This is the first type:
"Good morning"
"Good night, miss you"
"It's cold, remember to wear more"
"Remember to eat"
"I went again today. We met for the first time Place"
Everyone must remember one thing: Breaking up, for whatever reason, I just don’t want to be with you anymore. Breaking up means that you don’t want to have emotional interaction with you anymore. This kind of meaningless daily greeting is what you need, but the other party does not need it, and it cannot be used as a reason to move the other party. Sending messages frequently will only make people disgusted.
The second type:
"Let’s meet, if I can’t see you today, I’ll go to gui"
"You don’t love me anymore, I won’t live anymore"
" If you don’t come to me, you may live forever I can’t see me anymore.”
emphasizes again, after breaking up, I just don’t want to be with you anymore. Not to mention, what is the relationship between you and the other person when you hurt yourself, extreme behavior will expose you, mentally immature, emotionally unstable ; Now that everyone in society is so busy, who wants to take care of a child who is not his own? This method of salvation is actually the most unwise, and it is also the most emotionally harmful way to two people. For example, personal threats, either threaten the other person to harm him if he doesn’t get back together, or threaten the other person to hurt him if he doesn’t get back together, or even go to the other person’s home. The company intercepted downstairs. This very irrational way of
is often done in extreme emotional states. Once done, it will only make the other person feel that you are indeed an extremely terrifying person, and he will only be thankful that breaking up with you is too much. The right choice.
The following is the third type:
"We have been together for so long, don't you miss it at all?"
"I love you so much, why did you leave me?"
"I have paid so much for you, but also lost After so many, are you so unfeeling?"
Everyone has broken up, and they have to use morality to kidnap each other. I don’t want to reunite. Feelings are a matter for two people. After you have paid, the other party must have done so. It doesn't make any sense to discuss who has paid more and who has less after the breakup. It will only make you look immature.
Unilateral moral kidnapping and double standards are the most disgusting behavior for most people. He will feel that after you say these things, the feelings he has paid for you are wasted, and the sense of distance between the two people will also be reduced. The child increases. It's really young people who don't speak martial ethics.
The three examples above are negative textbooks, so what should I do to save them? What needs to be done is to make him willing to be with you again.
Breaking up is not difficult to save. Breaking up is not only a result, but also an advantage, because you are familiar with each other, you know what attracts each other, what makes you come together, and you are also familiar with each other's joys, sorrows, joys, and what you like. What do you hate, what does Sun Tzu's Art of War say: knowing oneself and one another can survive all battles.
However, the problem is here: the NPC probability will not be changed. Many people want to recover because they are sad. As a result, it may be that everyone experienced the last time to torture each other and finally separated more painfully. Recovery is not accomplished by one technique or two routines, but a step-by-step approach. It is the integration of thinking and action, and a test of patience and perseverance. If you are determined to recover, you need to settle down first, and you must remove him first. "Emotions build walls". How to crack
should be based on the personality of the other person and the feelings of two people. If you have such confusion, you can seek professional psychological counseling help.
