Hi, good evening, I am your little emotional blogger Postman Thirteen.
I will share with you tonight an original story from 511 .
Hello, Thirteen, I would like to contribute.
Although I feel lonely,
I don’t want to give in.
Many people who have not been in love for a long time have seen enough scenery, there is no message on WeChat, and the phone does not ring for a long time. When they are bored, they just watch videos, and they are amused from time to time, and the content is heart-wrenching.
Although a person may feel lonely, he doesn’t want to make do with people who like you and don’t like you, and people who like you don’t like you.
will never let himself get into a relationship hastily. While he yearns for love, he is also unwilling to casually accept sudden advances from others.
is afraid of being let down by his deep feelings and afraid that he is not the right person, so he always tries it over and over again in the chat to see if it is the answer he ultimately wants.
It’s not that I don’t want to fall in love, I’m just afraid that I’m not good enough, that the other person will discover my shortcomings after we get together, and that we won’t be able to be friends after we break up.
Because I am not sure about keeping someone, I am always cautious.
Love is to solve problems,
is not to solve people.
If you want to have a long-term relationship, you must learn to solve the problem, not the other person.
It is easy to fall in love at first sight, but it is almost impossible to be born with each other. If the other party does not have serious differences in views and character problems, or does not make principled mistakes, don't let go easily.
Because relationships that last to the end usually go through the love period , the independence period, the running-in period and the dull period.
The problem between you is not that you no longer love each other, but that you are slowly getting along and adapting to each other.
Loving this thing is never a choice. It is not about breaking up when it is not suitable, nor is it about changing when you are tired of it. It is about making people feel brave and gentle. It is a loyal choice after escaping countless novelties.
Since two people have talked, they should cherish each other, spend some time to communicate, and try to solve the problem, so that they can reach the end.
Someone has to be more cruel, so that
can end completely.
It’s really sad and regrettable that I missed you.
But when I look back and think about it, even if the two of us are really together, it may not be as good as imagined.
If you think about it carefully, it is indeed true. Neither you nor I are happy, so why bother with it.
You love me, but you can’t love me well, and I am not reconciled to the status quo.
In the final analysis, we still don’t love each other enough, and we can’t change for each other.
Even if they are reconciled, they are still holding on to old scores from the past. In fact, these problems are very simple, but if they are not willing to compromise, then there is really no way. It is useless to repeat the same mistakes a thousand times.
So instead of consuming each other again and again, let’s stop here.
There has to be a ruthless person to end this relationship. I am really tired and don’t want to fight anymore, so let’s leave it at that.
Don’t worry,
will encounter it.
I always believe that one day you will meet someone who will read all the statuses you have written, read all the long articles you have written, look at all your photos from childhood to adulthood, and even look for information about you elsewhere.
He will try to listen to the songs you like, walk the path you have walked, read the books you like, and then choose to love you more without hesitation.
When you are with him, you don’t have to use your brain, you don’t have to carry things, and you don’t have to worry about where to get off when you’re in the car, so you can sleep peacefully all the way.
You don’t have to be beautiful at all times, because no matter what, he will love you.
Your love is a couple's outfit, a group photo, a movie ticket, a cup of milk tea, a future wedding, and a home that belongs to the two of you.
So, don’t worry, the fun is all in the fireworks.
Finally, may you love magnanimously.
I wish you a good sleep tonight, no dreams, good night.
