Statement: is written by Xiaoyaner based on real cases. If there is any similarity, it is purely a coincidence.
1990, I was 22 years old.
At that time, for rural areas, they should have married and had children at this age. If you are still single in two or three years, people will laugh at you and talk about your gossip. Either you are incompetent or you have physical problems. In the final analysis, you are finished and you will be a bachelor in your life.
This year, my mother asked someone to introduce me to a partner. Their village is about twenty miles away from our village.
Her name is Xu Qiaoling, one year younger than me, and she looks pretty beautiful. When we met for the first time, we all fell in love with each other and got along quickly. At that time, we were not as open as we are now. Until the end of the year, we only held hands three times when we got married.
Qiaoling's family offered a bride price of 888 yuan. My parents agreed, after all, it is not easy for them to raise their daughter so big. At that time, the three major items needed for marriage in the city were popular in our rural areas. My parents said that they could be bought by someone.
I originally thought the marriage would be done like this, but Qiaoling's family proposed to ask my parents to build a brick and tile house for us as a wedding house.
My father calculated carefully, but it was not enough. If you can't build a house, the marriage will be ruined like this.
We were treated as a joke. People say that my family was unreasonable and wanted to marry a wife for nothing. To be honest, I really couldn't afford it at that time. Even if it was 2,000 yuan, my father couldn't get it out.
That's it, my first love is on my life road because a house got off the car early.
The girlfriend has been talking about running, but the wife still wants to marry her.
I told my parents that I would go out to work. After earning enough money, I came back to build a house and get married. At that time, there were very few people going out to work here. My parents were worried, but I couldn't persuade me.
I took the train to Shenzhen and walked like many people with the dream of getting rich, but very few people really made money.
And I was even more miserable. I was stumbled alone and couldn't even find a job. Not long after, the money in my pocket was only enough to get back to the trip. I must not be able to stay on the streets, I can only go back with shamelessness.
Maybe I am destined to be a disaster of wandering on the streets. The only money I have to go to the train station was stolen.
I really got to this point. I was begging here. I couldn’t beg for money at that time, but I could fill my stomach.
It was one night, around eleven o'clock, I was sleeping under the bridge hole, I was awakened by the sound of "help" and ran in that direction.
I saw a girl being chased by a man in his thirties.
"What are you doing?" I shouted, thinking that if there were passers-by, the man would leave.
At this time, the girl ran behind me, her body trembled, and she said: Save me.
The man stopped less than three meters away from me, looked me up and down for a while, and then spit out a word: "Get out."
Maybe he saw from me that he was a foreigner, thinking that his domineering aura would scare me away, but I have been influenced by martial arts novels since I was a child. It is my dream to be a hero, let alone save the beauty.
A few rounds and turns, and the man was beaten away by me.
At this time, I was looking back at the girl. She was dressed very fashionable and beautiful.
"Thank you." She said, who came back to her senses from the shock.
"You're welcome, I'm not up to you when I see the road." My Mandarin is not standard, mixed with the earthy taste of our parents.
"Are you people in the north?" the girl also asked in parental words.
"Yes, where are you from?" I also said in my hometown dialect.
so we started chatting.
This girl is named Jiang Yan. She is from the county town of our country. She is about 60 miles away from our village. She also comes here to work and works as a waiter in the karaoke bar. The man who pursues her is the security guard in the karaoke bar and has malicious intentions towards her.
Jiang Yan told me that it was very messy here, and she actually didn’t make much money, so she also planned to go back.
The next day, she bought me a train ticket and we returned to our hometown together.
I thought we would not meet again, but Jiang Yan often came to our village to play with me.
Later she took the initiative to confess to me, but I dared not agree and felt that I was not worthy of her.
Jiang Yan told me that she likes me brave and responsible, and is a man who can be entrusted to life. She doesn't care about the financial conditions. She believes that we will get better and better together.
Jiang Yan and I got married. She followed me in the countryside to face the loess and backs, and I could see the happiness on her face.
1993, we came to the county town where her mother's home was and started a small business, setting up street stalls everywhere.
During this period, we often contacted her sister, my sister-in-law.
Her sister Jiang Xia is only 9 months younger than her. I have always been puzzled, but I dare not ask.
Jiang Xia is very beautiful and cheerful. The person around me who went to my mother-in-law's house to propose marriage was almost kicked out, but she just looked down on it.
1994, Jiang Yan and I had a child, but unfortunately, Jiang Yan passed away because of the dysfunction. He only left me a hungry daughter, and I named her Zhou Siye.
It is very inconvenient for me to take care of a child by a grown man, so Jiang Xia often comes to help me, and sometimes even lives with me. Since Jiang Yan left, Jiang Xia has never called my brother-in-law again, but called her name - Zhou Bin.
Two years later, Zhou Siye grew up. Her name is Jiang Xia’s mother and my father. Jiang Xia often lives with me.
Jiangxia is 28 this year, and some people started to talk, saying that she had long become my woman.
I told Jiang Xia not to come, and I will not talk nonsense from outsiders.
However, what I unexpected was that Jiang Xia confessed to me: "Zhou Bin, I like you. Since my sister left, I want to be with you."
I said how is this possible? You are my sister-in-law.
Jiang Xia said that she and Jiang Yan are not sisters, she was adopted by her parents.
I also like Jiang Xia very much, but I can't agree.
Until Jiangxia was 30 years old, we were officially together and got our marriage certificate.
