TV series " Ode to Joy 3" is so lovable, a bit like Fan Shengmei , but she refuses to be a supporter and does not rely on men. She is much more sober than Fan Shengmei. Today, let’s talk about Zhu Zhe.
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Zhu Zhe graduated from a vocational high school at the age of 16 and came to Shanghai alone to make a living. Moreover, she also has to pay for her younger siblings’ school fees. What she means is that she only pays for tuition and lets her younger siblings work-study for living expenses. However, their parents felt sorry for them and kept giving money to their younger brother and sister. Now, her brother and sister have developed the habit of reaching out to her and asking for money.
In their eyes, my sister is rich. She used to be able to spend tens of thousands, but now she can also spend more. Therefore, when the younger brother has a girlfriend and his future mother-in-law needs medical treatment, he comes to his older sister to actually ask for money. My sister is getting married and comes to Shanghai to buy a dowry, and she also comes to ask for money.
What Zhu Zhe did when faced with such a younger brother and younger sister was to pretend to be poor. She wore old clothes and asked her roommates to hide her true condition.
When her younger brother and younger sister came to her house, they seemed quite nice. She said they lived together. When her brother mentioned accommodation, she asked the whole family to squeeze in together and he slept in the corridor.
My sister wanted to wear her clothes, but when she opened her wardrobe, there was no good clothes. At this time, Zhu Zhe immediately became concerned about her marriage and asked her to borrow the bride price.
Faced with his brother and sister's desire to take advantage, Zhu Zhe said that he had no money and owed a lot of money for their education back then, which he has not yet paid off. When she borrowed money in turn, the other person left immediately.
Zhu Zhe's pretending to be poor is the wisdom of life. People who have intentions for you will naturally stay away from you if they don't have anything in mind for you.
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How greedy Zhu Zhe’s brother and sister are was revealed when Ye Zhenzhen sent them to the hotel. When her sister saw Ye Zhenzhen driving a luxury car, she immediately asked Zhu Zhe why he had such rich friends and why he didn't let her help him find a job. Zhu Zhe could only say that he was cleaning at their house.
When getting out of the car, my sister deliberately took photos with the luxury car. Needless to say, my sister-in-law's family changed her face immediately when her mother saw that Zhu Zhe had no money. Sitting in the car, my sister-in-law asked Zhu Zhe to help introduce the doctor. When Zhu Zhe didn't agree, she asked Ye Zhenzhen again.
The behavior of this family in the car made them wish they were Ye Zhenzhen's relatives and asked her to help with this and that. To put it bluntly, this family is supercilious and snobbish.
When they met Zhu Zhe, they didn't mention Zhu Zhe's help at all, they just asked for money in disguise. Seeing that Zhu Zhe had no money, he fled. Zhu Zhe's native family is very similar to Fan Shengmei, but she is much smarter than Fan Shengmei.
Faced with a family of vampires, Fan Shengmei was hysterical while trying to satisfy her family. She even wanted to find a rich man to help the family. Therefore, she specializes in dating rich men, so she is called a slut.
Even when she later got together with Wang Baichuan , she was still forcing Wang Baichuan to make money and buy a house. She pinned her good life on men. It wasn't until the end that she figured out that people have to rely on themselves to survive.
However, Zhu Zhe is different. She bought her own house, refused to be a supporter, and refused to be pampered by men. In the same situation, she was much more sober than Fan Shengmei.
Zhu Zhe's sobriety lies in rejection. She never consumes herself for favors, whether it is relatives or lovers.
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Zhu Zhe’s ex-boyfriend was so talented that Zhu Zhe spent a year chasing her. After they got together, the man taught her to read a lot of books, but he still felt that he was different from Zhu Zhe. He felt that they had no spiritual communication.
Later, she saw Zhu Zhe holding the toilet to check the hygiene and chose to break up. After the breakup, Zhu Zhe put aside the relationship and concentrated on work.
Later, Zhu Zhe got better and better, and her ex-boyfriend came to chase her again. But Zhu Zhe will never go back. For those who have hurt her, once is enough.
In fact, Zhu Zhe and Fan Shengmei were in similar situations but had different endings. The most essential reason lies in work. Andy once commented on Fan Shengmei's office skills. She has high emotional intelligence and does not use it in business at all, but uses it to take advantage of loopholes.However, Zhu Zhe is different. She uses her high emotional intelligence to resolve crises one after another.
When customers complain, she will compensate with a smile. If a client bullies her subordinates, she must seek justice for them. This is the responsibility and responsibility of a leader. Even when the company was fighting within the company, she tried her best to protect her employees. And her own growth is an inspirational story.
She is not highly educated, but she is hardworking and hardworking. After working in a hotel, she learned whatever she didn't know how to do. Fan Shengmei graduated from college and spent all her energy on dressing herself up. Zhu Zheque keeps improving himself, which is the essential difference between them.
As a woman, you really need to learn from Zhu Zhe. If you come from a bad background, work hard and change your destiny on your own. The family just wanted to ask for it and flatly refused. Her lover looked down on her, so she broke up and lived her own life.
The most admirable thing about Zhu Zhe is that when she encounters a problem, she doesn't cry, make a fuss or get angry, but solves the problem calmly. She is gentle but firm. She knows what she wants and has been working hard to live for herself. Such a woman will not have a bad life.
Today’s discussion: What do you think of Zhu Zhe?
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