believes that many brothers have had the tragic experience of being rejected by girls. When you muster up the courage to express your thoughts with the girls for a long time, the result is rejection. This taste is really uncomfortable. So what should I do if chasing girls are rejected Next, Sister Ying will give the brothers a few tips.
1. Show your own charm and let girls know you
A boy, if you don't show enough charm, let the girls know you and trust you, you will confess and pursue rashly, which will only make girls instinctively refuse. Your motive is too strong, it will give girls a sense of oppression, girls will be frightened by your urgent need for her, and thus begin to avoid you. In the girls' consciousness, nothing happened between me and you, and you just said that you like me, which will make girls feel insecure.
2. Accepting the result of rejection by the girl
Many brothers’ misunderstandings came, accepting the result of rejection by the girl, then I would admit that she didn’t like me in disguise, then I would have no chance, I can’t accept it. On the contrary, boys who can accept rejection of girls often do not take girls' rejection seriously. This is the starting point of the correct mentality.
If you always think that a girl rejects you, then she is really rejecting you. If you don't think that the girl is rejecting you, then your mentality will be very relaxed. You can continue to keep in touch with this girl and keep friends with her. Then slowly, maybe this girl will like you.
3. Enhance your own charm and learn to attract girls
When faced with the rejection of girls, you have to understand that pursuing a girl depends on attracting rather than relying on sticking, and relying on providing value instead of asking for value. Pursuing a girl, first enhance your own charm, learn how to attract girls, instead of flattering and sticking to girls, spend time and energy to improve yourself. If you come here with butterflies in full bloom, this is the truth!
4. Respect the wishes of girls
Girls have the right and freedom to choose. When facing your confession, sometimes girls refuse, but they just want to continue to observe you. At this time, regardless of whether you understand it or not, you should also respect the girls. Willing; girls will give you a chance to continue to understand. When girls are willing to continue to get along with you, you must also learn to keep creating more opportunities to get along with you, so that girls will likely like you.
