If a man cheats in marriage, it will be very harmful to his family and his wife, but why are so many men willing to risk cheating
Today we will look at the nature of a man’s derailment
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People have physical desires, especially men. The male hormones in the body make them want to conquer the women they like. Of course, this cannot be a reasonable reason for men to derail, because not all men will cheat.
Although some men will have this desire, a high degree of loyalty to marriage will allow them to restrain their physical desires. But for some men with poor loyalty to marriage, when faced with temptation, they often can't control themselves and derail themselves.
is not so much because of love, but actually wants to satisfy one's physical desires. Generally, such derailments are impulsive, mostly one-night stands.
2. Psychological factors drive, emotional supplementary derailment
As the time of marriage and life increases, the passion in love will gradually fade, and love is often defeated by real life. The couple began to quarrel over the trivial matters of life, and holding his wife's hand also made him feel like pulling his right hand from side to side.
They feel that their life is too boring, and the economic and life pressures have become very heavy, especially after they have children, their wives also focus all their lives on the children.
They feel that they are left out, two people His feelings are getting weaker and his communication is getting less and less. These emotional problems will eventually become the psychological factors that drive him to cheat.
When he meets a woman again, it brings passion and freshness to his life and makes him feel the joy of life again. With her, there is no need to consider the child’s homework problems, no conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and no need to do things wrong. , And was blamed by his wife. What
brings to him every day is freshness and ease. The lover can satisfy all his needs for feelings and can fill in the missing emotions in the married life, which will also become the driving force for him to derail.
3. Profit demand-driven, use-type derailment
Many women can be lovers for profit, but in fact, some men derail because of their interests. There are many aspects of interests. Money, status, children, etc. may be derailed. s reason.
For example, if he encounters a bottleneck in his career, the other party can provide him with some help and support. He is likely to cheat for the development of his career, or his wife is infertile.
But he wants one of his own Children, so he asked the third gang to have children by himself, etc. However, such infidelity is generally a relationship of mutual use.
Fourth, true love-driven, true-love derailed men like
derailed because he himself wants to end his marriage, but he has not had the courage or found a more suitable woman.
When he meets a woman one day, he feels that he is too late to meet and wants to marry her and go home immediately. Then he will probably develop relationships with this woman first.
wait for the relationship to stabilize before going home to discuss divorce, but only about 5% of cheating men are in this situation, most of them want to enjoy the blessing of the same people, and the lover and wife do not want to let go.
Based on the analysis of the above points, we can divide men's derailment into four major categories. Only by understanding the nature and type of husband's derailment can wives find a way to crack it and launch a counterattack.
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