The history of human marriage has gone through the matrilineal era, the patrilineal era, and the patrilineal era has experienced the process of polygamy and monogamy. Currently, there are polygyny, monogamy, polyandry, marriage status in various countries in the world. Among my country's ethnic minorities, there is also a form of retaining walking marriage, that is, matrilineal system.
The so-called traditional marriage refers to monogamy as far as the current situation of mankind is concerned.
The premise of the couple system is the heterosexual union system, and the correct interpretation is the matching system of sexual ability. The problem is discovered: Only when the sexual physiological abilities of men and women reach a balanced state is a suitable heterosexual union.
In fact, monogamy, polyandry, and the matching of sexual and physiological abilities destroy the balance of sexual and physiological abilities, because women's sexual needs exceed those of men, and polyandry state is suitable for the physiological balance of the opposite sex. This is true!
Therefore, the concept of marriage established by monogamy in mainstream marriages in society will gradually be changed by real life, moving towards a suitable match with balanced sexual needs. It not only retains the ethical order of monogamous property distribution relationships and family lineage relationships, but also unveils the emotional world of emotional relationships and sexual needs outside the couple. Everything gradually shines with the light of emotional harmony with the liberation of technological productivity.
Marriage has nothing to do with tradition or innovation, but is about harmony. Man must eventually return to nature, nature is the way, and the complementarity of yin and yang is the way of nature.
If there is no compassion in the world, a woman’s marriage will be in hell! A kind person gives happiness to others! Those who are sad take away people's suffering. During this time, the ways of men and women in the world, both paternal and maternal, are all deficient. Only by caring for the needs of others, being at peace with the ethics of the family, and being happy with the emotions of the body and mind can the world be full of beauty.
The wonderful meaning cannot be explained clearly at present, only the wise can understand it!
