happiness. Some people enjoy the free and easy walk of the world alone, while others like the guardianship of one pair for life. It’s just that in life, free and easy seems to be easier to achieve. The only variable that needs to be controlled is yourself, but if you expect a pair of people to wait, in addition to yourself, there is more than 50% probability that it will be handed over to another person and providence.
"I said, it must be right this time!" Qianqian, the girlfriend who just finished dating, told me in a sure tone. I know that what she said "right" refers to her date this time, because this is the seventh time she has said this.
Qianqian just passed her 31st birthday last month, this age is cruel and ruthless for girls who want to get married. In the past few years, Qianqian has been trying very hard to get in touch with different opposite sexes, but the longest time she got along was 5 months. In the end she always gave up halfway for various reasons. It is not so much that she is trying to get along with others, it is not that she is using These people are determined to "not marry". Why does
say that?
So far, the only person Qianqian has talked about seriously is her first love. She was together at the age of 19 and broke up because of marriage at the age of 27. After eight years, she had already carved that person's voice and smile into her bones. After breaking up, it took Qianqian two years to finally return to a normal life. When she thought she was ready to meet new candidates, she said to me for the first time, "I feel right this time." At that time,
was a senior at the university. After graduating from work, he started contacting Qianqian actively. When he was still in school, he actively pursued Qianqian, but at that time Qianqian had no time to take care of others, so the senior also chose other objects. . After a few years of contact, Qianqian said to look carefully, and suddenly found that the seniors are very stable, work hard, and are willing to put their minds on themselves, and they can develop well. But a month later, Qianqian said that every three or five days for seniors, they would disappear regularly for one or two days, and reappearance would not explain why they did not contact in the first two days. Qianqian could not bear such repeated changes, so she took the initiative Cut off contact with the senior.
The boy who has been with each other for five months is the little brother Qianqian met during class in the gym. At that time, Qianqian had some physical problems. She suddenly wanted to exercise, but the body did not change much. Instead, she got to know the fitness boy. Brother, this guy has an outgoing personality and happens to be able to play together with Qianqian. When they meet, they have all kinds of crazy fun. When they are not around, they have constant information, which means they are passionate about love. But the little brother has never confessed to Qianqian. Qianqian thinks that they have already acquiesced that each other is a lover relationship, holding hands to hug and kiss, and they have gathered everything that lovers will do. However, after five months of contact between the two, the younger brother suddenly posted a group photo in the circle of friends. Of course it was an intimate photo of him and another sister. Qianqian was stupid. She immediately called and scolded the scumbag, but the other He denies the relationship between the two sides and bluntly said that Qianqian is just a friend's mentality. Qianqian has always misunderstood it.
This time, Qianqian met this mature brother during the trip. It is said that he has a bohemian and free heart. This date is the second time the two have met, and Qianqian feels good once. As her best friend, I can only accompany her silently, reminding Qianqian at the appropriate time not to invest too fast, and learn to protect herself.
We are all too short of love, so that sometimes we know that it is a flame, and we will fly over it desperately. After the heartache, when the wound is healed, next time we will have courage and do our best. Is this stupid? I don’t think so, or, this is the proof of life, the meaning of love.
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