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I saw a man complaining on the Internet: "Wife often eats up a fish's belly, how should I remind him?"
then wrote a large paragraph describing how his wife is selfish, together with her husband and mother-in-law After eating, I even ate the most tender belly of a fish.
"She just stared at the fish belly to eat, not the fish back and tail."
Just look at these few sentences, you are probably like me, thinking it is a very big fish, or some very expensive fish.
As a result, after being asked by netizens, the man mentioned that it was a Wuchang fish.
10 yuan can buy a whole, whether it is expensive or not, everyone must have their own standards.
But this kind of fish is not big, and the whole family only eats one. As you can imagine, it is not enough. A fish like
only has a few mouthfuls in the so-called fish belly.
The man thinks his wife eats it too much. If
is not eaten by one person, with such a bit of fish belly, wouldn't it be right for a few people to be modest and share it?
Or, in his opinion, with so many people in the family, it is impossible for his wife to eat fish belly.
After reading this post, I couldn't help but sigh: It's just a fish, and there are people who are staring at you and analyzing which part you eat, not much.
It is too suffocating to live with such a person!
In this case, I would rather live alone, and buy some Wuchang fish if I like to eat, deep-fried or braised.
I can eat several slices by myself. There is also a male netizen at
who can’t stand it, saying: “What my wife likes to eat, we buy what she likes to make and put it in front of her on weekends. The whole family has to take care of and accommodate each other. I really haven't posted it."
"This is not the old society. Does my daughter-in-law have to look at her face and eat dishes that mother-in-law doesn't like?" .
The poorer the person, the more particular they may not be, but the more particular they are, the poorer they will be.
One of my classmates got married a few years ago.
It is said that her husband's family conditions are not very good, and the whole family opposed it at the time, but she must marry.
originally thought that she was ready to live a life of eating bran, and as long as she was with her beloved, she would be able to drink enough water.
Not long after, the classmate became pregnant. At almost the same time, her father-in-law was diagnosed with cancer. Not only was it more financially stretched, but the mother-in-law basically ignored her in order to take care of her father-in-law. As for the parents of classmate
, although they were angry with their daughter because of the marriage, they must still feel distressed. Then
proposed to take her back to her natal home to recuperate after her daughter has given birth to at least have a better confinement.
Unexpectedly, the classmate's husband was furious.
believes that the parents-in-law's family is deliberately humiliating. He threatened to watch his wife and children starve to death rather than let her go to her natal confinement.
In this way, after finishing the child with the students, he lived a life of no one to take care of and lack of meals. The husband of
often quarreled with her because of being upset with her parents.
She was so angry that the child was crying.
And the man who was too small finally used his wife and children's lives to protect his poor self-esteem. The
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man who is too small is actually quite poor.
They have a strong temper, and they are right with life, but they can never imagine what a better life is like.
Another classmate of mine is a teacher in elementary school.
There is a child from a single-parent family in their class, who is often dressed in sloppy clothes, and naturally there is no tutoring in their studies. Classmate
feels very sorry for this child and can only pay attention to it.
One time later, the kid lost the Chinese textbook somehow.
She sent WeChat to the child's father, asking him to buy Chinese textbooks for the child as soon as possible.
As a result, the child's father replied confidently: "I don't know what book he is studying." The
classmate was really angry.
Because she can see the children’s dad’s circle of friends, it’s not the kind that she spends all year round. It’s just doing 300 for a month in a nearby factory.A small worker of 0 yuan.
Don't say that the child is a single parent, even if there is a mother by his side, a father can't even know what textbook the child uses!
She couldn't help her temper, and made an exception: "What do you know?"
The other party triumphantly told her: "Just know how to make money."
At that moment, she wanted to ask: How much did you make? money? Are you earning enough money to let your children live a lifetime without learning and skill?
At the same time, he also deeply understood the determination of the mother of the child.
A man who earns three thousand a month thinks that he has fulfilled his obligations and can ignore his children and enjoy the gratitude of the whole family. What good life can a man like
give his family?
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Some people say that the money a person earns in this life is his cognitive level.
No one can make money beyond his cognitive level.
and a small man, from the very beginning, is destined to be impoverished. Because their vision is too small.
I have seen very poor, but ambitious, open-minded men.
In the end, they all broke through their own class by hard work and introspection, and led a better life.
I have also seen men with average family background, but very small.
They usually have three characteristics:
is first, long-winded, and they have limited knowledge, but they like to give pointers.
usually likes to preach. When encountering gatherings, he is very particular about the honor and inferiority of the host and the guest. You can talk a lot about the seat of a banquet.
Second, stubborn, not listening.
always thinks that he is better than others and never listens to others' opinions.
insists on going its own way, loves to hit the south wall.
third, easy to be fooled, is the favorite target of scammers. Although people like
don't listen to persuasion, they like to listen to flattery. In particular, he believes that he is the chosen one, and is eager to try anything that is risky. After all,
knows too little and thinks too much.
exhausted my life, living in my own small world, narcissistic and self-appreciating. If
meets such a man, forget it.
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