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Good night song: promise, promised waxy "met the right people,"
saying goes:. "Men fear the wrong, women are afraid to marry the wrong husband" to meet a
A man who truly understands you and loves you, not only satisfies you materially, but also resonates with you spiritually, not only does everything for your sake, but also a man who gives you enough sense of security is probably the greatest love for every woman in her life desire.
With such a person, you can feel extremely secure and at ease all the time.
is just a good man that can be met, and only a man with the following points is the kind woman a woman is looking for in this life.
01
"rich" man
famous actor Han Xue once shared her criteria for choosing a spouse. She said:
"I like men who have seen the world, because only by reading life and seeing the world, you will cherish what you have. Something."
Yes, a man who makes a woman's heart moved must be a "rich" man.
His "richness" is not only reflected in the material level, but more in the spiritual level. He not only has abundant material conditions, but also has an abundant inner world. A man like
does not necessarily have a glamorous appearance, but he must have a rich and substantial inside.
Materially, he will do his best to satisfy you. What you want, he will try his best to deliver it to you, instead of blaming you for real money worship because he can't afford it.
Emotionally, he has experienced the worldly scenery and tasted all the flavors of life, but he still loves you. Three thousand weak water, only take you a scoop. A man like
is unassuming, has a good character, has a strong heart, and is rich in spirit. The rest of his life will be enough to shelter you from wind and rain and give you a stable and happy life.
02
Mature man
The so-called maturity of a man not only refers to his steadiness and steadfastness in life, but also refers to his understanding of how to love someone better in his relationship.
A mature man, he has a stable and normal mood, and he will know how to respect, consider and understand you.
understands your hobbies, does not deprive you of the right to pursue your dreams, and does not deny your personality charm.
respects you and he has different views on the same thing, and is good at discovering the shining points in you.
It is not easy to understand you, and will not suppress you and educate you with a male chauvinistic concept.
is like Zhang Ruoyun did to Tang Yixin.
In a memo to Tang Yixin, Zhang Ruoyun wrote:
"Men should not be emotional. Protect her, trust her, support instead of dominating her. Be her land, don't be her heaven." The true love of
is not. Possession and control, but tolerance and fulfillment.
At the same time, mature men also know how to give their beloved women a sense of security. Respond to you everything, everything has been done. Under his favor,
gives you a blatant preference and makes you a unique exception.
03
Empathic men
empathy means being able to stand on the other side’s point of view, experience the situation of others, and have the ability to perceive and understand the emotions of others.
Empathy is especially important in relationships.
A man who has empathy, he can put himself in your place and think about you. He won't force you for things you don't like. What you like, he will spare no effort to support you.
Your emotions and feelings, no matter sorrow or joy, he can empathize.
You stop talking, he can appreciate it. He can also appreciate and understand what you say is insincere.
He knows your cold and warm, but also understands your joys and sorrows.
For every passion you give to him, he will give you an equally heavy response.
On the road to love, if you take fifty steps, he will also take fifty steps. He won't let you take ninety-nine steps alone without moving.
A man who truly loves you and has empathy is never willing to let his beloved woman be wronged because of him.
He will let you get along without getting tired, staying for a long time, and living a pleasant and interesting life.
A good man is the pursuit of every woman in her life. A correct choice is equivalent to choosing a luckyFu's second half of his life.
hope that every woman who rushes for love can find the right person, and find the beloved as she wishes, and live together for the rest of her life.
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