Yuxin grew up as a freelance writer born in the 1995s. Through writing, he paid off his six-digit debt in one year and bought a house in two years. Official account/Xiaohongshu/Baijiahao/Today’s headlines: [Yuxin is growing].

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Yuxin became a freelance writer after growing up 95. Through writing, he paid off 6 figures of debt in 1 year and bought a house in 2 years.

Official account/Xiaohongshu/Baijia account/Today’s headlines: [Yuxin is growing]

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"Please do it again, again, and again, and without hesitation, save yourself from the fire and water in the world. "

I have known since I was a child that I am not a very lovable girl. She has average looks, average talent, average study, and average family background.

is a person who will be drowned in the sea of ​​people countless times.

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But I am not willing to give in. I hope that one day, I can also be seen.

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The light in the ruins is yourself.

has a sensitive personality, low self-esteem and arrogance. This is the first impression my classmates have of me.

What I remember most clearly is that the class held an autumn outing, which was probably the only one I participated in.

My mother initially refused to let me go, but she finally agreed. I was very happy at that time and went to the supermarket happily to buy a lot of snacks.

When I got on the bus, I originally wanted to sit with my good friend, but I saw her sitting with other people chatting, and it was hard to say anything.

was sitting alone by the window. Along the way, no one said a word to me, and I didn't take the initiative to speak.

I don’t know how to speak, how to say something nice and humorous.

turned his head and looked at the scenery outside the window, listening to them laughing together. The wind blows...

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Later, there were such activities, and I never signed up again.

I know that it is difficult for me to meet people who resonate with me at the same frequency, to make close friends, and to maintain long-term close relationships with friends.

I have a hard time being gregarious. I know I am a very negative person, so I don't try to rely on anyone to heal me.

The summer when you come back will not be this summer, and the person who spends summer with you again will not be this person. .

But I also learned to be alone, learn to pay attention to myself, and learn to heal myself.

Yan Rujing once said in " Qi Pa Shuo ": "Not being gregarious is only superficial loneliness, being gregarious is inner loneliness. ”

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Even if you take the wrong path, you will have a bright future.

I also felt at a certain moment that I had taken many wrong paths, including study, work and even love.

Ever since I was a child, I have always caused trouble to my parents.

I was often sick when I was a child, and it was common to go to the hospital for injections in the middle of the night. When I grew up, I had my own thoughts, and I only wanted to refute my parents' weak preaching.

The conditions at home were not very good, and when I was in junior high school, the family was always full of depression. At that time, everything was not going well, and I always talked back to my mother intentionally or unintentionally.

Because the girls in the same dormitory as me have much better family backgrounds and family atmosphere than me.

When I was living on campus, the most annoying thing was going home on weekends.

On my birthday, these emotions finally came to a head.

Looking at the birthday cake on the table, I suddenly couldn't help crying. Yes, why does she keep saying bad things about me on my birthday?

Her face became pale again and she didn't say anything to me. She just asked her brother to eat more food. Maybe my younger brother couldn't stand this depressing atmosphere, so he even cried.

The mother angrily came over with a clothes hanger and hit her brother directly.

But I know that this should have fallen to me.

However, I believe that those who took the wrong path will one day be blown away by the wind, making every step I take in the future more determined and confident.

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Yu Hua said: "No road in the world is repeated, and no life can be replaced."

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No matter how small the flame is, it can be ignited repeatedly.

There will be times when I am unwilling and want to change everything.

is already lagging behind others at the starting line, so we have to work harder to catch up. She also said: Poor girls will not receive flowers and cakes.

She said a lot. She hoped that I could study hard and live happily every day.

can also take your children to eat and drink. Instead of living in disgrace in order to survive in the future.

Those things I can't afford, people I can't get, and the other side I can't get to, are all the reasons why I work hard now.

Mr. Yang Jiang said: "A person's life is nothing more than knowing himself, washing himself, and voluntarily transforming himself."

I will tell myself that the future is promising and the future is bright. I will imagine countless beautiful futures at night.

will watch many, many movies, read many, many books, become lively and cheerful, and do what he likes.

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I always think that at such a prosperous age, I always have to make something and leave some traces.

I want to record this one by one, even if it is already ugly.

Although I just love words.

I still won't give up, even though it won't be recognized by others, even though the efforts I put in may not be seen.

However, I still hope that my story can cross thousands of rivers and mountains and warm every person walking in a hurry in the night.

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“The suffering in the trough period is to accumulate strength. Even if it is the light coming out of the cracks, we must hold on tightly, and then give birth to the courage to face the sun.”

Not every flower must become a rose.

If you can't become the rose of the little prince, please let me be as free as a dandelion.

Come on ! The future is promising ❤️

May we all be able to become a better self through every transformation experience on the road of growth.

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