The poor and poor way to pass, the rich and rich way to pass, a happy family has a common feature, which is that it is easy to satisfy.
Unfortunately usually comes from comparison. The objects of comparison are different. Some compare material things, some compare emotions, some compare appearances, and some compare status... Comparison comes from greed in human nature. Simple and unpretentious marriage is the natural enemy of comparison.
Every married woman has the shadow of Anna Karenina. She pursues the ultimate romance throughout her life. She cannot be satisfied with fashion and has enough motivation to try. After being satisfied, she can only gain endless emptiness and completely lose the motivation to live...
So Tolstoy said that happy families are similar to each other, and unfortunate families have their own misfortunes. This sentence can be understood as: every family can experience short-term happiness and ultimately find it difficult to escape the misfortune of marriage.
Zhanjiang, Guangdong, a family of four lives an ordinary life. The rise of short video platforms has opened a gap for them, allowing bystanders to see their private lives.
The family conditions are quite average. The couple is a vendor who set up stalls and does business. They are busy preparing ingredients during the day and go out to set up stalls on the streets at night. They usually have to set up stalls until the early morning to go home to rest.
They have two children, one man and one woman, both of whom are still not at school. The couple usually have to take care of their children's daily life and business. Although it is hard, time is always free and life is still acceptable.
Judging from the age of their children, they should have been married for quite a while, but the couple is not old, and they are full of enthusiasm for the future.
The couple was on duty in rotation. One night, the man came home from the stall at night. After entering the door, he saw his wife and daughter holding a small kitchen. There was a steaming hot pot on the table. He sighed: "In the middle of the night, the two mothers and daughters were eating beef offal here. I was setting up a stall outside. Oh..."
Hearing her husband complain, the wife and daughter looked at each other and smiled, and were speechless, and the atmosphere seemed a little awkward.
Compared with his wife and daughter who are not considering his work, what worries him more is the kind reminder given by netizens in the comment section. Many netizens reminded him that there were three bowls on the table, implying that there was another person in the room, which might have been hidden...
The man did not have the same knowledge as these netizens, and did not delete comments or respond. This made more and more netizens interested and began to question his wife's clothes.
A netizen commented: "Why should I wear this kind of clothes when I eat at home in the middle of the night? Who should I show you how beautifully I dressed up for?" The man still did not respond.
Among all the questions, the man only responded to one, which is why the family is so messy. The man said that the lives of rural people are not as refined as those of urban people, and they are not as clean as those of urban people, and they cannot be clean at all because they have children at home.
Then, the man posted a video about his wife cleaning the house, intending to show that it was not that they were sloppy, but that the children were too naughty.
The man said that they were busy setting up food during the day, and from the afternoon to the early morning, the old man was helping with the children at home to clean up the house. They would clean up a little after returning home at night, but the next day the child made a fuss, and it turned back to its original state.
teasing is just a joke. It is difficult for a wife to have a chance to cheat when the elderly and children live in a family. But that doesn't mean there is no need to worry, especially when a man reveals his beautiful wife to the online world.
Wealth is a double-edged sword. Couples can share hardships, but they may not be able to share wealth. The couple obviously grabbed the traffic password and started shooting short films of the same subject.
Last time my husband set up a stall late at night and returned home, he saw his wife and daughter eating hot pot, which attracted a lot of comments from netizens. This time, my wife set up a stall late at night and saw her husband and son eating hot pot.The same plot has a huge difference in effects, and almost no one pays attention to it this time...
Because he got the point wrong, to put it bluntly, netizens are only concerned about the moral issues of a beautiful woman, not their ordinary family trivial matters. If Wu Dalang was not poisoned to death by Pan's family, the family affairs of the Wu brothers would not have been spread for generations.
An ordinary family is trying to seize the opportunity of fate and make their ordinaryness slightly change.
As bystanders, I hope they can seize every opportunity to move upward, and I hope they can cherish the current ordinaryness and make everything less easy to change.
Because the better things are, the more fragile things are, so we have to sigh: If such a harmonious and happy family is destroyed by external forces, it would be a pity.
But we must consider another proposition: Should ordinary people be the only destination for ordinary people? We are born kind, should we be deprived of the qualification to be "arrogant, extravagant and lewd"? Choosing requires a price to bear, but the freedom of choice is a natural right given by God. What do you think!
