Lucky people have a smooth life, they are born with their own aura, which is enviable; unfortunate people have a bumpy road, as if fate will be against you everywhere, no matter how hard you work, you are always in bad luck, poverty, disease, disaster Like a shadow, it makes people sympathetic. The protagonist of this article, Wang Mei, has never experienced the taste of luck since childhood, and has never enjoyed the kindness of fate.
The picture shows Wang Mei
Wang Mei was born on October 17, 1981 in a rural family in Lixin County, Bozhou City, Anhui Province. Because it is the eldest of the family, he has been helping the adults with work long ago, and suffered a lot. Generally, rural girls on the Huaibei Plain talk about friends and talk about their in-laws when they are 18 or 9 years old, but Wang Mei has been working at home until she is 24 years old before being matched by others and betrothed to a neighboring village as a wife. You know, in the local area, it is very rare for girls to have no "objects" at the age of 24.
The picture shows Wang Mei and her daughter
get along for a few days, and the two families hurriedly held a wedding for the couple. Who knew that after the marriage, the man’s shortcomings were exposed, and due to lack of understanding, there were many conflicts between the couple. Generally, newlyweds cherish each other and love each other, but Wang Mei and her husband "continue to war."
Wang Mei thought about divorce, but at this moment, she found out that she was pregnant. Despite the pregnancy, the "war" between Wang Mei and her husband did not stop. When she was 8 months pregnant, Wang Mei was born prematurely and gave birth to a boy less than a month old.
The picture shows that after Wang Mei
has a son, both parents-in-law and mother-in-law are very happy, and her husband's attitude towards her has also eased. Wang Mei thought that he could live a normal life from now on, with his husband and wife living in harmony and a healthy life. I don't want to have a few months, my husband's "smelly problem" has committed again, loud noises three or six nine, small noises every day. Wang Mei is tired of such a life. However, she was pregnant again.
People who are pregnant are treated like princesses, treated as heroes of the family, protected like pandas, and Wang Mei wants to live a peaceful life as a luxury. When Wang Mei was five months pregnant, the couple broke out the biggest "war" after marriage. She couldn't live with that man anymore, she was heartbroken. In desperation, she had to leave her husband's house with her pregnant belly.
The picture shows Wang Mei and her daughter
in order to make money and live a stable life for the child who is about to be born. Wang Mei is working everywhere with her pregnant belly, beading, cutting thread, and taking pencils for the clothes produced by the garment factory. Go back to the rental house to cut. She went to work during the day and sharpened her pencils at night. In order to earn more money to welcome the children, she took home more than 1,000 pencils each time, and she sharpened it in the middle of the night.
On August 30, 2006, Wang Mei gave birth to a daughter, and she named the child Wang Yawen. She took her daughter alone, and took the work home from the factory to make money. Finally after her daughter was one year old, she went through the divorce procedures with her husband.
The picture shows the photo of the mother and daughter when Wang Yawen was one year old.
After her daughter is sensible, she sees other children have fathers, and often naively asks: "Mom, everyone has a father, why don't I have a father?" Relatives and friends see her as a woman It is not easy to pull the child, so she introduced someone to her. In order to give her daughter a complete home, she agreed to come down. At first, the second husband treated Xiao Yawen very well, which moved Wang Mei's heart. But after a long time, there was a barrier.
Wang Mei can be angry, but she can't see her daughter suffering from her stepfather's eyes. For her daughter, she chose to divorce again. From then on, Wang Mei broke off the idea of remarrying, pulling Xiao Yawen hard. As the younger siblings grew up, her family also gave her some support. Seeing her daughter grow up day by day for her to go to school and grow up with her, Wang Mei feels that her contribution is worthwhile. Guarding his daughter to live without a man's support, there was a lot of hardship, but Wang Mei was still very comfortable seeing her daughter can be happy.
The picture shows Wang Yawen
. Unexpectedly, in May 2020, Xiao Yawen suddenly had abdominal pain and vomiting. Wang Mei took her to the local county hospital for examination and treatment. A few days passed without effect. The doctor recommended that Wang Mei take the child to Anhui Children's Hospital in Hefei for further diagnosis and treatment.
In Anhui Children's Hospital, Wang Yawen was diagnosed with T lymph nodeblastoma with myeloid expression. Hearing the results of this examination at the time, Wang Mei couldn’t believe that such a struggling daughter, forGod didn't take care of it a little, and let her get this disease. What should Wang Mei do alone, what can she do to save her child?
The picture shows Wang Mei's mother and daughter
Someone suggested that Wang Mei give up. After she heard this, her heart hurts like a knife cut. As a mother, she already feels very indebted to her for failing to give her child a healthy home. How can she bear to give up treatment? "What's more, I am her only life-saving straw, I want to give my daughter hope!" She said to herself. After making this decision, Wang Mei borrowed money everywhere to treat the child. At the end of the third treatment evaluation, Xiao Yawen's intestinal tract has relieved, and her thymus glands are gone. The doctor said that three more large doses can be used for transplantation. After the first treatment, Xiao Yawen said, "Mom, my neck hurts and I have lumps." Wang Mei was terrified at the time, and she hurriedly took her daughter to the hospital for a checkup. It's on the neck.
The picture shows Wang Mei's mother and daughter
Anhui Provincial Children's Hospital was helpless, and finally inquired that Yanjiao Yanda Ludaopei Hospital in Yanjiao, Hebei Province could do carts to relieve Wang Yawen's condition. Once the condition is relieved, bone marrow transplantation must be done as soon as possible. Doctors at Lu Daopei Hospital said that cart is a new type of immunotherapy, which costs more than 200,000 yuan, not including infections. Later transplantation and rehabilitation still need about 400,000 yuan.
The picture shows Wang Yawen
Before her daughter was sick, Wang Mei suffered from severe thyroid nodules and uterine fibroids . After her daughter fell ill, her anxiety and worry made her unable to eat and sleep, and the radiation that accompanied her to treat her illness became more and more serious, which led to her becoming more ill. The doctor advised Wang Mei to do the operation because she kept on dragging her because she had no money. Now that the uterine fibroids have grown to 5 cm in size, the doctor told her: "If you don't get timely treatment, there will be lesions and deterioration at any time. By that time, the consequences will be disastrous." The picture shows Wang Mei's mother and daughter
but , Treating her daughter, Wang Mei has already been in debt and has no money to treat herself. She said: "I have to save money to save my daughter. If my child and I can only live with one child, I will definitely leave the hope of birth to my daughter. For many years, my daughter and I have depended on each other for life, and she knows that we are each other’s spiritual support. When either of us falls, the sky of the other will fall."
The picture shows Wang Yawen
Wang Mei, a poor woman, an unfortunate single mother, has reached the point of exhaustion, and her daughter is her only relative and sustenance. , Is all her hope and future. Wang Yawen’s cart has not yet been completed, and dangers may happen at any time. I hope that the majority of caring people will read this article and be able to give the mother and daughter a little help. The so-called people gather firewood and the flames are high, and everyone gives a little love, they can survive the disaster, get a new life, let the mother accompany the daughter to grow up, let the daughter accompany the mother to grow old, so that the suffering mother and daughter can enjoy the true love on earth .
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