It is a very happy thing to have a girlfriend.
, especially your girlfriend is obedient, sensible, gentle and well-behaved, and washes and cooks...
, but it is obvious that you are thinking too much, that is just someone else's girlfriend.
Why are your girlfriends different? I can't coax it well when I get angry. When I coax it, I have various conditions. I open my mouth and I have a brand-name bag... I once wondered if my mother-in-law gave me a fake.
In fact, I don't want any laundry and cooking. I believe that the brothers' requirements are not high. They can have a girlfriend who get along well and tolerate each other. They can support themselves when they are in the most difficult times, understand themselves when they are tired, and keep on happily.
However, after two people get along for a long time, there will inevitably be friction and differences. Quarrels are an indispensable element in love. What is important is whether you can handle it well and make big things smaller.
Couple quarrels with boys and these wrong practices should be avoided.
If it is not handled well, the differences will continue to escalate: quarrels, Cold War , breakup.
The breakup seems to be because of a small thing. In fact, it is the slowly accumulating small details and eventually breaking out, leading to the breakup. So usually if you don’t know how to refrigerate love, don’t know how to maintain a long-term relationship, the paws of breaking up will extend to you one day.
Some time ago, a friend broke up with his girlfriend because he often invited his brothers to have fun. Is this really the case with
? The meaning behind the girl is that you shouldn't always eat and drink with your friends. Do you have time to accompany me?
My brother’s response was: What do you know? What matters between men, you won’t care in the future.
cannot find the main reason for the differences, and the contradictions escalate and become more and more intense. Can't break up?
once or twice, the disagreement cannot be handled for a long time, resulting in the consequences of the breakup.
So when a quarrel occurs in love, don’t have emotional resistance as soon as you come up, this is a big taboo.
"Why are you always so busy?"
"Of course, I'm different from you. How can I make money if I'm not busy!"
"I don't think you don't like me anymore."
"Why do you think so? You're thinking too much."
"Don't you tell you that I don't like lettuce?"
"Why do you have so many things? What's the big deal?"
emotional resistance cannot solve any problem, it will only intensify the quarrel between you, which is of course not what you want to see.
Girls are emotional and easily emotional. As long as we understand what she means behind this sentence and then give emotional comfort, the effect will be completely different.
For example, a girl tells you "Why are you always so busy?" What she means behind her is that you haven't been with her for a long time, she just hopes you can stay with her.
When we understand her emotions, we can say this: "Dear, sorry, I'm really too busy during this period. I don't have time to accompany you. I want to be with you too. When this period is over, I will accompany you well."
Then you can hug her tightly, and then...
Another example is when a girl says "I miss you don't like me." The girl just thinks you don't care about her, you don't care about her.
understands the meaning behind this sentence, we can say to her: "You are so beautiful, gentle, kind and cute. How can I not like you? If you think I don't like you, then I will praise you in the future."
Then you can hug her tightly, and then...
's future pictures will replenish your brain by yourself. Next, let's summarize the key points:
When your girlfriend is angry, don't have emotional resistance. You must understand the main reason why she is angry, then give emotional comfort, and finally provide a solution.
It is simple to understand the truth, the important thing is whether you can do it.
If you can do it, your girlfriend will definitely be as obedient and sensible as my girlfriend, gentle and well-behaved, and do laundry and cook.
By the way, if the girl says to you, "Didn't you tell you that I don't like lettuce?" What do you think her off-topic means? What would you answer? (The message area is waiting for you)
