A few days ago, "Will you think about getting married at the age of 30" was on the hot search. The discussion about the 30-year-old has never stopped from marriage, parenting to employment, and promotion. Last year, a "Thirty-year-old That's it" has also triggered various discussions about life choices at the age of 30. The most common question is about the choice of cities. Choosing a different city leads to a different life. Should you continue to work hard for your dream, or Should we hurry up to get married and have children, should we choose a glamorous big city, or should we return to a stable hometown?
How are the "multiple choice questions" produced?
Every age has its own worries, but the choice and anxiety of thirty-year-olds are particularly resonant, so why do this group of people need to make choices quickly?
Because for them, their 30s are too fast.
The graduation age of Chinese college students is about 22 or 23, and the graduation age of graduate students is about 24 or 45. In this case, they are less than a few years after graduation to work. Time is facing the advent of the thirty-year-old, and with it all kinds of requirements for the thirty-year-old.
originally meant that people establish their own stable values and principles of life around the age of 30, but now people often use various evaluation criteria such as whether to start a family, buy a car, buy a house, etc. to judge whether a person is "standing." Ningning was born in 1991 and is about to turn 30. She said: "The friends around me are mostly in their 30s, and the majority are unmarried. They really feel their panic about 30 and they are very worried about buying a house. , Saving money, and fertility anxiety.”
At the age of 30, parents are gradually aging, and perhaps they have gradually become the backbone of the family. Ding Ling, who was born in 1988, said: "Suddenly I realized that my parents were getting old and I was no longer adolescent, and I had another responsibility on my shoulders in the family."
If this time Haven't established a firm foothold in the big cities, and haven't achieved the secular standards set for them by the so-called 30-year-old, family and friends may start to persuade them, and even their hearts will start to wonder: How long can they "drift" here? Can you provide your family with a better life in the future? Is it a better choice to return to a small and stable city? The "multiple choice question" was thus produced.
When people choose between a big city or a small city, they may consider factors such as house and settlement, promotion or childbirth, ideal occupation and stable income, and so on. The greater economic pressure in big cities is often prohibitive, but they have abundant education, medical, employment resources and job opportunities.
Job seekers check recruitment information at the Xi'an Employment Service Center. Xinhua News Agency reporter Liu Xiao photo
Qi Qi, who has just turned 30 this year, said: "Although it is a bit difficult to live in Beijing now, I always feel hopeful." small cities In terms of economic pressure, the pace of life is slower, but the infrastructure is lagging behind, and people's fighting spirit is easily consumed. Ding Ling said: "After being admitted to a stable job within the system, I lost a lot of courage and courage to'go out'. The so-called'stay at home and ensure income from droughts and floods', people have gradually become more comfortable with the status quo. "As a result, there is vacillation between the two.
is there really a choice?
It should be noted that the choice is not made at the age of 30, but has started as early as the 20s. I first chose a big city after graduating. When I got a job, I first considered the big city and developed in a big city. Only when I was in my thirties would we face the choice between big and small cities again. If you graduate or get a job Go directly to work in small cities,You will not face such a selection problem at all.
According to public data, among the top ten provinces and cities with 985 college graduates from 2017 to 2019, Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou is firmly in the top three, and some new first-tier cities are also the first choices of many graduates. Therefore, looking back at the source, the choices of these people in their twenties determine the emergence of their 30-year-old choices, so why do people choose big cities as their first stop in society?
First of all, big cities have better working resources. According to the data on contracted enterprises for graduates in 2020 released by various universities, it can be found that the destination of 985 college graduates is concentrated in some large state-owned and private enterprises. "Internet big companies" have become the first choice of many graduates. For them, big cities not only have better job opportunities, but also have a fairer employment environment, that is, ability-oriented. This is similar to small cities in the society of acquaintances. It is very different than.
In addition, the development speed of big cities and the development of various emerging industries are also attracting the attention of young people, whether it is high-tech industries or high-end service industries, many young people Only in large cities can there be more demand, more matching positions, and a longer-term development path for majors. Many majors even face the problem of not being able to find jobs in small cities. Jiajia, who is about to graduate this year, said: "Because my major is new media, I must go to Beijing or Hangzhou to try to find a job.Basically, I face a career change when I return to my hometown. "From this perspective, many young people don’t even have to choose.
Finally, no matter whether strong 11span3span can really stay, _strong 11span3span The city is rushing around and "punch a card". Many people want to "walk out" after graduation. Just like Netease Cloud's hot comment, "I have been studying for so many years, staying up so many nights, and doing so much. Exercises, with all kinds of pressure, take all kinds of cruel exams. I worked so hard to become an ordinary person. "When everyone is in their twenties, they may have a yearning for the future and young dreams, hoping to have their own career and future in a big city, and don't want to be inactive. A bright and beautiful big city can always hold you. Dreaming young people see hope, so that they are unwilling to immediately lead to the so-called comfortable and stable life.
How to solve "multiple choice problems"
For the 30-year-old life choice question, basically needs more efforts from provinces and cities to introduce talents, provides people with better life security and solves worries.
this year China’s Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou and Shenzhen regions have issued the latest policies for talent introduction.Make efforts to retain talents. Beijing region issued the "Measures on Optimizing Talent Services, Promoting Technological Innovation and Promoting the Development of High-tech Industries". According to the measures, all scientific and technological innovation talents, cultural and creative talents, financial management talents, patent inventors and freelancers in urgent need in Beijing who meet certain conditions and meet the development direction of Beijing’s high-tech industries can apply for the introduction of Beijing to settle down. And other related procedures.
Shanghai has issued the "Shanghai Municipal Measures for the Introducing of Talents to Apply for Permanent Resident Registration in the City", which requires doctoral graduates with senior professional qualifications and corresponding degrees Eighteen categories of talents, including professional technical personnel and management personnel, and personnel who have been commended by the provincial and ministerial level and above, shall be permitted to settle down.
Guangzhou and Shenzhen provide settlement policies for talents, as well as talent incentives. For example, Guangzhou Huangpu District provides housing subsidies for undergraduates 20,000, master students 30,000, and doctoral students 50,000. Yuan, Shenzhen Futian District Outstanding Talents, National Leading Talents and Peacock Class A Talents, rewarded 600,000 yuan.
In addition to the super first-tier cities, many new first-tier cities have also released talent introduction measures to attract talents. For example, Hangzhou, which is ranked fifth in the top 100 cities in China in 2020, will The living allowance of 10,000 yuan for bachelor degree, 30,000 yuan for master degree, and 50,000 yuan for doctoral degree, as well as various rental subsidies and settlement subsidies, for fresh graduates of or above degree, will enable Hangzhou to successfully introduce 436,000 new college students under the age of 35 in 2020.The net inflow rate of talents continues to rank first in the country.
If each city can give full play to the advantages of the talent introduction policy, the solution will not only be the life choice of everyone, but more importantly, it will promote the continuous economic development of the entire city and help relieve Relieve the population pressure of mega-cities, promote a more reasonable layout of social industries, and match talent training with employment needs, making both large and small cities a good choice for people to realize the value of life.
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