Text|Ye Lili
In many countries in the world, monogamy is basically practiced.
This kind of marriage system is conducive to the stability of husband and wife relationship, thereby promoting social stability.
However, in some countries and regions, polygamy is still allowed, such as Thailand.
Thailand’s law stipulates monogamy, but polygamy is still retained in the folks. To put it bluntly, it is actually turning a blind eye.
You can get a glimpse of the three thousand beauties in the harem of Thai King Maha.
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In Thai folks, if you are charming enough or rich enough, marrying two wives is not a problem.
No, a man recently married two girls at the same time, and they are still twin sisters.
It stands to reason that the man is not very rich, and his family is similar to that of the girls.
is that very attractive?
may be. But the most important thing is that he has been with the sisters since childhood. The three of
lived not far away and grew up playing with them. The two girls
liked the boy very much.
can probably be seen from this aspect that a boy with a high EQ can coax two girls at the same time and make each other feel tempted by himself.
When he reached the age to discuss marriage, the man already had a suitable candidate in his heart.
That is the sisters.
But who should I choose?
chooses any one of them will offend the other one.
We said earlier that this man is not low in EQ. At this moment, he also made a bold decision:
needs both.
This is called rain and dew.
is even more surprising that the two sisters actually agreed to his marriage proposal.
The man’s parents are of course very happy, but the woman’s parents are not very happy and a little bit difficult.
In the end, it doesn't matter if you agree or disagree. The girl wants to marry, and she can't stop it.
In this way, the man paid a certain gift, which was almost less than one hundred thousand baht, and married a pair of beautiful ladies.
The beauty in the man's heart is unnecessary to say.
However, there are many contradictions in the marriage of three people. Although
is a relative sister, in a marriage and family, the sister relationship is transformed into a love rival.
Two waitresses and one husband, even if the love scene masters, it is difficult to make a bowl of water smooth without spilling a little bit.
It is common to be jealous of the wind.
For this reason, men sometimes feel annoyed.
has taken a long time, if it doesn't solve it, then it will be a miasma, and it will be mad.
So, he came up with a way:
formulated some regulations in the form of tables. To put it plainly,
is actually the flop of the ancient emperor.
In this way, it is clear at a glance who should enter the room every day, and it feels like a day-time student on duty.
is also a sweet trouble in the eyes of the parties concerned. Although
said, this Thai man has realized the dream that many men have dreamed of and couldn't carry it out with integrity.
But there are many people who said: do not envy.
The two wives share the same face, and they have to spend double energy and tired.
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This is reminiscent of the "Queen of Variety" Ding Lan, who relies on imitation makeup of the big stars, she was commented by netizens that:
married her is equivalent to marrying the entire entertainment industry.
is a joke. It can be seen that in the eyes of some netizens, this Thai man still feels thankless.
is not worthy of envy, but worthy of sympathy.
However, some people reversed the role, a woman married two husbands.
This is not the "good wish" of many women in today's situation where there are more men than women.
It is definitely not possible in our country, but it can be done abroad.
In Ohio, there is such a legendary woman, her name is Alexia.
Before meeting her second husband, she had been married to her first husband for 7 years and had two children.
may be that foreigners also have the "7-year itch", and then the third Jacobian appeared.
is not rejected, and the first husband of the key family also supports it. What else is there to say.
So, the three people live in the same house, acquiescing to each other's existence.
Two men do not fight, but can live in harmony. Nayalixia is not the happiest woman in the world.
Oh, yes, Alexia also held a rather formal wedding with Jacob.
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Now, Alexia became the woman with higher EQ.
is the same as the above-mentioned Thai man, it takes certain measures to deal with two husbands not being jealous of each other. The schedule of
should be clearly arranged.
Later, this woman and her second husband gave birth to a daughter.
is now a family of six and enjoys it all.
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Some female netizens thought they were quite "excited". Since ancient times, when one person has more than one spouse, it is basically polygamy.
rarely has polyandry. The key to
is that both of them are in love with their husbands and can live in harmony.
This is really envious.
I wrote about the marriage of three persons by "fairy tale poet" Gu Cheng.
Although the three people get along well.
But in the end, he left without saying goodbye to his lover, he swung his axe to kill his wife, and finally ended up hanging himself.
Marriage of many people, after all, does not conform to the laws of social development, nor does it conform to the ethics and morals, and individual examples are not representative.
So, men and women in marriage, don't fantasize about polygamy or polyandry. It's better to manage your current marriage than to fantasize about unrealistic ones.
Ji Lao once said: love is exclusive, and true love does not allow a third party.
Therefore, whether the marriage of those three people is really happy is not clear to outsiders.
But if you want to say true love, that is not necessarily true.
is like what Princess Diana said: The marriage of the three of is too crowded.
