Marriage is a lifelong commitment that is not taken lightly.
In marriage, a considerate couple is like a paradise in the world, which can bring peace and healing to the soul.
A cold and selfish partner is like the freezing Arctic; a bad-tempered partner is like a hot desert; a gloomy and petty partner is like a smog-stricken area.
Living in a harsh environment for a long time will make life extremely difficult.
The wrong choice can lead to years of pain, emotional suffering, and lengthy divorce proceedings.
The cost of wrong choices makes people become anxious and try to avoid all deep emotional connections.
So what qualities in a partner can make a marriage continue to grow? Let’s look at the characteristics that a “good match” needs to have.
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Part.1
A good partner must be a soul-compatible and responsible
"I will visit my only soul mate in the vast sea of people. I am lucky if I get her; if I don't get her, it is my fate."
In the sea of thousands of people, it is very rare to meet people who have the same mind and are in perfect harmony with each other. Difficult.
There are many love stories about love at first sight that have been passed down through the ages.
What’s rare is that after the passage of time, I still fall in love at first sight and never get tired of being together for a long time, and I still love her in my heart.
Many people enter into marriage because they love each other at the beginning. However, as time goes by, it becomes difficult for them to withstand the test of life.
After facing trivial matters such as firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar, tea, etc., many marriages bury their love.
But a good partner stays together because of love, and stays together for a long time because of harmony. The relationship will not become indifferent because of the disappearance of novelty, nor will it lose the power of love because of conflicts caused by trivial matters in life. On the contrary, it will be because of experience. With the baptism of time, the marriage becomes stronger and more stable.
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Part.2
A good partner must be honest and trustworthy.
Trust is very important for a stable marriage.
Be honest with your partner, which is the basis for trusting each other.
Honesty doesn’t just mean telling the truth to your significant other. Just as importantly, it includes being true to your own abilities and desires.
From time to time we will face something that makes us feel stressed. It may be realizing problems about ourselves or with our spouse in the marriage.
For some people, at this time, they will choose to cover up, belittle the problem, or even deny the existence of the problem.
A lack of honesty can have serious consequences in a marriage.
Problems that are downplayed or denied cannot be solved.
When serious issues are ignored, relationships inevitably suffer.
The bottom line of a marriage relationship is that both parties treat each other honestly and can trust each other.
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Part.3
A good partner must be one who knows respect, tolerance and understanding
Someone said: " Soul mate does not mean how compatible the souls are, but the consistency of two people's views. Even when they have differences, they can communicate peacefully; even if they don't speak, the other person can understand what they want through their eyes. The meaning of the expression. "
No family can put aside all kinds of trivial matters in life, and there are all kinds of problems that need to be solved.
The different attitudes and methods of dealing with these issues determine the quality and direction of marriage.
A good partner can respect the opinions of his lover, have a correct understanding and tolerance of gains and losses, and is the resolver of conflicts.
A good partner can think about problems from the other person's perspective, put himself in the other person's shoes, and face the joys, sorrows, and joys of life together.
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