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Some people say that the process of growing up is painful. You need not only the ability to learn, but also patience and willpower, so that your heart will mature. People who are immature in their minds are often very fragile in their hearts. Once they encounter some small setbacks, they can't get through with themselves.
On this road of life, there is no easy word. Especially when you are an adult, you need to make a living, so responsibility and pressure will all accumulate on you, making you bear the weight and move forward. If you can't hold on, or you escaped, you can see that you are a deserter in life.
Psychological analysis, the fragile heart is more accustomed to using a negative attitude to face many problems in life, while a strong heart is accustomed to using a positive attitude to solve problems, naturally, whether it is from the mentality, There are still huge gaps in life.
According to actual observations in life, people with fragile hearts have obvious two characteristics. Do you have them?
One, I don’t know how to accept myself and I lack confidence in myself.
People must know how to accept themselves so that you can see who you really are. A person who doesn't know how to accept himself can easily be confused by some external things, causing himself to lose the ability to distinguish things. People are a process of continuous growth. During this period, there are always endless problems that will bother you, make you upset and depressed.
This is a normal phenomenon for a person. Psychological analysis shows that suffering is also the essence of life. You might as well let yourself face it. Maybe you will have another gain. If you have a hard time thinking about it, shy away when facing a problem, and are timid and eager to escape, you will inevitably approach yourself in a narrow alley, not knowing where your path is.
When you have this mentality, your thinking is undoubtedly very dangerous. Life is like a journey. You only have the energy to do more valuable things if you trust yourself more. Your lack of self-confidence will only make your heart more and more fragile, and gradually, you will move further towards mediocrity.
Second, get used to complaining, and then cater to others.
Complaining can easily make a person's mentality extremely pessimistic, or can be said to be fateful, in fact, these can be called poor psychological quality. After we have experienced enough things, we discover that it is not only plain, but also thrilling and crisis. Maybe, there will be a moment when your emotions suddenly collapsed, but you also have to learn to remain calm.
The adult world is like this. Don’t be emotional, don’t miss secretly, and don’t let your glass heart easily. Otherwise, it is easy to add weight to your life, making it difficult for you to move.
Sometimes, you might as well take a little light on the bad things that happen in your life. You should know that any complaint cannot solve the problem, even if If you try to cater to others and put your own dignity low, it is difficult to get good results. On the contrary, you will disappoint yourself.
Therefore, when you are born, you must know how to rely on yourself, don't give yourself too many negative emotions, and relax your mentality. As the saying goes, you will be calm and calm. In essence, any complaint is to make excuses for your incompetence, and when you really get rid of this, you will have the ability to be superior to others.
Today’s message, what do you think are the characteristics of people who are fragile in their hearts? Welcome to discuss.
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