should properly "avoid suspicion". These jokes can't be used
when it comes to the relationship between men and women, most people think of love. In fact, some of the opposite sexes have a very good relationship, but it is only limited to friendship. Their relationship is like the light and shadow reflected on the street corner, with a little warmth in the dimness. The most important thing in this relationship is love rather than deep love, memory rather than recollection, and a guardianship between friends. Of course, because it is of the opposite sex, no matter how good the relationship is, you must avoid suspicion appropriately, such as don't make this kind of joke.
1. Make a joke in front of each other's partner
. Compared with the other sex, friendships between opposite sexes are more fragile than same-sex friendships, because the relationship becomes ambiguous or alienated, and good opposite sex friendships are basically One thing that has been achieved is respect. Respect each other and respect each other's family.
So don’t be in front of the other person and point to the other person’s family or partner. Even if it is a joke, it will cause discomfort to the other party. A good friendship of the opposite sex should be one talking and the other listening. It should probably stop there. Further development will easily deviate or fall apart.
2. Joking confession
This kind of thing often happens to the man, some boys feel that they are less restrained after being familiar, or want to test the woman’s mind, so they will jokingly confess, but this The confession is neither formal, but also has some teasing thoughts for the woman, so the basic result will be that the woman is ashamed and angry.
And this behavior will not leave a good impression on the woman. No matter how good your relationship is, there will be a little embarrassment when you meet again, and even make the other person feel that this man is a bit frivolous, so don’t make such a joke. .
3. Jokingly talk about the friendship between the opposite sex and the friendship between the same sex is still a bit different, for example, sometimes between the same sex, sometimes talk about the friendship between the same sex, especially between boys will feel that there is nothing, but in the opposite sex It will amplify the awkward atmosphere infinitely, even after speaking out, it will be cold.
In addition, some people are more shy, if others say something impolite to him, they will feel offended. What's more, this kind of vulgar jokes can make people feel that they are not respected, and even have the idea of breaking up.
The small flames of heterosexual friendship are easy to be extinguished, because sometimes men and women are different when considering them. Boys’ personalities are more straightforward, and even their smiles are not the same as girls. Therefore, friendship between opposite sexes must be paid attention to. Properly. The editor feels that since it is friendship, there is a sense and bottom line in itself. And boys should pay more attention not to do things that make people feel unreliable, which will damage the image and make people's impression of you.