Liu Ancheng (pseudonym)
Liu Ancheng also said that after the matter is resolved, he hopes to go back and live a good life with his wife Li Jiajia (pseudonym).
Li Jiajia also said that she would not leave her husband, let alone this home. She hoped that their family's life would return to peace as soon as possible.
It is not difficult to see from the words of Liu Ancheng and Li Jiajia that their goals are the same.
But then Liu Ancheng changed the subject and pointed the finger directly at his wife Li Jiajia.
Liu Ancheng said that a year ago, he cheated, but the reason why he cheated was because his wife Li Jiajia had done something sorry for him first.
Liu Ancheng also said that if he wanted to change the story, his wife only needed to say sorry to him.
As soon as Liu Ancheng finished speaking, Li Jiajia said: "Don't complain first. You did something wrong and you still blame me?"
"You admitted it before, but it's too late to change your mind now." Liu Ancheng said angrily.
Liu Ancheng then told the mediator that he had opened a restaurant before, and his wife would come to the store to help when she had nothing to do.
He was quite happy at first, but later he found out that his wife had another purpose, that is, his wife was getting together with the chef of the restaurant, and this chef was from the same village as him.
The mediator said: "Did you see them doing anything they shouldn't have done?"
Liu Ancheng said, I saw it not just once, but several times.
According to Liu Ancheng, the first time, a friend of his came to the store to see him, and his wife helped arrange some meals. When he was seated, he found that the dishes were not very rich, so he asked his wife to tell the chef to prepare two more dishes.
As a result, he waited and waited but neither his wife came back nor the food was served, so he excused himself to go to the toilet to see what was going on. Unexpectedly, as soon as he went out, he saw his wife and the chef standing at the top of the stairs talking. When he went to ask what was going on, he found that his wife and the chef had disappeared.
At this point, Liu Ancheng said firmly that their relationship was not normal. Otherwise, why would they walk away as soon as I came out?
The mediator said: "This can only mean that you saw them talking together, but it can't mean anything else at all."
Liu Ancheng went on to say that a few days later, my wife said she was going to buy groceries, so I followed her secretly. As a result, I found that she was on the phone in a phone booth for a long time. After listening carefully, I found out that she was calling the chef.
Less than twenty minutes later, the chef came riding an electric motorcycle . The two of them stood together and talked happily.
Regarding this, Li Jiajia said that she did not call the chef that day, and that meeting the chef was a complete coincidence. Everything was just imagined by her husband.
Li Jiajia (pseudonym)
Li Jiajia also said that from the day they got together, her husband had been paying close attention to her because she was ten years younger than her husband, and her husband was divorced and had a son.
Although Li Jiajia didn't say much, it was enough to make everything clear. However, the two examples Liu Ancheng gave were not enough to prove that there was a problem between his wife and the chef, so the mediator refuted him on the spot: "What you said is too far-fetched, and there is no way for people to believe that your wife has done something sorry for you."
The mediator went on to have both sides.
Said: "You just said you cheated, what's the situation between you and that woman now?"
Liu Ancheng didn't blush, and said without a beat: "I'm so worried right now, they both want to follow me, I don't know what to do?"
Liu Ancheng also said, the woman is here too, and she just wants an explanation today. To be honest, I can't bear to let her go. The mediator
said, you and your wife have been married for ten years and you still have children. Are you really willing to give up your family for that woman?
Liu Ancheng said, she (Li Jiajia) and I have not obtained the certificates, and I am still single.
Liu Ancheng's words surprised the mediator. Li Jiajia on the side said lightly: "I don't attach much importance to the marriage certificate. I mentioned it twice before and he was unwilling to get it, so I didn't mention it again. Anyway, we can live with it without the certificate.""
Then Li Jiajia told the mediator that when she and Liu Ancheng met, Liu Ancheng and his ex-wife had not yet divorced. She was young at that time and knew nothing. She was coaxed into confusion by Liu Ancheng. Later Liu Ancheng divorced , the two of them came together.
At this point, Li Jiajia said with shame, I did something wrong, and I also feel sorry for his ex-wife and son, so I try my best to be nice to his son now, but what I didn’t expect is The same thing happened to me now.
At this point, Li Jiajia had already burst into tears. She said that Liu Ancheng's first divorce had hurt a child, so no matter what, she would not leave Liu Ancheng because her child needed a complete home.
As soon as Li Jiajia finished speaking, a woman named Liu Jiaojiao (pseudonym) couldn't hold back her excitement and walked up. She told the mediator that she was the one who had been with Liu Ancheng for more than a year. A woman, she came today just to ask Liu Ancheng to go with her, otherwise she would not give up.
Liu Jiaojiao (pseudonym)
Liu Jiaojiao also said that when she and Liu Ancheng were together, Liu Ancheng told her that his wife had cheated on him and he wanted to divorce his wife. Later, Liu Ancheng gave him a divorce agreement, and she thought Liu Ancheng was single, and then she followed Liu Ancheng wholeheartedly.
said, Liu Jiaojiao also showed the divorce agreement to the mediator. After reading it carefully, the mediator found that the agreement did have the signatures of Liu Ancheng and Li Jiajia.
However, Li Jiajia said that the couple had never signed any formal divorce agreement, and the one Liu Jiaojiao took was just something they wrote casually when they were quarreling.
Liu Jiaojiao said sadly: "That's not right. He told me that you didn't get a marriage certificate. If you sign this, you will be divorced. "
" He lied to you, do you believe it? "Li Jiajia said calmly.
At this time, Liu Ancheng had been silent. He lowered his head and looked a little embarrassed on his face. From the conversation between the two women, it was not difficult to hear that Liu Ancheng had always been in conflict with Liu Jiaojiao and Li Jiajia.
The three of them lived together.
Liu Jiaojiao shed tears when she learned the truth. She told the mediator that she had given her true love to Liu Ancheng and she did not want the relationship to end just like this.
Liu Jiaojiao also said that in fact, she had a premonition that something was wrong since Liu Ancheng disappeared last time, so she immediately went to find Liu Ancheng. An Chengneng called Li Jiajia over, and the three of them communicated in person to see how to solve the problem.
Unexpectedly, Liu Ancheng hid, which made her very sad. The mediator
said, now you should see clearly the true face of this man, what are you going to do?
Liu Jiaojiao said, "I love him as a person. I just want him to come with me today. I don't care about anything else."
Liu Jiaojiao’s obsession made the mediator very puzzled. The mediator repeatedly told her: “He has a family and children, and there will be no good results if you stay with him like this. "
Liu Jiaojiao (pseudonym)
Unexpectedly, Liu Jiaojiao said:"As long as I can be with him, I am willing to do anything, even if the three of us live together, I can accept it. "
Liu Jiaojiao's words subverted everyone's views at the scene. The mediator had to say that you are too ridiculous. Women should respect themselves and love themselves. Don't take yourself too seriously.
After hearing Liu Jiaojiao's words, Li Jiajia was very angry. She said: "You are so shameless. Are there no men in this world anymore? Do you insist on pestering my husband? "
" I am not wrong, why can't I give myself an explanation? Liu Jiaojiao replied.
The mediator saw this and quickly stopped the quarrel between the two women. Then the mediator asked Liu Ancheng: "They all want to be with you, how do you choose?"
Liu Ancheng said angrily: "I won't choose any of them." "
Regarding this result, Li Jiajia said very frankly: "I don't care. Anyway, I just live at home with my children and my parents-in-law. I have a family and I am not afraid of anything.""
Liu Jiaojiao on the side was no longer calm. She said angrily: "I didn't do anything wrong, why didn't you choose me? "
" How do you want me to choose you? I choose you, what should I do if she doesn’t want to quit, so I just choose no one. "
Liu Jiaojiao burst into tears after hearing Liu Ancheng's words. She cried and told the mediator: "He is a good man in my heart. I give him a hundred and ten points. Anyway, I won't let go. I just want to be with him. "
And Li Jiajia also said that Liu Ancheng is a good husband. If she were to give him a score, she would give him a hundred points.
The words of Liu Jiaojiao and Li Jiajia made the mediator very helpless. After thinking about it again and again, the mediator said to Liu Ancheng: "The decision is in your hands. If you are sure who you want to be with, be firmer and don't waver. In this case, the person who is abandoned will not leave you until he sees no hope. "
The mediator then said to Liu Jiaojiao that no one in this world can survive without him. Don't lose yourself because of a relationship, especially when this man has a family and children.
But no matter what the mediator said, Liu Jiaojiao and Liu Ancheng were unmoved, and they both insisted on their own ideas.
In the end, the mediation ended in failure.
Conclusion:
Loyalty is the bottom line and principle of love and marriage.
Every couple hopes to go from love to marriage, from black hair to gray hair with their beloved, but this seemingly simple happiness is not available to everyone.
Because once the shelf life of love is over, what is left between husband and wife is a dull life. If two people trust each other, If you manage this relationship carefully, the happiness of your marriage will be higher.
If one of the parties always holds a skeptical attitude towards the other party, or is not at ease, then sooner or later there will be cracks in their relationship, because suspicion is like a knife, which invisibly cuts the relationship between two people one by one.
Just like Liu Ancheng and Li Jiajia in the story, Liu Ancheng is ten years older than Li Jiajia. Before marrying Li Jiajia, Liu Ancheng had a marriage. He and his ex-wife had a son. Later, because of Li Jiajia's appearance, Liu Ancheng betrayed his wife.
Originally, after Liu Ancheng and Li Jiajia got together, Liu Ancheng should cherish this relationship more, but not only did he not get the certificate from Li Jiajia, he was always suspicious of her. His behavior was undoubtedly irresponsible and an insult to Li Jiajia.
more What people didn't expect was that Liu Ancheng cheated again. He made a mistake, instead of seeing his own problems clearly first, he first accused his wife Li Jiajia of making the same mistake.
However, nothing he described could make others believe that Li Jiajia had done something wrong. It can be seen that he was unwilling to face the problem bravely, but just avoided and shied away.
Liu Jiaojiao was originally a victim. After she realized Liu Ancheng’s true face, she She could leave completely. After all, she and Liu Ancheng had only been dating for a year, and they had no children or financial concerns.
Liu Jiaojiao (pseudonym)
But Liu Jiaojiao couldn't figure it out. She stubbornly wanted to be with Liu Ancheng, and even came up with the absurd idea that the three of them could live together.
People often say that whether it is love or marriage, people must There is a sense of responsibility and awe, and maintaining this sense of responsibility and awe does not depend on the depth of the relationship between two people, but on their respective moral bottom lines.
Obviously, neither Liu Ancheng nor Liu Jiaojiao have any moral character in the face of love.
For Liu Ancheng, when he reaches middle age, he has an elder and a younger child at home, and responsibilities are greater than love. Instead of blindly pursuing his own feelings, he ends up getting lost in a chaotic emotional life. It's hard to get out.
For Liu Jiaojiao, it is wise to stop losses in time. Why hang yourself on a man like Liu Ancheng who is carefree and has no sense of responsibility?
Li Jiajia's feelings should be complicated and bitter, because she broke up Liu Ancheng's first marriage as a third party. A few years later, the plot reversed, and she became the one who was broken up. What's even more pitiful is that she couldn't even get a marriage certificate with Liu Ancheng.
We don’t know how this complicated love triangle will end.
But what reminds the world is that women must respect themselves and love themselves, and have bottom lines and principles in doing things. Only in this way can they gain the respect of others and be loved.
