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There is a question on the Internet: "If you delete the person you like, can you forget that person?"

Some people think it is okay. After all, in this information age, no matter how much you like people, they will be replaced by all kinds of new things.

Some people think it is not possible. If you really love someone, it will be a pity if you can't be with them in the end.

In fact, no matter whether you can let go or not, when a relationship ends, the more important point is, can you really let yourself go?

1. He doesn’t just exist in your address book

I read a paragraph, which was a conversation between two people. One person asked the other person: "It has been so long, have you forgotten her?"

The person smiled broadly. He waved his hand and said, "Of course, I don't remember what she looks like after such a long time."

After the questioner was silent for a while, he looked at the other person seriously and said, "But I haven't said yet, who is that person."

In this matter of love, some people become winners and some people become losers. People who lose, sometimes, do not lose to others, but just lose to life.

They can't stop the people they like from having a better life and the kind of life that they can't give at all, so they let go.

Of course, I can delete the other person's contact information, and even generously wish the other person happiness, but it will take a long time to cross the hurdle in my heart.

Goldfish can have a memory of seven seconds, but human memory is far longer than seven seconds. Some people will never forget it even if they want to.

2. You will still think of him

Someone said: "Real forgetting does not mean deleting each other's contact information, but when you hear the other person's news again, you can face it calmly."

In too many novels and stories about people around us, we see those couples who are indecisive and often break up and get back together. Every time they break up, they will definitely delete and block each other.

will not be available for long, the contact information will be added back, the relationship can be repaired, until the same story is repeated next time, for a long, long time.

Most of this kind of love will not come to an end, because one day, they will find that this is just a kind of torture for each other.

Love, in these separations and reunions, instead of being improved, has been exhausted. In the end, it can only return to the relationship of strangers.

once heard a saying: "If a person can be forgotten by his subjective consciousness, how can it be worth your special trip to forget?" Since you have a reason to forget him, how can you forget him? "

Many times, we just use various reasons to force ourselves to admit that we have let go, have come out, no longer care, and have almost forgotten.

However, we are often the ones who can't be deceived the most, because you know very well that you can't do these things, and you are just trying to be tough. That's it.

3. The Unfinished Story

When we watch movies, what kind of movies are more likely to be remembered? It must be those movies with open endings and thought-provoking ones.

The former is. Because there is a sense of 'regret', we obviously saw the end, but we didn't get the result we wanted.

The latter is because I feel the same way. We put ourselves into the movie to feel and recall some of the past events and fragments we have experienced.

The same is true for breakup love. The most unforgettable stories are often those stories that we thought would have a perfect ending.

You have given everything you can. After breaking up, you will recall over and over again what you have experienced.

Those past are like the pictures of revolving door , pushing you into the abyss of memories over and over again, making you unable to extricate yourself.

And this process is exactly the most painful period for a lovelorn person after true love. This will be a very long self-healing process.

Can you really not let go of each other? When you look back, you just don't want to let yourself go, you don't want to let go and help others.

4. I will never forget you.

There is a saying on the Internet: "The two words forget exist simultaneously. I want to forget, but I still remember you."

Those who have loved deeply but cannot be together later are actually like sealing the past in their minds and then shelving it.

's past with each other has never disappeared, but everyone knows that since there is no result, it is better to let each other go.

Let you go, not because I don’t love you anymore, but because, if we are destined not to be together, then at least, I hope I can find happiness.

We will never talk about you from now on. However, there will no longer be any trace of you in my life.

and above, I wish you sweet dreams and good night.