Marriage can bring happiness to a woman, and it can also bring pain to a woman. Some women have gone through a lot of ups and downs in their marriage, and finally have to let go and choose divorce.
So, if your ex-husband's life is not good, would you feel bad? Let's listen to the truth of the following two women today.
1. Ms. Li
The reason for my divorce with my ex-husband is not due to the two of us. After I married my ex-husband 5 years ago, because I didn't buy a house, I always lived with my in-laws.
The room is three bedrooms and two halls, in-laws live in the master bedroom, and my husband and I live in the second bedroom. At that time, I was pregnant and did not go to work, so I usually like to sleep late, but my mother-in-law calls me to get up at 6 o'clock every morning. I got up and didn't sleep well. When I got up, my mother-in-law would be upset, so I had to endure the unpleasantness in my heart to get up and do housework.
In addition, I was keeping the ex-husband’s salary at the time, but my mother-in-law continued to persuade the ex-husband to return the salary card and put it in hers. The implication is that I was spending money arbitrarily, but in fact I didn't treat me like a family member.
Six months after giving birth, I went out to work, and my mother-in-law took the child, but she often took the child to play mahjong. There are many people who smoke in that place. She said many times not to go, but she just didn't listen, and she said that helping her daughter-in-law with the child is still a problem.
So I quit my job to take care of my children, but my mother-in-law told others that I was afraid of hard work and would not go to work.
Hey, it's really hard to explain in one word. Later, the conflict between my mother-in-law and I got deeper and deeper, and my ex-husband couldn't persuade me. In the end, I had to choose a divorce.
After the divorce, the child will be under the control of his ex-husband, so I hope his life will be better so that my child can live a good life.
2.王夫人
I really hate my ex-husband, if his life is not good, I think I dream Will laugh out loud.
My ex-husband and I have been married for 3 years. During these 3 years, I have been beaten and scolded too much. At first I met him on a blind date. At that time, he felt more upright and cheerful. After half a year, we got married.
Who knew that his integrity and cheerfulness became machismo after marriage, and sometimes he would beat me when I quarreled with him. When I was about to go back to my natal house in anger, he would kneel down and beg me for forgiveness. At that time, I was soft-hearted and had never experienced anything, so I forgave him again and again.
I was pregnant in the second year of marriage. It was 3 months at that time. One night I found out that he had ambiguous chat messages with other women on WeChat. I checked his mobile phone and turned out the room opening information. I remember that in those few days, he said he was on a business trip, but who would have thought that he and Xiao San opened a room in a hotel near my house!
I couldn't help punching him at the time. When my ex-husband woke up, he knew what was going on when he saw the phone on, so he put on his clothes and ran out.
I fainted and fell to the ground. I woke up probably at noon the next day. I fainted for more than ten hours and he did not come back to see me! After waking up, I felt a stomachache and hurriedly took a taxi to the hospital. After the doctor checked, I said that I had no fetal heart rate. I almost fainted in an instant.
After 3 years of marriage, what left me was unspeakable physical and mental pain. After the divorce, he had a bad life. Why should I feel sorry for him?