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"Monthly salary is eight thousand, every day, tea and Starbucks, how dare girls?"
believes similar questions linger in many people's minds, especially men who generally lack interest in beverages , They can't understand at all, why girls are willing to buy a cup of underwater belly for twenty or thirty yuan.
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recently saw such a complaint: "Girls in first-tier cities with a monthly salary of 10,000, dare to enjoy tea often." In his description,
met a girl who paid 10,000 a month in Shenzhen. She was either Starbucks or Hey Tea every day. It takes more than 3,500 to rent a house, and I run around on weekends. In short, "I guess it didn't cost less."
read his complaints, and Xiao E has to come back to the ultimate question of "what is the name of Grandpa Xiaoming?" Up.
It is true that Hey Tea Starbucks or a drink at the same price can be easily 30 or 40, which is essentially a glass of water, but according to this logic, there is too much waste than this:
smokes, lights the roots, and smokes. To get a little air;
runs a gym card for a few thousand years, and goes twice a year;
buys a kindle, who is not reduced to instant noodles...
Since everyone is "prodigal", why bother to blame others Buy water for twenty or thirty yuan? What makes
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even more unpleasant is the contrast between the lines in this netizen.
in his mind, the standard configuration should be like his cousin, living in the suburbs of Shenzhen with a monthly income of 20,000, carefully calculating every expenditure.
Girls are generally generous in salary, and boys are high-paid but diligent and thrifty. This reflects a common prejudice:
girls bear less, and often look forward to finding a well-paid apartment with an expensive gift; the man is Xiangzi Camel. Earn money, house, and car. Finally, I was crushed by the lottery.
People with this prejudice may wish to open their eyes and look around: Take yourself as an example, Xiao E likes to wear these messy things with makeup, but among the boys I know, there are also many people who play sneakers, video games, and gold skins. what.
does not have to be preconceived and malicious because the other party is a female.
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A netizen’s comment is very incisive: “Legal income, you can eat tea as a meal.”
, as a star who has failed to quit milk tea 10,000 times, Xiao E also thinks that Hey Cha Naixue Starbucks is very expensive, a small cup A meal is laundered, but I feel tired at work, meet difficult customers, and other unsatisfactory conditions. There is no comforting drink.
The current situation is that there is no money, and it will not help to save 20 or 30 yuan. Even so, it is the best value to solve the immediate worries. The problem of
is just like the recent broadcast of "Thirty Only". Many people complained about Wang Manni's monthly salary of 1w5, but spent 8,000 renting in Suzhou Creek, buying luxury shoes, and using credit card upgrades on cruise ships. The implication of
is that she lives a super standard life.
also often has experience telling us that rent should not exceed 1/3 of income, and how much disposable income needs to account for deposits... These come from life practice and do have some truth, but they cannot universally cover all problems.
values are very personal factors, and there is a strong subjectivity. People who are not rich in material don't necessarily avoid occasional enjoyment; those who are rich don't have to take dignity in their hearts.
When you want to prove whether a person’s attitude towards life is correct or not, you have fallen into a misunderstanding of thinking. There is nothing wrong with
because of what kind of lifestyle.
