In life, most men are actually animals that think with their lower body, especially when facing women, as long as you are the type they like, no matter whether they love you in their hearts or not, once they have the chance to take advantage, most men will not give up.
So, don’t think that a man holding you or kissing you must fall in love with you. It is very likely that he just wants to get you further. Of course, it doesn't mean that men are scumbags. Moreover, if a man will take the initiative to kiss you affectionately, he will most likely love you sincerely.
However, if a man keeps doing such small actions during kissing, it means that he does not love you, but just wants to possess you.

There are many excessive small actions
If a man really loves you, he must respect you in his bones. Because, for him, getting your heart is much more important than the person who gets you, so he will not do something that makes you disgusted in order to satisfy his momentary impulses and desires.
After all, if you are really angry, there is no benefit to him at all. On the contrary, it is likely to cause the relationship to fall to freezing point.
So, when kissing, if a man completely ignores your objection, he will still think of various ways to be tough on you. If you have such a small action, it means that he does not love you, but just wants to possess you.
Because, for him, it doesn’t matter what kind of thought you have, his only purpose is to get you completely as soon as possible.

Never say love words, never promise anything
One thing women should remember: If a man truly loves you, at least when pursuing you, or before he has completely obtained you, he will definitely say the sweetest love words to you, and he will definitely make the best promise to you.
In other words, if a man cannot even give you the most basic promise in the process of getting close to you, then how can you expect him to give you the tomorrow you want?
So, when kissing, if a man never says love words, he will not promise you anything. Even if you have already made it up, he will still refuse. Even if you have drafted all the love words he can say, he is still unwilling to say it out. If such a small action is done, it means that in his subconscious, he does not really love you, but just wants to possess you.
It is precisely because of this in his mind that he refuses to promise so that he can get out of it safely in the future.

Once there is an outsider, you will immediately push you away
No matter at any time, if you truly love someone, you will never be afraid of being known to outsiders.
Some men are very nice to you in private, but when you want him to take you to meet his friends, when you want to participate in his life, he will reject you with various ways, which only means that in his heart, your existence is shameless.
So, when kissing, if a man is not fully devoted, on the contrary, when there is an outsider, he will immediately push you away, for fear that others will discover something. If such a small move means that he does not love you, but just wants to possess you.
Perhaps, in the eyes of outsiders, he has always played the role of being single. Even if you have kissed you, you will still leave yourself a way out and give yourself more opportunities. In his subconscious, in his bones, you may be just one of them, not even one of them, but just a substitute that can be replaced at will.