Domestic bachelors have reached 30 million! What is the reason why they would rather be single than married?
Suggested words: According to the previously officially released data, the current ratio of men to women in mainland China is 104.64:100. If calculated according to this ratio, the number of males is 31.64 million more than the number of females.
To put it simply, if you do not consider these people marrying foreigners, then at least 30 million men will not be able to marry wives, and they will eventually become what they commonly call "bachelors".
Indeed, in recent years, the situation of domestic singles of older men has been very prominent, especially in some more remote suburbs or rural areas, where older men are more likely to "beat bachelors". This is true. It is worrying.
So apart from the problem caused by the imbalance of the population proportion, what causes a large number of marriageable groups to choose to be single?
First of all, rather than saying that many people would rather be single, it is better to say that many of them "cannot get married".
As we all know, when modern people get married, they have to bear a lot of expenses as a man, including the wedding gift to the woman, buying a house and a car, etc., have become the "standard" material basis.
Many modern women think that their partners should bear the financial responsibility of buying a house and a car. Therefore, men who are not rich in material conditions are easily left behind. Although the education opportunities and workplace competitiveness of men and women are getting closer, men are still the ones who finally "check out".
As material consumption is becoming more and more expensive, many men are feeling more and less capable. After all, nowadays men have to indulge in work if they want to support their families, but too long working hours will lead to dissatisfaction with the other half of the family, which makes men feel miserable.
In fact, it is not just older men and women, but now many young people have “unknowingly” joined the group of singles.Many of them pursue independence and freedom excessively, and use their mobile phones as a company all year round, and never actively greet the opposite sex. They can even say that they are "afraid of falling in love."
Of course, some of them have worked hard and struggled for "love", but due to some external reasons, they tried their best and finally passed by the person they loved deeply. They could not extricate themselves for a long time and missed their marriageable age. Thus became a bachelor.
Finally, getting married means having a baby, and many liberals do not want to have a baby.
In the past three years, my country’s birth rate has seen a rare downward trend. Judging from my country's population birth data from 2016 to 2019, the number of births in the past four years was 17.86 million, 17.23 million, 15.23 million, and 14.65 million. The overall situation is really not good.
On the other hand, in terms of marriage registration, there has been an embarrassing situation of "more divorces than marriages" in recent years. Now the young and the older are not getting married, which may be because they don’t want to have a baby.
After all, the pressure of social competition is relatively high now. If the generation of parents cannot afford to buy a house in the city, then they will not be able to give their children better protection in education, so they simply choose to "not live" and die The horse is doctored.
I don’t know what you think of this phenomenon? Do you have any good suggestions or opinions on this?
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