What is the best "feng shui" for a family?
When buying a new house or building a new house, many people often consider whether the feng shui of the place they want to live is good or bad. Everyone wants to live in the "Feng Shui Treasure Land", hoping that the family will have smooth sailing and deep blessings.
Then, does the quality of the outside world really determine the happiness and misfortune of people? Those who study Buddhism should understand that it is not the outside world that truly determines the happiness or misfortune of a person, but himself.
A family full of blessings can not only provide us with the sustenance we need for our practice, but also an excellent environment for us to refine our hearts and achieve Buddhahood.
In a family, there are these kinds of "signs", which often indicate that good luck is coming.
More and more peaceful
As the saying goes: Peace brings prosperity, peace brings happiness, and if there is resentment, caress, complains, complains, and quarrels, then luck will naturally go away. Buddhists often say that "everything is created only by the mind". In fact, the gains and losses in life are the manifestation of inner energy.
If your heart is kind, good things will come close to you; if your heart is full of anger, obstacles will come uninvited. Peace of mind, life will be smoother, and good fate will be gathered together. The same is true of a family. The more tolerance and understanding of each other, the more difficult things will pass.
If internal strife persists, good fortune collapses. Don't dislike this and hate that all day long. The reason for your unhappiness and unhappiness is not that others have faults or faults, but that you are too small and too narrow-minded.
More and more industrious.
The wealth of any family does not come out of thin air. It is the hard work and hard work of several generations. When we enjoy these blessings, we must know how to cherish and be grateful, and don’t waste it.
The number of blessings a person can enjoy in this life is actually fixed. Premature squandering and premature decay, the same is true for a family's blessings. If you don't know how to cherish happiness, no matter how much happiness you have, it will be exhausted. Moreover, we have to accumulate yin virtues for our descendants, be thrifty and cherish good fortune, and do not do evil, in order to avoid the omission of good fortune.
In addition to cherishing good fortune, one must also work hard and accumulate good fortune. Just like "open source and throttling", "throttling" is important, and "open source" is also necessary. Just like "money", you only need to be thrifty, you only have enough food and clothing, and you can get rich by working hard to make money. Just like "cultivating the land", if you want to harvest more, you have to put in more effort. Rich and poor are all cause and effect. The more industrious a family is, the more blessed it is.
Respect elders
Hundreds of good filial piety first, parents and elders can be said to be unreserved for our efforts and do not ask for anything in return.
There is a saying in Buddhists that parents are the number one blessing field in the world, and there is no merit or virtue without them. Why do you say that?
As everyone knows, good fortune comes from Futian. There are three kinds of blessing fields in the world, namely respecting fields, sad fields, and benevolent fields. Respecting the elders means cultivating the fields of grace. The kindness of parents and elders can be said to be higher than the sky and thicker than the earth. If parents don’t want to repay their kindness, how can they treat all beings with compassion?
Have good intentions
There is a saying in the Buddhist scriptures that happiness comes from the heart, and the greatest blessing of a person is to have a kind heart.
If you want your family to be blessed, you need to have a good heart. To study Buddhism and practice, you must learn to recite "concentration of the heart". This heart is nothing but a kind heart to the Buddha all the time.
Whether we are in the family or in the society, since we choose to do good deeds, we should not be obsessed with "doing it for your own good and for you".In other words, what we pay should be compassion, and we must not receive anything in return due to greed, hatred, and delusion. If you have good thoughts in your heart and do good deeds with no desire, you will be rewarded with immeasurable blessings.
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