compares feelings to a fruit on a tree, then the relationship between two people is a process in which the fruit gradually matures.
women are based on perceptual thinking. The love in their eyes is more inclined to romantic romance. Few people will consider it from a practical perspective.
They believe that love should be pure and sincere in its original form. If it is built on a material basis, then this love will lose its original innocence.
People will hope that they will always live in a utopian unrealistic fantasy, and will choose to avoid the pain of reality, thinking that numbing their nerves can avoid the cruelty of reality.
However, there is no love in the world that exists without material. Love without material is like a disc of loose sand. It does not need to be blown by the wind, and it will be scattered after a few steps.
Therefore, love must be inseparable from material things. If one day, a woman starts to care about the gains and losses between her and a man, it means that the woman has become mature in the true sense.
In the relationship between the sexes, only naive women will pay at all costs
01), Wang Manni in "Thirty Rising" works in a luxury store, and their service group is positioned at the upper-class people who often go out to high-end places. , On this day, they welcomed a special guest-
, a woman whose makeup is not exquisite at all, and her hair does not seem to be well taken care of. She was pierced by the hostess with a low ponytail and stuck to her scalp softly. ；Z2z
wears a white-washed sportswear, and I don’t know how long the shoes have been worn;
has a cloth bag on his arm that is similar to grocery shopping, it doesn’t look like a consumer People who can afford luxury goods, so many employees in the store are busy greeting other guests, and only Wang Manni received her.
During the interrogation process, Wang Manni learned that the woman in front of her actually had extraordinary spending power, but the money was the divorce property given to her by her ex-husband.
02), she said that she has been with him for so many years, from scratch, reluctant to eat, reluctant to wear, and wholeheartedly want to make life better and better, but behind the cost, it is the other party outside and others A woman spends time and drinks.
When he showed up in front of him with that coquettishly dressed woman, looking at her disgraced face, she seemed to understand why her husband would choose her, because she was beautiful and beautiful, so she paid no cost. What was exchanged behind was a haggard face. In exchange, I would choose something more pleasing.
So, this time she chose to let herself be extravagant and live for herself.
People can’t look directly at their hearts, because you don’t know how greedy a polite face can be. They will take your good deeds as a matter of course, and then use your feelings to trample on your feelings .
You pay regardless of the cost, and others will naturally ask for it unscrupulously. Therefore, in love, only naive women will not care about gains and losses.
Mature women are more pros and cons, because they know what they really want. There is a scene like this in the
variety show "Dear Inn"-when
guest Li Fei'er came as a guest, the whole inn was only Kan Qingzi I was cleaning, and asked the reason why it was because her boyfriend hadn't got up yet, so I did it first. After
said, Li Feier immediately asked Kan Qingzi to stop her movements, saying that she must wait until her boyfriend woke up and let him clean it himself.
is not because I don't want Kan Qingzi to do this thing, but because I have to make plans for certain things in my relationship, whoever should do it must be done, and we must not do it all.
Because human nature is selfish and insatiable, blindly indulging will only allow evil to grow wantonly, and people will be able to make progress, so in order to avoid future fatigue, you need to plan from the beginning.
Mature women hope that their partner is a soul mate who can keep abreast of themselves and share responsibilities, not just people who know hiding in a safe haven. Everyone is greedy for comfort, but if they want to avoid the wind, then they won’t. When someone goes to become a port, the love will become very fragile at this time, and it will fall apart at the touch of it.
Therefore, mature women account for more gains and losses in relationships between the sexes, because they know what they really want from the beginning.
Women have to live a little selfishly, no matter who they are with
Love is a waltz of two people, it only makes sense for two people to dance together. If you are always paying by one person, then after a long time, what you pay One side will feel tired. The party who was paid for
will feel that this is a matter of course, the gap will start to widen, and the relationship will naturally not develop for long.
Furthermore, whoever is tempted first loses. This sentence is more to show that the party who pays more is likely to be in a passive place, and then let the emotions decide.
The world is a mirror, and your attitude toward yourself is the attitude the world treats you.
Therefore, a woman must learn to love herself first and then love others. Only by living a little selfishly can they be respected and equal love.
