Like or suitable, which is more important?
In today's marriage and love market, girls find boyfriends that they like very much, but their parents disagree and think that the two of them are not suitable for marriage.
The parents of a boy whom he met on a blind date think he is suitable for marriage and life, but the girl does not like him because he has no emotional foundation.
At this time, the girls are very conflicted. Should they choose the marriage they like or the one that is suitable?
In Zhejiang, a man went on a blind date with someone from a rural area. After meeting, the man made no secret of his impression of her. Girls don't know how to dress up and are too vulgar.
"Isn't it great to have a house and a car? I don't like you either." The girl couldn't help but reply to him.
Woman was rejected on blind date
The incident happened in front of a villager's house in Zhejiang. The man was introduced by a matchmaker to meet a girl, who was his blind date.
Men have higher requirements for girls. They must be over 160 cm tall, no older than 25 years old, and good-looking. Coincidentally, girls meet all these requirements of men.
thought it was a pleasant blind date, but unexpectedly it ended early, with both parties disgusted with each other.
After seeing the girl, the man's eyes really lit up, because the girl grew up very pure and looked very cute. However, there is one thing that does not meet the requirements of men. Girls do not know how to dress up.
She was wearing a down jacket and black pants. There was still some dust on the pants. She was dressed like a girl born and raised in a rural area. Seeing this, the man shook his head and said, "What a pity."
chatted for a while, but the man seemed to have left, feeling that they were not suitable for each other.
Matchmaker: The man is from the city
The man is outspoken and does not win the favor of girls.
The girls couldn’t help complaining. He was really good with a house and a car, but he was nothing special. He was rude and didn’t understand the world. I didn’t like him either.
Another thing is that girls dislike men because they are older. She is only 23 years old, and he is already 32 years old. He is still picky and picky, thinking that he is a "rich second generation".
Although the blind date was not pleasant, the matchmaker still managed to mediate it, explaining that the man was from the city, had a car and a house in the city, worked in a public institution, had a stable income, good conditions and high requirements, which was normal.
Moreover, he often takes his wife (girlfriend) out for socializing and gatherings, so he requires the girls to dress up, otherwise they will be easily teased by others.
is not suitable, just find another blind date.
Two-way choice, nothing to complain about
Many girls go on a blind date, and the conditions are clearly stated, such as a car, a house, a stable job... If they don't meet her conditions, they won't give them a chance to meet.
Everyone readily accepted these requests from girls.
When it’s the boys’ turn, it becomes “impolite” to require girls to be tall, good-looking, and good at dressing up. This is indeed a double standard.
"I'm just asking you for what you ask of me, and you scold me for being rude." This is a bit overbearing.
Therefore, girls have nothing to be angry about. They don’t know how to dress up and put on makeup. This is a fact. The man said something that made her feel unhappy, and she should correct it instead of complaining about him.
It is difficult to admit the excellence of others
To be honest, a boy in his 30s who can buy a house and a car on his own is very good.
Ask yourself, if you are yourself, do you have the ability to meet the conditions of a man? If you can't do it yourself, then you have to admit his excellence.
But then again, men miss out on a good girl.
It is true that girls in rural areas are not very good at dressing up and wearing makeup, but they are very simple, have no ex-boyfriends, no messy interpersonal relationships, and deserve to be loved.
As long as you have a good figure, good looks, and makeup, you only need to spend a few hundred yuan to participate in a training. In other words, a girl has potential. After she puts on makeup, she may not like boys anymore.
, this is probably due to fate!
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