Li Fangning is an excellent female salesperson and has been the company's sales champion for three consecutive years. Quan Zhipeng is Li Fangning's male colleague and a competitor for promotion. Just one week after Li Fangning was defeated and Quan Zhipeng was selected, Li Fangni

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Li Fangning is an excellent female salesperson, and has been the company's sales champion for three consecutive years.

Quan Zhipeng is Li Fangning's male colleague and a competitor for promotion. Just one week after Li Fangning was defeated and Quan Zhipeng was selected, Li Fangning sued Quan Zhipeng in court.

The reason is - workplace sexual harassment, Quan Zhipeng "touched" Li Fangning's back.

Li Fangning's boss, Mr. Ni, specially called the two parties involved in it in front of him, and Quan Zhipeng's wife also followed.

President Ni seems to be helping them "resolve conflicts", but in fact he is helping Quan Zhipeng suppress Li Fangning.

Quan Zhipeng was a rogue. In front of his wife, he was even more afraid to admit what he did, insisting that it was not "touching", but "photoing", and "joking".

If this is a joke, then on the first day of Li Fangning's job, Quan Zhipeng and his colleagues said "C or D" in a vulgar way, and even gestured with his hands. What is this?

Also, Quan Zhipeng often deliberately has physical contact with Li Fangning and other female colleagues on the grounds of work. Is it considered sexual harassment?

In the past few years, Li Fangning has been sexually harassed by Quan Zhipeng many times. She has been swallowing her anger because she is afraid that someone will make a big deal and affect her work.

This time, she really couldn't stand it anymore. Her mother called her "shameless", her blind date partner felt that she was "not clean", and Li Fangning was besieged by the "victim theory of guilt", which hurt her more than workplace sexual harassment!

"Slut humiliation"

"Slut humiliation" is a prejudice against women. For example, those people always think that women who dress up beautifully are debauchery and indecent, and think that they are improper in doing some kind of work.

So, once a woman is molested or violated, those people always feel that it is the victim’s fault. It is because they are exposed in their clothes, because they do not love themselves, and blindly attack them with their own prejudice.

There are four types of people who "slut humiliate" Li Fangning:

1. The melon-eating crowd has caused Li Fangning to suffer secondary harm.

Li Fangning was sexually harassed in the workplace just after it was exposed online, those "keyboard warriors" attacked:

"Pattacking the back is harassing, then I am harassing others every day."

"Isn't the clothes she wears just hilarious? Reflect on yourself first!"

"I can slut, you can't disturb you."

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The people who raped Li Fangning online are both men and women. As expected, the knife is not inserted into them. They don't know how painful it is. They always use the "slut imagination" to hurt the victims again.

2. The blind date partner prompted Li Fangning to stand up and resist.

Li Fangning and his blind date partner were originally in love with each other, but when the other party heard that Li Fangning was a salesman, they immediately left.

Li Fangning knew that outsiders had more or less prejudice against female sales, but she didn't expect that it would be so deep. Because of this job, the other party completely denied you.

Because, those people always think that female sales rely on selling their lust in exchange for business and money, completely ignoring the professional level and efforts of women.

Isn’t this the same with Li Fangning’s boss?

. Supervisor Mr. Ni is the same as the perpetrator Quan Zhipeng.

In fact, Li Fangning’s request is very simple, asking Quan Zhipeng to apologize publicly. Not only did Quan Zhipeng refuse, he also found media to throw dirty water on Li Fangning.

In order to maintain the company's reputation, Mr. Ni did not punish Quan Zhipeng who was wrong, but instead asked Li Fangning to resign voluntarily.

Li Fangning just defended herself. It was not her fault. President Ni began to humiliate and criticize her verbally:

"You have never done anything to get those big customers? This time, what's more serious? What's the point of making a chastity arch with me! They are all adults, why bother?"

"You have affected the image of the company and damaged the interests of the company. How many people have been laid off in this point of failure!"

Look, in Mr. Ni's heart, Li Fangning's performance was obtained by improper means. A man like him who disrespects women has a ugly face.

For the interests of the company, he can encourage female employees to sell their bodies; but once their own interests are endangered, he in turn humiliates female employees who make profits for him.

For example, the front desk lady asked her to put her hair down and said bluntly that she should be sexy so that the customer would like it.

For example, if a female salesperson was asked to sign a contract with the customer late at night, the female employee was afraid of not going, so he blamed the female employee for "judging the gentleman with a villain's heart" and blamed her for losing the order.

In fact, the real villain is Mr. Ni himself.

There is no wonder that there are employees like Quan Zhipeng, no wonder that there are always female employees who are sexually harassed. Mr. Ni not only helps the evil, but also plays a "leading role".

Li Fangning was sexually harassed by Quan Zhipeng. Mr. Ni "persuaded" Li Fangning from the beginning:

"Fangning, the boss appreciates you very much, but as your direct boss, I still want to remind you kindly, after the matter between you two will affect the company's image, and then it will definitely involve the interests of the company.

So once the interests of the company are involved, then I think no matter who it is, I will not sit idly by.

You also know that our company's connections and circle of friends in Rongzhou are quite wide. If everyone knows that you are such a girl, wouldn't it be passive? "

This is a threat to Li Fangning. If she insists on seeking justice, then the only one who will be miserable in the end will be herself.

And what he said - "A girl like this", what kind of girl is it? This is a slander and humiliation of Li Fangning.

There is a detail here, which fully demonstrates Mr. Ni's vulgarity. She said to Li Fangning while stroking the buttocks of the character model in her hand, so disgusting!

. Li Fangning's mother became the last straw that crushed her.

There is a kind of love called - even if the whole world does not believe in you, I will always stand on your side. And the person who can give you unconditional love must be your closest family.

So, for Li Fangning, no matter how much slandered the outside world, as long as she has the belief and support of her mother, she will have the courage and confidence to overcome everything.

However, Li Fangning's mother also has a "slut mind". When she sees her daughter dressing up beautifully, her mother will say:

"How many times have you told you that you can buy clothes, buy some serious clothes, look at you, what do you look like when you wear every day, it's different, what do you look like?"

"This is how the designer designed it? I have to show your big neck. I'm all for your own good, you can't listen!"

Mom didn't know at first. Reported on TV The girl who was sexually harassed was her daughter. She specially pulled Li Fangning over to see her and said humiliating words:

A girl was touched by someone because she was wearing clothes that exposed her back. She was so embarrassed to sue her, and she didn't feel embarrassed!

When my mother knew that the girl was her daughter, she picked up the scissors and cut all of Li Fangning's beautiful clothes and cursed fiercely:

"I'll let you wear these inappropriate clothes again, so that you can go out and hook up!"

"Flies don't bite seamless eggs!"

"Shameless! You still think the matter is not big enough, and you don't feel embarrassed enough!"

Li Fangning explained that she is the victim, and her mother couldn't listen at all, and slapped her daughter directly.

Because in the eyes of my mother, a beautiful woman is not a good thing, because her husband is caught by the so-called "vixen".

So, Li Fangning has been "destroying" by her mother's "slut humiliation" since she was a child.

I think many girls have had similar experiences to Li Fangning:

For example, because Li Fangning's body was developing early, her male classmates made a prank and pulled her underwear straps. The girls didn't help her, and they even got together to discuss and exclude her. She felt very ashamed and could only walk with her back hunched every day.

For example, Li Fangning received a love letter from a boy. When her mother found out, she beat and scolded her first, and then cut her hair short. It was not because she was afraid that she would fall in love early, but because she did not let her be a beautiful girl.

Now, Li Fangning is being harassed and she wants to sue the man. Her mother feels this is a shame and forces her daughter to withdraw the lawsuit with a knife.

Although Li Fangning is already very strong inside, she firmly believes that women should live for themselves and should not become beautiful for others, or give up on beauty, but it is too difficult to do.

Li Fangning was originally ready to fight the perpetrator to the end. It was her mother's attitude and practice that completely crushed her because she could not ignore her mother's life and death and could only choose to compromise.

"The last straw" can also become a "life-saving straw"

Fazhu Sister Wang said that she understood Li Fangning's mother's approach and did not agree with the trial, because the three words "sexual harassment" will accompany Li Fangning's life, because the melon-eating people only care about sexual harassment, which has a bad impact on the victims' future.

Sister Wang is considering it from the perspective of her mother and does not want her daughter to be famous for her and will hurt her for life.

, while Ye Xin, a woman of the same age, supports Li Fangning because she was offended by a man while swimming, thus truly understanding the feeling in Li Fangning's heart.

Doesn’t everyone have freedom of clothing?

, men are shirtless, no one criticizes them too much.

. Li Fangning likes clothes with a short neck and is suitable for wearing clothes with a low neckline. People think that such a woman is very open and thinks it doesn’t matter if she touches her hands and feet, and offends her casually.

There are also a bunch of online anchors who use this to consume, block Li Fangning and ask her to give her fans an explanation. Why?

Li Fangning was forced to explode:

"I was beaten by someone Sexual harassment, but everyone is more curious about my experience.

Some people say I want to kill a male colleague to take the opportunity to get to the top; some people say I am not self-determination, so I give men an opportunity to take advantage of it; there are also a lot of people who say that our female salesmen are selling their appearance and doing their performance, and there is no good thing.

I can't control what you say, but today please let me say, I stand up and sue those who harass me because I have been tolerant for a long time, I can't stand it anymore, I don't want to endure it anymore!

My female colleagues, what about you? My sutras You have all suffered. We have complained to each other and pretended not to care. We are silent and endured.

cannot wait for others to respect. Those who bully us are becoming more and more scrupulous! Unscrupulous!

sisters, I hope you stand up and testify for me, not for me, but for yourself."

colleagues were preparing to testify for her after seeing the live broadcast. Li Fangning seemed to see the light of life again and interrupted and continued to sue.

But the day before the trial, the three colleagues refused to appear in court again because they were threatened by their superiors.

Mom heard her daughter’s call with the judge outside the door, and suddenly understood her daughter. She understood that her daughter was the victim. She wanted to testify for Li Fangning!

It can be seen from this that before the coffin was covered, the "last straw" was likely to become a "life-saving straw". Li Fangning's mother turned maternal love into strength, no longer crushed her, but helped her get out of the quagmire.

So, mother's understanding and support are Li Fangning's greatest confidence!

Fortunately, those colleagues finally figured it out. They were unwilling to stay in a smoky company and testified for Li Fangning in court, which was also seeking justice for himself and upholding justice for women!