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"I only wish to have one heart, and the white head is not separated". Happy marriages are often like this, but unfortunate marriages are different, and women deal with them in different ways.
Some women feel inferior to the dust because of the failure of their marriage; some women suffer from marriage, but they will live a lifetime, but I do not agree with this approach.
Sophie Marceau said: The saddest thing about a woman is not getting old, but being lost in marriage and in a calm life. Women can grow old, but they must be graceful and not lose their luster as a result of marriage.
In real life, most women are torn away without edges. When you ask her, are you happy? She often smiled bitterly without saying a word, or sighed and said nothing, only she knew the bitterness.
So, what should you do when your marriage is in crisis? Do you choose to divorce decisively or to forgive? In fact, it's up to you to do what you want, depending on what kind of method you can accept.
Actually, if her husband changes his mind, the best choice for a woman is not to divorce.
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Tong Liya's marriage
As everyone knows, Tong Liya suffered a marriage betrayal. In the first marriage, she was inferior, felt that the other party was already a famous leader, and she was still unknown, so she was the weaker party in the marriage.
Even with her tolerance and weakness, she seemed to be unable to stop Chen Sicheng's betrayal of herself, but after the betrayal was exposed, Tong Liya's marital status became a mystery.
No one knows how she chose, saying that she forgave her, but she didn't seem to have it, and she said she was divorced, it seems she didn't, but all she could see was her appearance on the big screens.
cut off her long hair, she seemed more powerful with short hair. She didn't seem to respond too much to the other party's betrayal. She just worked silently to let the public see her beauty and her potential.
She put all her thoughts on her career, filming TV, commercials, being a host, showing her charm in various fields, which made her famous. Z1z
has become more and more self-confident after so many trials. Not only has she won praise from the public, but also looking at her marriage, Chen Sicheng uncharacteristically moved closer to her.
In her marriage, there is no forgiveness or divorce. When a family of three walks together, the picture is still beautiful, but the only thing she does is to make herself strong.
must understand that it is better to rely on yourself than on others. Marriage is not necessary for women.
If yes, then accept it. If you encounter betrayal, then you might as well shift your focus. There is no need to focus on a variable person.
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Liang Jingru's new love affair exposed
Love song queen Liang Jingru, I believe everyone knows that her marriage and her attitude towards life are actually worthy of everyone to learn. After nine years of marriage, she also encountered marital betrayal.
Zhao Yuan is both a prodigal son and a wealthy family. There are countless scandals. In this marriage, there is romance between them, but the ending leaves Jingru Liang scarred. After her marriage ended, Liang Jingru shed tears when she sang songs on stage. She was in very bad condition. Everyone sympathized with her. One year later, she adjusted her state to the best and started a new relationship, which also made people feel a touch of comfort.
Most divorced women will say: I will not remarry, I will live by myself with my children. This is also very good. Life is harsh for women, but even more for divorced women. Harsh.
Therefore, a woman must understand the truth of starting anew, and don't let herself lose hope in love and hope in marriage. After a divorce, many women either move away from where they are or leave the city, and never touch their feelings afterwards.
Divorced women choose to remarry. Many of them ask the other party to treat their children well, and it seems that they don’t care whether they love or not. Such marriages are actually really sad.
is not as good as turning around, still looking forward to love, just like Liang Jingru, even if you have been hurt, you have to face life and love calmly, not only to love, but also to love bravely.
Of course, it’s not natural for a woman to have such a powerful energy, anyone who knows her knows, What has she experienced. All the experiences are the reason why she is so powerful.
Therefore, a woman must know how to temper her mind and make her heart stronger.
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Women, it is best to let yourself live as a big tree, support and rely on yourself, only in this way, no one can hurt you, only in this way, can make marriage an accessory to oneself, not a necessity.
Therefore, when encountering a man's infidelity, what a woman should do most is not to forgive or divorce, but to make herself stronger. When
encounters a marriage crisis, the only way not to panic is to have the "ace" in his hand and win no matter how he fights. Therefore, whether you choose to forgive or choose to divorce, you can decide by yourself.
Even if you forgive or divorce, you won’t bother yourself, because you are a strong person and have a fearless mentality for the future, then forgiveness or divorce is not so important.
Life is a long journey. No one can predict what kind of people and marriages you will meet in your life. Only by mastering yourself can you have a good ending no matter what life you encounter.
It can be seen that only by being a woman with a strong heart can you have enough confidence to face these twists and turns in marriage, control the initiative, and have the life you want.
So, how do we make ourselves stronger? I hope that as a woman, you can come and read the book Becoming a Woman with a Strong Heart.
It will help you better recognize yourself, recognize life, know what happiness is, know what life you want. As you become more purposeful, your heart will become stronger and less fragile.
At that time, if you deal with these twists and turns in your life, you will definitely have less troubles and more solutions to problems, so that you won't be so wronged.
