Our whole family’s erectile dysfunction was coming to an end. After lunch, my mother and aunt chatted and asked, “Have you acted coquettishly with your husband since you had erectile dysfunction?”
Auntie laughed and said: Why are you acting like a baby? I never act like a baby with my husband.
My mother also immediately expressed her position: I never act coquettishly with the one in my family.
I saw how proud they were and couldn’t help but say:
This is because you are stupid. What’s so nice about never acting like a spoiled child? You have to act like a spoiled child when you should. I'm strong enough, I can handle everything on my own, but it doesn't affect my coquettishness. Women should be weak when they should be weak. Why do you live like an iron warrior? Want to go to war?
Auntie smiled speechlessly and said:
Then you have to look at what type of husband you are. If your husband is like this, of course he can act coquettishly. If I act coquettishly and he won’t pay attention to me, then why should I act coquettishly? It’s a waste of love!
My mother immediately supported:
That is, if you are like your dad, you can only act spoiled to him, and I can’t act spoiled anyway.
Then, the two of them started the mode of complaining about their husbands. I couldn’t help but say: I found my husband by myself...
My mother said very uncomfortably: I used to hide my eyes in my crotch, and it felt good to complain about them.
In order not to affect their complaints, my husband and I went to the balcony upstairs to bask in the sun and chat. Mr.
asked me if many women are dissatisfied with their husbands?
I said yes, they are quite good. You will know if you check out Douyin , but you can’t blame women for being resentful. This time new crown , not only can you test negative and positive, but you can also test your humanity!
After some men’s wives became pregnant, they ran away with the mother and children. They also took away all the food at home, leaving their wives to fend for themselves.
If this wife doesn’t get divorced and doesn’t come back with revenge when she gets old, I will feel sorry for this man.
Some men go out to drink and play cards after their wives become infected, and they don’t care whether their wives live or die.
There are also men who refuse to let their wives go home when they become infected, and ask their wives to go back to their parents’ homes. When they become infected, they call again and again to urge their wives to come back. It’s really shameful.
Then the husband asked fondly:
Isn’t it rare for a husband like me to take care of your husband in every possible way even though he is sick?
I patted his face and said:
In return, when you are old, I promise not to give up treatment or pull out your tube, don’t worry!
Suddenly I really want to talk about this situation.
Although those men have nothing to do with me, I was very angry when I saw their behavior.
When women are sick and need care, these men either break through the bottom line of human nature, or show extreme selfishness and indifference.
I really want to know, do you think you will never grow old or get sick in this life?
You still feel that you are infinitely charming. Even after treating your wife like this, your wife will still have no regrets, take care of you as always, and happily provide for you in your old age?
It is no longer a few decades ago. No matter how bad a man is, women will choose to tolerate it. At that time, women were very persistent in the evaluation of virtuousness, and women also liked to accept their fate. Basically, they would neither divorce nor ignore the man.
But times have changed. In today's society, women's thoughts are no longer what they were a few decades ago. They have made too much progress.
Many women are beginning to understand that if they are in their prime and can make money, do housework, and take care of children, they are of great value.
She was just sick for a few days, and her husband treated her like this. If one day in the future, she becomes seriously ill or needs care when she gets old, she can't count on this man at all.
If this is the case, why do I have to pay so much for him? What hope is there with a man like this? Not as good as being alone.
Feelings of coldness sometimes accumulate day by day, and sometimes they are cold in a moment.
There are also some women who may choose another approach.
Although she knows that her husband is selfish and indifferent, she also understands that she currently does not have the capital to divorce and cannot support her children alone.
So she did not choose divorce, but kept this account in her mind.
A gentleman takes revenge, and it is never too late in ten years. Unless you never grow old or get sick in this life, otherwise, one day, she will pay back everything you have done to her.
Perhaps only the day when a needle pricks me will I regret my original selfishness and indifference.
In fact, women nowadays are very strong. They rarely need men. Most of them can make their own money, take care of themselves, and take care of their children.
Therefore, when they are rarely sick and need someone to take care of them, it is the time when men should behave well. Don't feel that you are at a loss.
Women are very emotional animals. Even if you have treated her badly in many ways before, but you took good care of her when she was sick, she will remember your kindness to her these days throughout her life.
When she is wronged in any way in the future, she may choose to forget it because of your tenderness at the moment.
will also be willing to repay you tenfold and a hundredfold in his later years because of your care now.
This time, I also summarized a phenomenon. The more incompetent and poor men are, they will either be impatient or selfish and indifferent when their wives are sick.
And those men who are very capable and have a good career development are willing to do their best to take care of their wives and children.
This also explains why the former can't get along well. You are not even willing to take care of your own wife and children. Your emotional intelligence and cognition have major flaws. It's no wonder you can get along well!
Smart men all know how to treat their wives well, because this is the most cost-effective investment in the world.
Your wife is the person you will spend the rest of your life with. If you treat her better, she will do her best to take care of the family and you.
Let me ask you, is there any woman in this world who is more dedicated to this family than your wife? You spend 20,000 a month to see if you can find a woman who cares more than your wife?
If you are good to your wife, it will also win you a good reputation. Nowadays, when many people evaluate a person, they will consider how this man treats his family.
If he is not nice to his wife, a very important person, how will he devote himself to a company that has no feelings? Will he be sincere and kind to his colleagues? Will he be sincere to his partners?
Don’t even think about it, so when everyone learns that this man is not good to his wife, they will give him a cross in their hearts.
Good jobs will not hire such a person, good cooperation will not look for him, and noble people will not be cold to him.
He has blocked his own road, so how can he achieve great development?
So the men we see who are not good to their wives basically have poor careers. This is the principle.
But if everyone knows that this man is very good to his wife, they will think that this man has good character, the company is willing to hire such a person, and partners are also willing to find such a person to cooperate with.
Opportunities will come to him one after another, and the probability of success will naturally be high.
This also confirms what I just said about why men who treat their wives well are generally more successful. This is the logic.
The last words are written to all sisters, work hard! Because there is a heartbreaking fact to tell you:
Marriage is the most realistic thing. However, the better your conditions are, the better your partner will be. If you don’t want to find a husband in the trash, we must first make ourselves a high-quality woman and encourage everyone!
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Late Stand, million-selling author, founder of Yun Yixuan Jewelry, dedicated to women's self-growth, new book "The More Self-Discipline, the More Free" is now selling well, her representative work "Being a Just Right Woman", Weibo : Late Stand's Nest, Public Platform: Live Life with All We Can, ID: wanqingdepingtai
