Marriage is very important to everyone. If you can find a suitable partner, the days will become more prosperous. On the other hand, if you find the wrong person for your marriage, it will be harder to get through the best days. There is a rural proverb called: "Three men do not marry, and three women do not marry" . Let's take a look at which three are there?
There are three men who do not marry
as the saying goes: "A fairy wife at home is better than a fertile land." Marrying a good woman not only allows a man to have no worries, but also plays a role in connecting the past and the next, and has a great impact on the younger generation. If you marry the wrong wife, the family will get worse. That's why there is the saying that "men have five people who can't marry". Let's take a look at which five kinds of women can't marry?
First: Unfilial women can’t marry women before
. They pay attention to "three observances and four virtues." The so-called "three observances" means "unmarried from the father, married to husband, and husband died from son", that is to say, if a woman marries someone After that, it is the husband's family, even if the husband is gone, he still has to follow his son, and it has nothing to do with the natal family. Therefore, the filial piety mentioned here refers to filial piety to "parents-in-law and mother-in-law." In ancient times, if you were not filial, you would go to jail.
Second: a restless woman can’t marry
. This sentence means that a woman who is disorderly can’t marry. She often has affair with other men. Every time her husband goes home, he is pointed out by neighbors, and his head is always green. Light, marrying such a woman home is not only a humiliation for a man, but if it is serious, it may even lose his life. For example, Wu Dalang is a good example.
Third: Unreasonable women can't marry
People often say "home and everything are happy". If the wife is arrogant and unreasonable all day long, the couple quarrels at home all day, this kind of life will definitely not last long. It can be imagined that a man is very hard outside all day, and he will definitely be exhausted physically and mentally when he comes home and faces his wife's harassment.
So what kind of woman is a good woman? The four virtues of the "three obediences and four virtues" that the ancients said are the standards of good women, that is, women's virtues, women's words, women's appearance, and women's skills. It means to have good moral character, to be gentle and considerate, to have a good appearance, and finally to be able to be a female worker, that is, to clean up housework and make clothes. Of course, such women are rare now.
There are three women who do not marry
As the saying goes: "Men are afraid of going into the wrong line, women are afraid of marrying the wrong man." For a woman, getting married is like a second reincarnation. If you can marry a good husband, you will be happier in the future. But if you marry the wrong person, your life after marriage will be like years. So which three kinds of men cannot marry?
First: Men with bad habits cannot marry
. For example, men who are obsessed with gambling all day long, even if they have a wealth of wealth, they will eventually lose all of them. Some men are even addicted to drugs. This kind of man is more than gambling. Bad, so men with bad habits cannot marry.
Second: Men with violent tendencies cannot marry
. I believe everyone has heard the term "male chauvinism". Of course, this is not to say how bad it is. However, if male chauvinism is coupled with selfishness, it is different. In severe cases, it will turn into domestic violence, and this kind of marriage is very harmful to women. Some men go home to punch and kick their wives after drinking a little bit of alcohol. Although they will apologize or kneel for forgiveness after the beating, this kind of domestic violence will happen for the first time, there will be a second and third time. You don't even know which day you will be beaten, so this kind of man cannot marry, it is better to divorce early.
Third: Unresponsible men can’t marry
. Perhaps many people think this is irrelevant. In fact, this is the most important thing. Such people generally have no fear. For example, they dare to borrow any money and eventually owe a huge loan shark. Choose suicide. I don't care about the feelings of the family at all, and I don't think about it for others. I always think about the big deal. Who dares to marry this kind of person? Worried all day, maybe every minute will make you a widow.
Therefore, "Men have three not to marry, women have three not to marry." The sentence has some truth now. Of course, the current marriage is different from before. If you don't go well, you will choose to divorce, but you have to know some Divorce is not easy, so we are preparing to settleBe cautious before getting married.
