Why do people regard roses as a representative of love? The answer is simple, because roses, like love, look beautiful and gorgeous on the surface, but inadvertently, you will be stabbed.
Beauty is only one side of love, and there are many people whose love is hurtful. If everyone treats blindly, what everyone feels in love will never be happiness. Before
approached love, every woman reminded herself that she must be cautious and don't be blind. But after getting close to love, the woman loses her senses, and she threw herself into love like a moth, wishing to give her all for love.
The stupidity of women gives men a chance to hurt you. Women can only prevent the coming of harm if they are sober and rational.
Love is not a person’s business. No matter how deep a woman loves, it is useless. You need a man to return the same love in order to be truly happy. If the man a woman falls in love with doesn't love you so much, all you get in your relationship is disappointment and hurt.
If a man loves you or not, you will know if he doesn't take the initiative to you. If a man never takes the initiative to you, then you don't have any need to stick to it.
Whenever I put forward this point of view, my friend Ai Rui will refute me. In her opinion, as long as two people are together, it doesn't matter who takes the initiative.
Ai Rui is a very active girl, she will take the initiative to attack whoever she likes. Her current boyfriend is the one who took the initiative to chase her. As far as I know, they have been dating for almost a year, and the other party has never taken the initiative to her. Every time
contacts her, Ai Rui takes the initiative. As long as Ai Rui does not take the initiative, her boyfriend may not contact her for several days. I asked Ai Rui, is this love? She deceived herself and said that maybe her boyfriend was too busy.
During the year they were together, there was Valentine's Day and Ai Rui's birthday, but her boyfriend had never offered her a gift, even if Ai Rui clearly stated that she wanted a pair of high heels as a birthday gift, her boyfriend did not say anything.
I don't know why Ai Rui decides that this is love, but she is so firm. Not long ago, Ai Rui encountered some trouble, even ordinary friends reached out to help, but her boyfriend, like an outsider, had never taken the initiative to help her.
friends are reminding Ai Rui not to sink too deep, but she is so stupid that she has lost herself, so stupid that she is willing to give everything to such a man who doesn't care about her.
Sadly, Ai Rui is not alone. In the world of emotions, there are too many women like her, and she stupidly delivers everything before she sees the love of a man. For these women, I just want to say, don't be silly, men who don't take the initiative to you don't love you so much.
does not take the initiative to contact you
Even if you are just ordinary friends, you still need to use contact to maintain your relationship, let alone between lovers. For lovers, contact is the best way to cultivate feelings. It is impossible for people who truly love each other not to contact.
If in a relationship, you are always in active contact, and a man is always in a passive position, and rarely in turn actively contact you, then he does not love you as much as you think.
The man who really loves you, no matter how busy he is, he will take the time to contact you proactively. For a man who truly loves you, one day is like three autumns, and he can't stand it without contacting you for a moment.
Fall in love with a man who doesn't take the initiative to contact you. Why are you clinging? Get out of the sea of hardship earlier so that you can meet the man who is willing to contact you earlier.
does not take the initiative to give you gifts.
Gifts are a way of connecting between people. Many men cannot express love directly in words, and they will choose gifts to convey their affection.
For couples, giving gifts is a very common thing, and they are also common things to do with each other. If a man neither says he loves you, nor does he take the initiative to give you a gift, he will probably just play with you.
usually doesn't give it away. On some special days, if a man doesn't say anything, then he is really not worth your effort.
doesn't take the initiative to help you
If a man has a responsibility and gives you his true feelings, no matter what trouble you have, and you don't need to ask for help, he will come forward to help you as soon as possible.
But if a man is as indifferent as a stranger when you encounter difficulties, then heI'm not so sincere to you. If you give love to such a man, all you can do is hurt.
The man who loves you has already considered your business as his business, so even if you don't ask him for help, he will take his responsibility when he knows you are in trouble, help you, and take care of you.
The man who takes the initiative to help you is the best reliance in this life. When encountering such a man, a woman does not have to be stingy with her love. But if you meet a man who doesn't take the initiative to help you, a woman had better let go.
Xiaojing’s emotional message:
The most obvious manifestation of love is to take the initiative. Driven by love, it is difficult for a man to be inactive. Only a man who does not love you will passively accept your contribution.
Don’t think that a man is with you because he loves you. Some men just love your goodness and don’t plan to go with you for a long time.
When getting along with men, women’s best to keep their eyes open to see clearly, don’t mistake the affection for a man who doesn’t love you at all, don’t be foolish to stick to an unresponsive relationship.
Women are too easy to be stupid in their relationships. When a woman is stupid, hurt will come continuously. So Xiao Jing wants to remind women, don't be stupid, men who don't take the initiative to you, don't love you so much, don't fall into it anymore.
