However, in today’s era of dazzling appearances and well-designed layouts, who can say that you really know the person who slept with you, and who can guarantee that behind a sticker is sweet The other end of the voice is not a woman like "Qiao Bi Luo". Z1z
flash marriages are not uncommon nowadays. After a certain age, most people are eager to start a family and form their own family. This is understandable. People use blind dates and social software to meet new friends and expand their social circle. , And then choose the right person as a partner. As long as both parties agree, then the marriage can be established.
The slow era of letters that Shen Congwen missed in the past has been forever gone. Nowadays, people's life is faster, coming and leaving fast. Most of the relationships are nothing but carefully weaving lies and within reach. The interests of the country are maintained.
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Mr. Liu is a master student returned from Malaysia, because he has been busy with his studies and work before, he has not found a suitable partner to spend the rest of his life in 1985. , This makes parents very anxious. So in April 19, he met Ms. Zhang in the same city through social software.
The two hit it off right away, and even felt that they were late when they met. Although Ms. Zhang was ten years younger than Mr. Liu, it did not become a hindrance to the two people being together. After only knowing for 18 days, Mr. Liu concealed his parents’ secrets and Zhang The lady received a marriage certificate.
Because Ms. Zhang is young, Mr. Liu always tolerates her, treating her willfulness as a kid's temper, and even in order to give her a sufficient sense of security, he unreservedly told her all his assets.
did not expect that after less than a few months of getting along, the newlywed wife took Mr. Liu’s parents’ 300,000 pension and her own 100,000 savings and ran away from home. Since then, there has been no news.
With the help of the police, Mr. Liu learned that his wife cheated on her age and background. After several months of marriage, he did not even know what his wife was like.
Later, Mr. Liu received a divorce lawsuit from the Beijing court. The complaint was full of slander and insults against Mr. Liu, saying that Mr. Liu cheated on the marriage. Under the leadership of Ms. Zhang, Mr. Liu was insulted by Weibo naming net for nearly half a year.
Mr. Liu, who is short of money and people, is suffering from a serious mental illness. After investigation, he also found that his wife has been living with other men for several months after running away from home! Today, he has nothing, and even was forced to lose the name of a poor household.
Blind marriage is tantamount to a trap, vainly trying to benefit oneself.
The image of Mr. Liu in the story seems to be a victim from beginning to end, but in fact it is not difficult to see that if he hadn't gotten along with him for only 18 days. Obtaining the certificate secretly, or even giving out all of your own asset information, will not end up in the field today.
Marriage is not love. Love can be short and passionate, but marriage is a lifelong event. It is not only the mutual choice of two people, but also the union and future of two families. Blind love can be said to seek stimulation, but blind marriage is not. Difference is a blatant trap.
In front of love, we are all too easy to relax our vigilance and walk into a well-designed net, and everyone is like a mire. Blind marriage, not happiness, but an abyss, Mr. Liu now has nothing, lost his job, and also joined his parents’ pension, making it impossible for the two elderly people to be protected in their old age.
There is nothing wrong with pursuing love, but the fault lies in selfishness. The fault lies in making decisions about lifelong events, which leads to bad results.
The author’s emotional perception:
If love is a heartbeat, then marriage is a state of mind. Marriage is more of a part of life, and life is nothing more than a simple meal. If you want a stable and stable life, don’t be greedy for small bargains, thinking that the sky will really fall into placePie, there may be real, but it is just a trap.
This is an era of advanced information. It is better to maintain a certain degree of vigilance between people, especially emotional relationships. It should be done step by step and slowly cultivate trust, and mutual knowledge is fair. Never pray for someone to enter your world, and don't try to exchange love for another person's love.
There are countless stories of flash marriages, young people’s hearts are always prone to impetuousness, but the most unseen thing about love is impetuous heart, and haste is not enough. There are too many things that cannot be forced to come, and cannot be anxious.
