As a civilized country of China, as a Chinese, the word "filial piety" has profoundly influenced us. Although "filial piety" has given us education since childhood, everyone seems to have a very different understanding of it.
I saw a video a few days ago, and the content was about that the parents had seven children. When the parents demolished, the demolition funds were tilted more towards the third and the youngest. The reason was that life was more difficult than the youngest and the youngest and the other children. When the parents grew old, none of the seven children was willing to bear the elderly care problem. The reason why the third and the youngest did not bear the responsibility is that they believed that their family conditions were not good, that the other children were richer, and that the other children did not bear the responsibility was because they believed that their parents were biased and did not give up the right amount.
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I was deeply touched after watching this video, and then I wanted to tell you my opinion. The third and the youngest have already received more preference from their parents. When their parents are old, they are unwilling to assume their own responsibilities. Instead, they talk about the bad things that other children have to bear. My parents’ "preference" did not bring about sincere treatment. Instead, I wanted to push out the old "trouble" because of my own reasons. This is neither humane nor justified.
The other five children, because of their parents' "biasedness", seems to make sense, and even the comments posted on the video also commented that "it's right for the other five children, who can't let parents do the same thing." "If I were in such a home, I wouldn't care, and I wouldn't recognize my parents." But thinking about it carefully, it is not the case at all. Let’s not mention the kindness of giving birth to prevent some people from using “I don’t want to be born” to clear their problems. Then let’s talk about raising a child. My friend has calculated the cost of parents starting from growing an adult with a baby. Three meals a day, each meal is 10 yuan, which is 30 yuan a day, and a discount of 10,000 yuan a year. It also costs 180,000 yuan in 18 years. This is just a meal, and the others are even more combined. Although what my friend said is very materialistic, it also makes sense. He later added, "One day someone really wants to ignore their parents and return the money to their parents. Not much, 500,000 is enough. I am also a bit ambitious."
Is there any problem with the parents in the video? Not. Think about it, even one of the seven children is willing to raise them, which is itself a problem for the parents. It's not that the victim has a wrong view, but that I do think so. If parents can learn to be grateful from an early age, they believe that their children will not ignore their parents when they are old, and they will not start to resent because one gives more and the other gives less. After all, strangers give you a bottle of water, and they dare to make a calculation if they dare to make a difference, but you also have to say thank you. Do parents owe their children?
We are all older, and may have forgotten how our parents raised us, and may have forgotten us when we were young, but I hope we can always have a grateful heart and be able to accompany our parents to grow old together as they grow older. Finally, I wish all parents in the world good health.
