I eat, everyone's eyes look at you are different. Someone comes to ask you for advice on how to learn, hahaha, although I am "good teacher", I am still exploring myself. Roommates will treat you differently. Their eyes are complicated, some envious and some admire.
@Yihang: I have the right to speak in front of my classmates
I respect you very much, you will have the right to speak in the class, although sometimes the suggestions you put forward have nothing to do with learning.
@Li Huyan: Become a mascot
Every time I take the exam, no matter where I go, I will be "forced" by my classmates who know me. In their words, it is "spreading the fairy spirit" (Hey, aren't everyone firm materialist people?) even during the college entrance examination, some students from other classes came over to hold... It's okay, I'm just a quiet mascot.
@Li Huyan: The popularity of the whole grade is increased
My subject teacher likes to give me an example in other classes, so the popularity of the grade is quite high (shamed hahaha) .
For example, one day after evening self-study, two boys passed by, one of them asked his companion loudly: Is that so-and-so? (You are afraid I can’t hear it, hey!)
Another time, I was waiting for a traffic light near the school, and the boy next to me asked directly: You are so-and-so, our class teacher said that there is light in your eyes in class.
(Believe it or not to believe it or not for a performance to cut out the villa on the spot)
@Anonymous user: I even have fans
I even have my own fans...
Other students who are good at studying want to surpass me, they will say, others cannot, xxx (my name) is the first, and even if she makes a mistake, I like her the most.
Me:? ? ? ? ? ? ? ?
But I only knew this in my senior year of high school. I was so ashamed...
02
Teacher-student relationship: The teacher takes care of
@Yihang
Teacher is kind and patient, every teacher will be kind and patient with you, and will invite you to eat fruits or snacks when you ask questions in the office.
@Li Huyan:
The teacher is very gentle.
One morning in April, Chinese morning self-study includes two Chinese classes (arrange to write essays) . The Chinese teacher found that I was so sleepy that I was taking a nap, so he called me to the office very gently. After asking about the situation, he made a bed and let me sleep until the big break.
(Afterwards my mother said that she wouldn't be like this... calm down)
@Lihuyan
House 0House homework freely. After I and other students in the class who had good grades responded to (protest) , the teacher allowed us to decide which homework we can give up... The consequences are, although I have more time to overcome weak links, I was still panicked when I looked at my new math, geography, and history one and two rounds of exercise books before the college entrance examination...
@Lihuyan
open class is a unique experience of being watched as a monkey?
When I was shouted up repeatedly, it was really embarrassing. From another perspective, I took the initiative to act as Monkey Brother, and it was also really funny...
03
Family and relatives: Studying is a good shield
html l0@Xiao Liu Tongs' shoes
will have a good relationship with parents and relatives. Simply put, it is to use grades to block the public -
"Hey, is that child in Xiao Liu's family in love?" (Actually, I have really talked, and I have been talking for two years)
"Impossible , Other children are studying so well. "
"Why are you so lazy? You don't know how to clean up the house."
"Ah, I've been doing math for the whole afternoon, but I didn't pay attention. This question is so difficult. Mom, do you know how?" (Actually, this is the math homework last week, I haven't finished copying...)
"You kid is so tired, mom goes to cook for you, what do you want to eat?"
04
Money relationship: scholarship!
@anonymous user
every midterm and end of each period and some scholarship. There is also a health care product company that gives me several boxes of brain-enhancing products every semester, probably because I am a leader of the opinion? Student spokesperson? ? ?
05
Psychological status:
Beginning with glory, then the pressure was high
(The long-term first student god is not within the scope of consideration)
@Yihang
What's more sad is that others don't understand. When I was talking to the head teacher, I said that I was afraid that I would not be able to take the exam and that I could not finish it. He said jokingly, "Even you can't finish writing, what should others do?"
In short, I didn't feel my anxiety very seriously. Just because you are the first in the grade, sometimes you have to feel the pain yourself. Others can't understand it, and even if you say it, others will feel that you are in Versailles and pretending.
@官网娱文
You will be very happy at the beginning, the spring breeze blows on your face, and every second you stay in school is happy, and then everyone will start to praise you. is just that some are unintentional, while others are malicious.
In the financial market, this is called pulling up valuations. If the valuation is too high, a bubble will occur. At this time, you will find that your true value is much lower than the valuation.
To put it simply, you will find that it is becoming increasingly difficult for you to meet other people's expectations. You need to work very, very hard to not let others down. (I would like to ask back, why can’t you let others down?)
You live very, very tired every day, and the happiness and happiness at the beginning completely disappeared. When you think about falling down, what others will think of you, you will feel uncomfortable and frightened.
67 The purpose of organizing this article is not just to inspire everyone to study hard and strive for the first place. On the contrary, from the highly praised answers of Zhihu, it can be seen that the first grade in the school that , which is actually not always glorious, will also have various distress and confusion.
So, what should we pursue more? Or, what is more important than getting the first place in the grade? The answers of this classmate who has experienced the first place in the grade, has also experienced thirty or forty, and finally ranked among the top again may be more thought-provoking.
@anonymous user
I have been a top student and a poor student.
has been praised and scolded by the teacher.
has comforted and encouraged.
I have been depressed, worked hard, and made every bet.
But I like myself quite like this.
In fact, you will gradually discover that has so many people in this world who are better than themselves, and they all work very hard.
Finally, I want to tell my friends that was not as proud as I thought, and was not as good as I thought.
The older you grow, the more you realize that your mediocrity is normal.
If you study well, then you are great. If you study not that well, it doesn’t matter, it’s still great.
Don’t use the rules and regulations of grades and scores to define yourself too much.
In recent years, I think the best state of a person is probably: having love, dreams, knowing what you want, and working hard for it, and having a fulfilling life every day without regrets.
Maybe before high school, grade ranking is very important. But after college, these things are far from that important.
University, there is a lot of time, but many classes are also very good, so I think it’s better to have a choice to listen to it. It's great to spend more time reading books. It's also great to focus on what you love.
will think independently, don’t follow the crowd, try to do something meaningful, cherish what you have, and accompany your friends and family more. It is also very important.
A person with love, knows how to give, persist and self-discipline is really cool. Come on
Come on.
Have you ever had the first place in the exam?
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