There is a saying on the Internet that "when you are strong, all people want to get in touch with you; when you are down, all people are eager to get rid of your relationship"! The sharp statement makes people have to be convinced.
The real society is always a "winner and loser". As an ordinary person, although there is no such compelling success or failure, in the circle of your life, you are still performing your "life drama" all the time. ". With the ups and downs of the development trajectory, you will also encounter confusion like "celebrities".
"Chunfeng proud horseshoe ailments" needless to say, but once you are down, you will be lighthearted. As the saying goes, "Heavens do not cross people, people cross themselves." At this time, you most need to see your own situation, knowing not only to be a low-key person, but also to do things low-key, otherwise it will attract ruthless ridicule from others.
First, less express your opinions in public.
As the saying goes, "If you are poor, you should not persuade others. " means that if a person has no money, it is best not to join a group. Your words and deeds will not be taken seriously by people. . The reason why a person is light-hearted is often closely related to his stretched economic situation.
At the moment, it is often "who has the money who has the confidence, who has the money who has the final say". Even if you are full of talent and good moral character, you may not be welcomed by others.
For example, a party in a public place, even if it is a dinner between seemingly ordinary colleagues, people who are quiet, pick up their wine glasses, respectfully toast everyone, and get only nonchalant responses.
And if you want to express your opinions on the issues that everyone is discussing, even if you analyze them in detail, you will not get a half-line of "response", or even talk and laugh and communicate with each other, but no one will care about you. You are just "talking to yourself", even if someone listens, you will be refuted and ridiculed for no reason, making yourself very embarrassed.
This kind of experience is enough to remember for a lifetime. The resentment of being "humiliated" can only be endured, as if I have been labeled "ridiculous". Such coldness and coldness also prompt us to know how to protect ourselves. That is, in the face of others, we must "do not ask for meddling, return early if there is nothing to do", "sweep the snow in front of one's door, and take care of others."
Don't become the object of ridicule and attack once again because of your own opinions, and become everyone's after-dinner talk.
Secondly, don't reveal your goals.
When people are light-hearted, it is also the time when we are struggling but trying to work hard and fight back.
Although I don’t have enough money, rich connections, available resources, etc., but I have a heart of struggle and passion, I need to find a breakthrough and get rid of my arms.
Perhaps, after groping, we finally found a development path that seems to be very promising. It just so happens that we also have hobbies or expertise in this area and we immediately devote ourselves to the preparation of this new business.
At this time, some good people are often staring at you not far away, waiting to see the excitement. They will pretend to be concerned and ask how you have been well recently, what new plans you have, and what help you need to provide yourself. But in fact, it's just to get your thoughts, so in the next chat, be more "joking".
At this time, don't think that all of you are well-meaning people, who will really help you, and show your goals, plans and arrangements. When you have to do this, you will find that there is ridicule again. If you succeed, you still have a powerful counterattack. The most feared is that you will be knocked down by these "messages" again. Before things have started, you will "die" and become a joke again.
Therefore, when people are quiet, be a silent struggler, work quietly, grow quietly, and when you have made a lot of money, you will have a new life..
Thirdly, borrowing wine to pour out sorrow and giving up.
When people are light-hearted, often no one can afford it, and no one wants to take care of it. It is a two-fold sky with the former scenery.
Once upon a time, it was almost impossible to meet friends. Maybe even your relatives rejected your "poor appearance" and gradually lost contact. The closest lover often "hates iron but not steel", and quarrels and fights often happen over time.
For this reason, weak-willed people begin to use alcohol to relieve their sorrows, or exile themselves, indulge in card and gambling, or find a sense of existence in the virtual world of the Internet, play games, and reward anchors. It collapsed, and the little money left was quickly squandered.
If the blows from the outside can also inspire our will to resist, then, if I have a feeling of despair from the bottom of my heart, it is really "self-destructing the Great Wall" and it is very difficult to "make a comeback".
In life, there is no ferryman, only "self-crossing" can reach the other shore.
When people are weak, take good care of their health and prepare for the "ready to go" behind.
When people are weak, learn skills, read more, ask for advice, and "turn over" for the latter. Accumulation of experience,
When people are light-hearted, they make good friends, and there are always like-minded people who are down and out. They encourage each other and achieve each other.
Don’t give up, don’t abandon, the harder you work, the happier you are, come on!
