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If you look closely, most of the vulnerable people in life are often kind people. Isn’t the
old saying that “good is rewarded”?
Why is always kind-hearted people who are unkind? The answer to
is: kind people never ask for something, they just give foolishly. In the
TV series "The Son-in-Law", the four generations of Ma, played by Zhang Fengyi, is a typical example of being kind and unrequited in love.
The four generations of Ma in the 1970s had both parents dead and poor family. They accidentally fell in love with the "cunhua" Gao Zhizhi. In order to become the door-to-door son-in-law of the "cunhua" family, the four generations worked hard and squatted at the door every day. Lifeless and white, picking and choosing to do the hardest and most tiring job...
It was not until Gao Zhizhi was abandoned by Chen Bin who was a worker that Ma Sidai was able to break into Gao Zhizhi's world.
After that, the four generations of Ma, even more spoiled Gao Zhizhi.
• With a word of Gao Zhizhi, he dragged Chen Bin, who had abandoned Gao Zhizhi, into the Yellow River and drowned half to death;
• In order for Gao Zhizhi to drink a bowl of beef soup, he risked going to jail and took the production team’s work. Niu pushed down the cliff;
• To save Gao Zhizhi and Chen Bin's children, he dug up his family's ancestral grave.
...
In spite of this, in Gao Zhizhi's heart, she has never seen Ma Sidai directly. All she wants is to live in the city and get rid of the hardships and sufferings of the countryside, and there is no day in the dark.
Therefore, even though they have been married for 10 years, when the beekeeper suddenly appeared, it was Gao Zhizhi's scorching desire to live "in the city" again.
In fact, normally speaking, Gao Zhizhi's pursuit is not wrong, because "people go to higher places, water flows to lower places", everyone has the right to pursue a better life.
But while Gao Zhizhi was pursuing a "good" life, in addition to hurting the four generations, he also abandoned two young children. The mother who was not in good health was also paralyzed in bed because of sadness...Z3z
Some netizens commented that it is difficult for ordinary women to make such a determination when they have children. Moreover, Gao Zhizhi is an only child, so she left. Where does the elderly mother go...
Yes, I have to say that Gao Zhizhi is a very cruel person. For his own pursuit, everything else can be set aside. In sharp contrast between
and Gao Zhizhi's selfishness, as the fourth generation of son-in-law, his kindness moved everyone.
After Gao Zhizhi left, despite the grief of the four generations, he still showed the demeanor of a big man and assumed the responsibility of taking care of his mother-in-law and children. Z3z
's mother Zhizhi in a wheelchair said to the fourth generation: Look, I always drag you down...
the fourth generation replied: taking care of a mother is what the son should do.
Therefore, the next four generations will be both sons and daughters in front of the mother-in-law, and in front of the daughters, both the father and the mother, it can be said that they have suffered... , But can't get your heart. Although the four generations of
got Gao Zhizhi's person, he never got Gao Zhizhi's heart.
Is kindness wrong?
Kindness is right, but the heart is wrong.
In fact, it is normal for the four generations to like Gao Zhizhi's beauty. If Gao Zhizhi is the kind of person who can live a solid life after accepting it, it is understandable. Unfortunately, Gao Zhizhi has never been such a person.
In the words of Chen Bin in the play, that is:
heart is higher than the sky, life is thinner than paper.
Therefore, as long as there is still a little hope, she will desperately rush out to find the distance she wants.
Are people like the four generations unworthy to pursue love? Of course not, because everyone has the right to pursue love, but for the four kind-hearted generations, the most unchosen is someone who is too cruel. There is a saying in
: The destiny of
is unfair. Don't think about things that don't belong to you.
Therefore, in the face of love, when you need to take your life to warm a person's heart, most of this love does not belong to you.
And if you must be obsessed with what you must get, you can only prepare for "artificial swords, I am fish."
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