Recently, some netizens uploaded a special marriage proposal video. The miniature woman who appeared in the video was the photographer’s best friend, and she wanted to use this method to help her best friend find a match.
This netizen said that her best friend is just over 1.2 meters tall and has been a joke in the eyes of others since elementary school. She dropped out of elementary school because she couldn't stand the strange looks.
She is seriously undersized and has no education. She cannot even find a formal job. It is precisely because her conditions are so poor that she has not been in love at the age of 26, so no one cares about her at all.
Society is such a reality. People with physical disabilities are not welcome in real life and may even be laughed at.
A woman who is 1.2 meters tall cannot get married.
Because of this, this woman is extremely lacking in self-confidence and even has a hint of social fear. Watching her peers getting married in wedding dresses one after another, her character has become more and more introverted.
In order to help her best friend get out of the cage she set, she took her best friend out whenever she had the chance. This time she also dragged her best friend out for a physical examination.
With her constant encouragement, the woman finally plucked up the courage to walk in front of people. Surprisingly, everyone just glanced at her and passed her by as if nothing had happened. No one stared at her at all.
Big cities are different. People in the village have no CARE about the quarrelsome issues. This is called being well-informed.
This kind of operation is a bit difficult for her, but her best friend said that these people don’t know her, and they may not be able to meet her again in the future. We are just passers-by, so why not be brave once?
The woman took steps hesitantly. Although the steps were a bit awkward, she at least dared to raise her head, but the 18-centimeter high heels were indeed not something ordinary people could control.
In order to overcome the gravity brought by the thick soles, the woman even raised her hands when walking. This instinctive reaction made her even more cute, making her look like a penguin.
Obviously, these ultra-high shoes limited her performance, but the gains she gained from this difficult journey are immeasurable.
She wants to have a family
Not to mention those chicken soups. If she dares to hold her head high in front of strangers, things will improve when she returns to the village. After a certain period of psychological construction, she should have the courage to directly retaliate against those unfriendly comments.
People can lack experience and money, but they must not lack self-confidence. There should be many friends in the society who have the same troubles as her.
Height does have an impact on life and work, but the biggest impact is personal self-confidence.
This woman had told her best friend more than once that she wanted to have her own little family, that she no longer wanted to be a burden to her parents, and that she didn’t want her parents to be discussed anymore.
This is a person who knows how to be grateful, but God did not give her a perfect body.
's physical condition cannot be changed, but excellent qualities are more precious. Although she has not read many books, she knows far more about the principles of life than others.
I hope she will not give up on herself. The most important task now is to support herself. Her parents will always leave.
Take advantage of the time to learn more professional skills. Not all jobs have height requirements.
When she can support herself, the issue of dating can be put on the agenda. If she is not able to support herself, she will not be taken seriously in the end.
This is a very real problem. No one wants to be a burden when they get married. The most basic requirement is to be self-reliant.
Height is not the most important issue. As long as she has good character and personality, there will always be someone to accompany her for the rest of her life. Come on!
