Whether for men or women, marriage is a very solemn and serious matter, and marriage will become the grave of love due to various uncontrollable factors and has become an inherent and difficult view for some people! Therefore, in the eyes of some young people today, there is a view that "marriage is a business" and "don't mention love when talking about marriage".
is to avoid various frictions in marriage and allow men and women to adapt to each other. Some people have proposed the concept of "try-marriage before marriage".
Is this really useful?
won’t mention whether “pre-marriage trial marriage” is beneficial to marriage, but “pre-marriage trial marriage” is not a good thing for women, and it may cost unimaginable!
. Is cohabitation and . Trial marriage ?
First, let’s talk about what cohabitation is: cohabitation refers to two people who love each other temporarily live together, which is generally used between the opposite sex. (PS: Unmarried cohabitation is not recommended) However, cohabitation is an essential difference between marriage and marriage. Marriage is a husband-wife relationship that has been recognized by law. To terminate the marriage relationship, it is necessary to pass certain legal procedures. Cohabitation is an act that is not recognized by law, and the relationship can be terminated at any time based on the wishes of the parties, which means that both parties living together are not protected by any legal protection.
Trial marriage, literally speaking, it is an attempt by both men and women to marry before being recognized as a husband-wife relationship by law! It is an experiment before both men and women officially enter the marriage hall. In some relatively traditional families, the act of trial marriage is difficult to accept, because in traditional moral concepts, the behavior of "test marriage" has broken people's seriousness about marriage and abandoned the sexual morality of the monogamous marriage system.
Although in the eyes of outsiders, the parties who tried to get married said "wife and husband" that they were already a husband-wife relationship in form, but it was just that they were not enough to get a certificate, but it was because of this certificate that it was difficult for both men and women to become husbands in the legal sense, and they had no decision-making power in some important matters, or even the right to know!
Some people say that trial marriage and cohabitation are the same in essence, but this statement is not entirely true. Usually, once a man and a woman have the idea of "trial marriage", it means that both parties have the common goal of eventually moving towards marriage and will try their best to maintain their relationship like a real couple. As long as there are no major problems in principle, both parties will join hands to enter the marriage registration office; and some cohabitants may not have marriage commitments, and if they are not in harmony, they will be separated. Therefore, once they encounter problems, they want to give up.
At that time, everything was not absolute. There were many oppositions to the behavior of "trial marriage before marriage", believing that trial marriage is not advisable. If both parties are satisfied and happy, if the trial marriage fails, many unnecessary disputes will arise, and even murder cases will occur where those who are unwilling to accept it will stand up and go to the danger.
has the following reasons: First, because the relationship of "trial marriage" is not protected by law. If there is no prior agreement during the trial marriage, once the "trial marriage" fails, disputes will often arise; second, "trial marriage" must involve cohabitation. With the self-control of today's young people, it is difficult to live in different houses. Once you have sex, there is a risk of pregnancy before marriage. Once you have a situation of pregnancy before marriage, you will not be able to get married, which may cause harm to some women's physical and mental health; third, once the behavior of "trial marriage" is accepted, some people will frequently change their sexual partners under the guise of trial marriage, and even form a "gray industrial chain". While increasing the spread of sexual diseases, it also poses a potential harm to women.
just said that if there is opposition, there will be support, and the attitudes of supporters are mostly that "trial marriage" can test the other side of the other party.
People have too great uncertainty, especially in their marriage life. Many men and women are very sunny and fake before they have "sex". Once they have "sex", their (her) human weaknesses and ugly faces can be nakedly expressed and exposed! "Trial marriage" is a good way. If you want to know a real man or woman, in addition to understanding the rational and moral side of him who can usually go to the table, he should also understand the other side of the shameful and high-level animals before and after she goes to bed. This face is very important to reveal the nature and essence of a human being.
Live together before marriage allows you to fully understand your partner’s character, behavioral style and living habits, which is impossible to live together. Only when two people live together can they understand each other in a detailed and comprehensive manner and see the most real ones.
After trial marriage, both parties often see the most authentic side of each other, including living habits, behavioral styles, personality characteristics, emotional management, etc. The most important thing is that "trial marriage" is a process of deeply intervening in the other party's family. After all, marriage is not just a matter of two people. Marriage involves two people, three families, and two families.
Marriage events, lifelong happiness requires seriousness, caution, and caution, try again and again, and try again and again. Only in this way can you be responsible for yourself and others.
Many friends have questions such as "Should you try to get married?" Why? Because it will test the other party more deeply whether it is suitable. If it is suitable, it is good, but if it is not suitable, separate it. What if only one party thinks it is inappropriate and the other party thinks it is appropriate? What should I do when I encounter such a problem?
But one principle must be followed: whether it is cohabitation or "trial marriage", women must protect themselves.
